ThrillSeekaAtl 44M
18 posts
8/13/2006 2:54 am

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5/25/2009 1:36 pm


Ok here is my dilema....Met a very pretty and sexxxy lady from this site who wanted to hook up for a one time NO STRINGS ATTACHEDnight of wild freaky sex.....Before we met she was very persistant in stating that this would be a NO STRINGS ATTACHED affair and for me not to get caught up....I agreed that I would be ok and so we met....We seemed to hit it off and I must admit I put it down as I am known for rolling with the BIG DAWGS....A few days later she hits me up wanting to get down again and I agree.....Shortly after I receive a call from another friend from this site who is feeling really hot and horny and she ask if 3would be company.....I call my friend back as she is bi and she seems to be cool with the idea of my other lady friend coming through.....Everything starts to go down and is going perfectly until MS. NO STRINGS ATTACHED seems to catch an attitude and pulls me to the side.....She now questions me about how often I meet other ladies from the site and appears to be uncomfortable that I have met other ladies besides herself......Needless to say she all of a sudden has a bad headache and cuts the night short......I receive a call back from her about 30 mins after she leaves and she is upset that I am still meeting other women on the site after I met her......WTF MAN???...Needless to say now I am the bad guy and I play too many games according to her........Can anyone tell me where I went wrong?

sexxxyladi 45F
4 posts
8/24/2006 8:16 pm

If you don't mind me weren't in the wrong. This site is ADULT Frind Finder. Some people just can't get that concept going. Ladies, please, for the sake of the rest of the adults on this site...SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!! DAYUM

Redsnapper694 49F

8/31/2006 8:01 am

You didn't that is what this site is all about. MEETING AND FUCKING

sweet4u21971 47F

4/25/2007 4:55 pm

WTF is right. I actually get turned on hearing about the exploits that men I've been with have had. Not that I'm comparing notes. Not into that, but I like to know that a man I've been with is desired by other women. It's very hot!

rm_jus4lust3 54M/54F
1 post
5/9/2007 6:31 am

Yeah I can tell you where you went wrong you are a fkn liar on the phone and a liar on this paper the whole blog is probably a lie just like you...You waste the time of others and dont even give a fk....You probably put up this phony blog just to draw attention...good grief dude you are over 30 years old and still live in an apartment so guess what any female that is inamored by the likes of you is probably ghetto and didnt even write her own profile.
You are a Hippocrite to write such a blog anyway...Getting upset at the woman for pulling the same shyt you pull...You are just trying to draw attention to yourself. You are just like most of the other males on this site..full of least be a man about it
and quit fake bytchin...cause you do bytch minded stuff tooo...I know Ive spoken to you on the phone and even have your

rm_secsinuup2 35F

5/24/2007 3:21 pm

WOW....discrete2k7 must have been that NSA chick. I tell you what, you must have something good to make a female who claims they only want a NSA relationship to go all hay wire on you. But one thing I can say is, its not your problem, it's theirs. If they are not secure enough in there own emotional state to seperate genuine like from occasional cut, then they are not someone to be messing with. Some women, as old as they might be and as grown as they think they are, trully dont know their selves or what it is that they are trully looking for, thats how they get caught up in feelings when they get dicked down really good. Sweetie, you just keep laying it down like you do, and let them heffas deal with they own identity/emotional crisis. YOU arent doing anything except giving them what they asked for, SOME GOOD DICK!!!

rm_missjosey23 34F

7/6/2007 7:58 pm

I'm with you secinuup2....Women say they only want a man that can give them good dick and then they turn around and want to fall in love....These types of chicks ruin it for everyone else who wants a good nut every now and then....If you can't be upfront with yourself and tell a man what you really want then you need to stop playing the game or continue to get played....And Mr. ThrillseekaATL you keep doing you baby....Lay it down and keep it moving....If you ever around my way....Hit me up!!!

affair4pleasure2 54M/55F
3 posts
7/20/2007 8:07 pm

Obviously she didn't read your profile. You must be good at what you do. We have experienced similar situations. When you're good, you're good.


ThrillSeekaAtl 44M
1 post
8/2/2007 7:22 am

Whats good folkz? I haven't been back to read my responses to my blog for quite a long time but I now have and I appreciate everyone for all their kind words and insite on the topic......But I see that there is a hater in the midst and as always there has to be at least one.....DISCRETE2K7.....To clarify the issue at hand I will shed some light on the situation and I will be brief.....I hit this lady up on her profile here on AdultFriendFinder and what I got was a dude that wanted to come over along with his lady......He continued to call and we chatted and I realized that I did not want to deal with them....That was the day before "HE" he replied with all the bullshit that u see above......It seems like someone is mad because I did not want to get up with his lady while he was there.....HATE ON HATA...Don't get mad because u can't satisfy ya lady and u want me to so u can learn my technique.......Didn't know that since people are over 30 and live in an apartment that they were
But anyway dude don't have a pic on a profile pretending to be a woman but in actuality you are a man wanting to watch...YOU ARE JUST BOGUS!!!!!!!!

spiceypazazz 40F
8 posts
8/17/2007 7:20 am

Nice tool (seems like it has caused alot of drama and tension)...This is a sex site not one for relationships!! And everyone please be honest with yourselves and is better to spell out what you want to stick to it!!

bloovelvet 57M

10/11/2007 5:34 am

You did nothing wrong brother. Some ladies are just used to wearing the man down and she obviously got out-fucked and couldn't handle the fact. As they used to say, she got sprung. A piece of advice; don't give them the whole dick until you know that they can handle it emotionally. You have to spoon feed them first.

