Giving up  

TheRealThing96 59F
56 posts
3/21/2006 6:48 pm

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5/15/2006 1:40 pm

Giving up

I am about to just give up.... on men, on meeting anyone decent.... on it all. Either you meet someone so freakin needy, or you meet someone that has stipulations as to when they can spend time with you..... Why not just go with the flow? Why not just let happen naturally what is meant to happen? So, I am a breath away from giving up.

(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

3/21/2006 7:32 pm

"Go with flow"...If they can't they are married. Just keep in mind there's a 10:1 ratio men to women and most of them(not all) are here for one thing fuck and suck o.k. thats two but you see what I mean If your wanting more it will take more time to find someone hang in there and good luck...Ready


rm_guyinokemos 69M
103 posts
3/21/2006 7:39 pm

It's like I'm looking in a mirror reading your words. I could have written then any time in the last few months. Don't give up. There is someone out there for you. I too know it shouldn't be this hard. Smile and when you least expect it, he'll walk across the room and pick up that little white handkerchief that you accidently dropped. He'll look you in the eye and smile, and return your cherished belonging.

Hey, it could happen. Don't give up the dream.......


rm_solystis 71M
167 posts
3/22/2006 9:44 pm

I agree with guyinokemos... dont give up but dont try to hard either.. have patience and relax... you are bound to find someone worthwhile


TheRealThing96 59F

3/23/2006 1:45 am

I give up. I am not really "looking" just open to see what happens. But the men I have been out with, with the exception of 1, has been out for the sex mainly. I mean, I know that that is an important aspect to a relationship, but at my age, there is alot more that takes priority. Men today are the same as when I was in highschool, driven by their sexual wants. You would think, that after a while, they would realize that there is so much more to a relationship than sex.... and if the relationship and all that it entails is good, the sex will be just as good.

rm_joshnyadeep 66M
100 posts
3/24/2006 7:36 pm

girlfriend, you need to IM me!i`m not gonna sit back and just watch ya give up. i know i`ve not been on here that much lately,but that is going to change soon!after the whipping you gave me about giving up,you really think i`m gonna let you? ha! not with out some good chat to straighten this all out.

wordstoholduby 54M

4/26/2006 11:02 pm

I cannot count the many times that I felt the way you do. Being married has an interesting dichotomy. The single women (most) give you a speech or some kind of BS about values (as well as married, divorced and separated). The married women are up to their ears in drama or falsly post information like their description or pics. This is an adult site in which the premise is sex. It is advertised as such. Women need to get used to the fact that they will be hit on. A lot of men will be shitheads and that goes for women too. So excuse a man that may be married or single who may be really nice but is in a lonely place. It is male driven website. For most of the women, the odds are in their favor regardless of the amount of email they get. Send me that kind of email and give me that kind of choice and I would know what to do with it! I really hope you find what you are looking for. In this venue, anything goes.

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