not sure  

TB49er 42F
633 posts
6/19/2006 8:43 am

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6/22/2006 8:29 pm

not sure

Ok so when I was split from my husband the first time I met a guy and he was so nice...we saw each other a lot and the sex was WOW!!!!! Long story short....he went back to his wife of 12 years. Well I got a call last night from him saying he wanted to talk. I met him...he told me he and his wife are splitting here is the part that the red flags come up. Do I say ok it has been six months sure come back into my life or do I say....sorry you had your chance see you later? He is a nice guy, but I do not want to get hurt.

rm_caponedundee 53M

6/19/2006 10:03 am

It's a tough call TB. Maybe stay friendly with him for some time & see if he goes back again.

TB49er 42F

6/19/2006 11:03 am

I have to think of my kids so I was thinking just on telling him to hit the road.....but the sex was off the

rm_caponedundee 53M

6/19/2006 12:58 pm

well don't let him buy you drinks, you know what happens to the legs!! LOL! You'll have to be careful with the kids and not let them get attached to somebody until your sure.

corvairguy 66M

6/20/2006 10:14 pm

TB, Sex isn't everything! As much as we want it to be, there is more to life than sex.

I have to say that if he went back to his ex or wife once, he will do it again.

I tried to convey something like that to you when you wanted to get back together with yours.

You have a life now, live it. Don't try to get married tomorrow cause it won't work, you are on the so called rebound, take it easy on the marriage end. If it is meant to happen, you won't stop it!

Hugs, Ken

TB49er 42F

6/20/2006 10:51 pm

I know What you are saying Ken...I have to think as well that there are kids involved and do I want to put that in the picture.

Jeff's remark has to do with a joke I sent him about alcohale being bad for my legs.....they

corvairguy 66M

6/22/2006 7:07 pm

I'll remember the alchohol! LOL

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