UrgedTunasIdler 47F

1/12/2008 10:40 pm

D'uh !! How does she think she met you? She was the one who demanded NSA, not you, and then she trips ballz on you. Wow. She is 2 things that I know of already. 1.) She is kookoo for cocoa puffs and 2.) She is a badder bitch than me for fucking with that giant Good luck Thrill

DeepThroatFreak 50F

3/30/2008 7:57 am

It's hard to make a fair and logical response when you're only getting one side of the story. I can't help but wonder if Thrillseeka led this lady on in some way. Nevertheless, her reaction seems unreasonable after just one booty call. I know first hand that guys (and probably just as many women) on this site lie just to get some wet cat. I tried to be as explicitly honest as possible in my profile without sounding rude or dic greedy but you have to say what you mean and mean what you say and it starts with an honest profile. But in the end, remember, you are still meeting a homosapien and homosapiens lie.... Of mutual consent, I've actually dated a couple of guys from this site. A few will be longterm friendships but one guy lied as often as he inhaled. All I'm saying is that ultimately, this is a sex site and should be treated as such. In the end, if you're straightforward and honest, even if someone gets the wrong impression of your relationship goals, at least you know you haven't lead them in the wrong direction....and ladies, we have to be careful not to be led because we are old enuf to know the game...I.E., TREAT OTHERS LIKE YOU WANT TO BE TREATED!!

SuchaFucknlady 104F  
7 posts
5/20/2008 7:55 am

DeepThroat....what two sides? You tripping. The man states in his profile NSA. Fuck da bullshit. If he led her on beyound that, its on her dumb azz and she should not have fell for the okiedok. Exclusivity from a sex site partner. WTF?!?!?!?!

As for that couple........whew weeeeeee!!!! Can you spell H.A.T.E.R.? OR Perhaps POTENTIAL STALKER!!!! Dayummmm. They got yo "number and address"........WTF?!?!?!?!

This site is beginning to wear on my nerves.

Yo dawg, don't lose sleep over it. Who gives a flying fuck what others think of you. If you ain't feeling her anymore, fuck her. You don't love dese hoes.

Keep sllinging Boo.

01citygirl32 43F

6/9/2008 7:46 am

Well all I can say is I understand. I have not meet a high number of guys on this site but, DAYUM! About half wanted to turn things into a relationship. I had to edit my profile and be a little more clear. One man emailed me and cussed me out for not wanting to see him any more after he started acting "crazy".
I don't understand it. I am not really against letting things progress but both people have to feel mutual about it, if not there are lots and lots more of where that came from on this site, just pick another one move it along.
Plus one would think that if you are on this site you should presume that if a person was willing to meet you then they are meeting others as well and if something does progress from it (me being a woman) that the guy is a swinger type and the relationship will be a swinger type relationship. If he is on here he wouldn't want to be monogamous, so you have to know that you would keep dealing with that aspect anyway.
We just all need to be adults and grow up, put on the big girl pants and if you run up on one that is too good to you and you know that you will not be able to control yourself then be the mature one and cut it off. It's the right thing to do.
Mr.Thrillseeker Please do not let her frustrate you or discourage you. Just looking at your picture it seems that you can put in the work and I'm sure that she is just mad that someone else is getting that after knowing how good it is. It is the chance we all take on here. So keep smiling and doing your thing and making the good ladies of this site glad they joined!

rm_eatmysnax 33F

10/1/2008 9:49 pm


DeepThroatFreak 50F

1/2/2009 7:59 am

Suchafuckinlady, I've read several profiles on this site where the people met here and went on to have lasting relationships. Sometimes people just click and it doesn't matter where or how you meet...yes, even on a sex site it can happen. He can state in his profile NSA and say something entirely different in person if he thought it would expedite his getting a good fuck. So I'm sorry you don't understand the meaning of honesty, but it can help avoid a lot of confusion. With that said, if he in all actuality didn't lead her on, then it's her problem but like I said, there's 2 or more sides to every story.

babyboyy1979 38M  
17 posts
2/28/2009 8:19 am

Man Some females start off saying what they want but once you get with them and put it down with the conversation/ tongue / dick/ and just the totaly pleaseing of them / putting them first they are hook. So keep putting it them and always put them first. Thats what I do Bro

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