Female/Male Sluts  

Tempt_Me_Now 51F
20 posts
6/5/2006 8:02 pm

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6/10/2006 12:20 am

Female/Male Sluts

What makes it so right to be a male slut and do anything that walks but if you a female and have the same way of thinking your A slut, whore, and anything else.

I have never truely understood this bias way of thinking.

I am an educated woman, who owns her own house (yes paid for), her own business and is independant. So why is it wrong or slutty for me to just want sex and as much of it as I can have with out the added committment of a relationship?

rm_Pebcac80 43M
104 posts
6/5/2006 8:56 pm

It's a relic from throwback understanding of medicine. Remember, for years, doctors would offer to relieve women of 'hysteria' by basically using a vibrator on them.

The medical community for hundreds of years were basically convinced that women were nothing but a 'vessel' for the output of men, and so, whether sex was enjoyable for them or not was a ridiculous question. In the early 1600s, some doctors pronounced that women who 'enjoyed' sex were far less likely to have good children, etc. etc. be loyal, etc. etc. This is primarily because men had no idea WTF they were doing and didn't really want to listen to women give them tips (my shorthand).

So, women who DID enjoy sex and sought it were seen as "sluts" because they had not accepted what was "supposed" to be their place in the universe.

In a sick way, this habit extended so far as to basically come into mutiliation of girls in the middle east as a means to remind them of their "place"

Hell, here in the US, and more liberated countries, women should be a lot prouder of their ability to accept and express their desires. For hundreds of years, that was a significant hurdle in a woman's life. Part of the women's lib movement, etc. was the ability for women to be proud of who they are. And women, exactly as men, are sexual beings. The stereotypical "slut" bit is just a throwback; and people who use it in any way more then joking fun amongst friends are just acting as troglodytes.

In the end, women realized that being repressed basically sucks. And why should they be forced to follow the same codes of decorum that have dogged women since the dark ages? There just isn't a good reason to hold onto those rules at all.

florallei 100F

6/5/2006 9:22 pm

It seems to me that most men do like sluts...do they not like their wives or girlfriends as the "prim and proper" woman to the outside world and yet in their bedrooms, behind closed doors they want them to behave like a "slut" to satisfy all their sexual desires.

They want it all and if their wives or girlfriends no longer behave like "sluts" by satisfying their sexual desires they just get a surrogate, substitute or "slut" and call it an affair. I may be wrong but it is only an honest observation.

My thoughts are not meant to offend any wives or girlfriends out there. If it does I apologize.

SirMounts 104M

6/5/2006 11:04 pm

When I used to hitchhike, I thought it was unfair that girls got picked up faster than Guys. It's a crazy world, isn't it? *winking*

TurnLock 61M
577 posts
6/6/2006 3:10 am

I believe it's from the old time thinking when women were considered like property for the husband. During a highly religious time, a woman who had sex before marriage was damaged and considered a whore. That thinking has been past down for generations and society won't let go of that image. We all know better and eventually our thinking will influence the future.

LustyTaurus 50M
21253 posts
6/7/2006 9:08 pm

You're hanging with the wrong crowd is all...

I see nothing wrong with either sex living life the way they want to live it.

bluepickle 53M
83 posts
6/8/2006 3:23 pm

Life is bizarre in so many ways, and that so many double standards exist. They slap you in the face all the time, and sometimes, you just want to slap back. My motto is, do what you feel is right for you, and to heck with everyone else.

rm_teddy6626 51M

6/22/2006 7:10 pm

Way to go baby. get all the cock you can and to hell with what the hypocrits think, because they are all getting all the they can too.Its your body and your pleasure, live it up and enjoy because we dont live for ever. Hell i'd do ya.

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