Thangz 45F
70 posts
1/25/2006 5:27 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


An interesting thought occurred to me as I was reading. I have been bouncing around and reading different profiles from all over. The number one thing that someone seems to want is "someone sexy" ... hmm sexy? how interesting. Isnt that a personal choice more than a given? I know men who wont date a woman who is too thin and prefer a voluptuous or full figured woman and I know men who prefer a slender and petite bodied woman. Does this make one any less sexy than another? I dont think so. I think that sexy is something that you have to have within your heart and that will make the difference in how you carry yourself.

might have to revisit this thought later....

keithcancook 61M
18125 posts
1/25/2006 6:33 pm

Sexy is subjective.

LilSquirt_4mfm 68M/69F
3394 posts
1/25/2006 7:22 pm

I think that sexy is something that you have to have within your heart and that will make the difference in how you carry yourself

You really have it figured and also said it WELL!!!

If a man has it inside and if we click and genuinely "like" each each other's way of thinking and prsenting themselves ... it's a go for sure ...age, looks size be cum irrelevant.

Speaking for myself'

vicgent4u 53M
43 posts
1/28/2006 7:41 am is a combination of the way one person perceives another's physical, intellectual, inter/personal and emotional characteristics.... one man's meat is another man's poison..

stov62 56M
10 posts
2/3/2006 1:22 pm

What if sexy is merely a mood or frame of mind? After all, when one posits that another is attractive, stimulating or arousing don't they really mean that such is what they find so? The eye seeks, thereby covets and in so doing becomes an individual enterprise.... Subjective? Well, that is merely another way of labelling such behaviors, lol.

Thangz 45F

2/4/2006 10:05 am

ahh but is it always the eye that makes the difference in what someone feels or desires? or is it the inner beauty that shines through? For me I dont put a lot into the physical simply as I have dated men who are physically beautiful but ugly inside. I much prefer a man who has character, self-respect, confidence, personality. Those make a man sexy to me. They are what maintains a person's sensuality when the outer package fades with time .. isnt that where we should base "sexy" and not so much on an outer wrapping?

stov62 56M
10 posts
2/8/2006 2:07 pm

In simple, no. The eye is not responsible for feelings that may or may not develop later. The eye merely sets the stage and prompts one to action. What you say is likely correct in that physical beauty (the "veneer") may be marred by an ugly interior, yet said person may remain physically attractive but no longer "sexy", as "sexy" remains a frame of mind by the individual so engaged. However, I do appreciate what you are saying and I do find you intriguing, please continue your musings as I do appreciate the read. Until next...

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