So many men...not enough time!  

Tiffy2u 60F
16 posts
3/23/2005 4:16 am

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So many men...not enough time!

When I first came to this site I told myself I would answer every message I got from guys. I did quite well for a while but the steady trickle became a raging torrent and I found I was spending all my time here replying to messages instead of exploring the site like I wanted.

I decided to be a little more choosy about who I would respond to. Firstly, I wouldn't reply to anyone under 40 because I wasn't looking for a 'toy boy'! Next to go were the "I have a 9 incher and that's just my tongue" type messages! Then it had to be the ones that were either written by someone unfamiliar with the English language or by someone totally illiterate.

At last I could come here, check my messages, reply to those who met my criteria and then read some stories, check out the magazine and even create this BLOG! I am having fun but I have to admit... I still feel a tiny tinge of guilt about not answering everyone.

How do other women manage their inbox?

567982 58M

3/23/2005 7:15 am

I know this dosn't answer your question, but I had to say what a spectacular behind you have

rm_lile0104 39M

3/23/2005 12:02 pm

I don't no but I hope you answer me I no I'm 26, u don't answer us "toy boy" but I 9 and some and that's not wint my tounge but more than sex. I hope you hit me back cause I realy want, would like to help you see the sights, for you to show me some I haven't seen around town. Eric

Tiffy2u 60F
5 posts
3/24/2005 3:45 am

Oh deary me Eric... you actually meet all of the criteria I have set for non-fraternisation! I would tell you to get a grip, but I am sure you would automatically assume that I meant something else and that is not a pretty picture to imagine! Hey I always try to find something good to say about a person and well, ummmmm, let me think, oh made me laugh!

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
3/25/2005 12:55 pm

I've only been here a few days and I have sent out about 20 e-mails. No responses. Not discouraged really, since that is such a small number. But I have been browsing the blogs and other writings available on here and it seems that for single men it is a tough market. For women it is more wide open. I haven't seen many women responding to your thread, but I suppose they do what you do. After all you cant be expected to answer all that mail anyways.

Tiffy2u 60F
5 posts
3/27/2005 4:34 am

Keith, you are on the right track. Your pic is great, you are using the extras on the site which will get you noticed, and you are obviously literate. Your profile is under review but I notice quite a few 'prefer not to say' answers. Might be a good idea if you could get rid of those unless you are trying to maintain some privacy. Good luck!

jantantra 51M
1 post
3/31/2005 6:24 am

Well if it helps, men also can get lots of stupid replies to profiles....I mean I am pretty blunt with my profile and pic as to what I am after and also I get lots of fairly inane comments and men offering to do all sorts of things to me..

I mean just because I am honest and make it real clear I am after terrific sex it doesn't mean I am desperate or everyone I am after the whole package, or at least an interesting part of the whole package, or someone cool, or with something new...

So I haven't managed to keep up with all the "Lets meet up and I'll suck you" messages. For the guys out there get wise - there are far more guys out there sending stupid messages than I could ever reply to or ever meet up with even if I was just after men, so you would have to show somehow you are interesting or special. For the record I really love women and couples, but if there is a really nice guy - yeah I will look twice, and maybe even touch! - but not from these stupid unimaginative emails...

8 posts
10/22/2005 6:00 pm

hi tiff, enjoyed yr blog. think i have learned something. i am not very clued up on things computer wise but everyone has to Lean sometime. I am very experienced in other ways though..i love the cheeky, naughty little bottom..just awaiting my cool palms to caress and massage a little love oil on them, not really to lube but to have you more aware as i begin to spank, wake up the nerve endings so to speak. it looks like a virgin canvas but alas a bottom like that will have attracted many admirers I'm sure....sigh!.. a pretty bottom with a blush of pink always looks nicer to me, even perfection can be improved upon. The soft caress of a lightly traced finger upon lightly spanked flesh is always appreciated i find... don't you?.

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