Summer goals and dreams...  

Synn74 43F
1142 posts
4/10/2006 10:06 am
Summer goals and dreams...

deep breath ...

Okay this morning I have had a delighful conversation with Aascrompn about goals of losing weight and toning up and various other things... I admitted to him that even though I am extremely unhappy with myself and really want to change I feel that I have no support to do so.. I am 5'1 and about 70 lbs overweight I have never lost the 65 lbs I gained from my pregnancy and my daughter will be 6 in June...

I hate the way I look now...
I look at my Sr Pics and want to cry I was a 122lbs and an ass most men drooled over I miss that girl.. I want her back!!! Now I still won't be drop dead gorgeous but atleast I can be proud of myself again

My husband has told me regardless of how much weight I lose he will not notice because he sees me everyday so how would he notice *grumbles*
mind you this is the same man who swears he loves me yet there has been hardly any physical intamacy and NO sex in almost 2 months..( let's not go there)

Yes I WANT TO DO THIS...I NEED to do this.. not only for my health but for my daughter too..she deserves to have a healthy and happy mom..

with brings me to my happiness...
*smiles at thought of this man...

I have grown to love someone as my friend and possibly more someday...(we'll see )
but I want him to find me beautiful too he makes me feel beautiful and I want to look as beautiful as me makes me feel...

aascrompn said he would be my support buddy and that if I work hard enough I CAN BE the WOMAN I want to be again
and hopefully the woman "he" wants to be with... ( no ladies not Aascrompn ) he is a cutie though isn't he ..hehe

we shall see

To Aascrompn thank you for showing me I have alot to gain for this

You're becomming a great friend I'm glad to have on my team!!!!

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

spacecadet561 61M

4/28/2006 3:14 pm

Each time you lose a dress size, get yourself a new one. Make each one pricier and more provocative than the one before. If he doesn't notice the dress or the bill for it, he doesn't give a damn and you should do what makes YOU happy.

Good luck.


mycin62 55F

4/12/2006 7:49 pm

I'm right there with you sister, I have to drop a few pounds too. I'll support you if you support me. Matter of fact, I'm going to the gym tonight, my gym is open 24 hours, so no excuses there!!!

You can do it, we can both do it!!!


woofff 42F

4/12/2006 6:06 pm

please share your 'after' picture with us here. Would love to be happy for you. I already wish you the best.


warmandsexy52 65M
13164 posts
4/12/2006 4:23 pm

I free-fly so I have to always be aware of my body weight. I eat light and don't snack. I hardly ever eat fries or fatty foods. I still drink beer from time to time and might even have the odd bar of chocolate.

When I lost 25lb in weight three years ago I actually plotted my progress on a graph (using excel - how nerdy is that?) and rewarded myself only if I was "ahead of target". I lost the weight and it hasn't come back.

You don't have to get manic about exercise. Regular moderate exercise that you like will work for you, even walking, but if you can face the gym 2 hours a week will tone everything up.

Good luck!

warm xx

Jeepidiot 43M

4/12/2006 3:17 pm

Best of luck to you.

aascrompn 43M
6444 posts
4/12/2006 6:34 am

It's not me that did anything, other than tell you what I went through... You see, you already had the desire! Can you possibly fathom how many people don't have any desire to change at all? They are happy coming home, plopping on the couch w/ their potato chips and watching TV all night long.

I have given you a guide to follow. There are many great programs out there which will give you great results, however, this was the easiest one for me. This will not only help you w/ your body goals, this will help you w/ your confidance, your child (as she will look up to you for doing something goal oriented), and your husband (who won't admit it now, but will when the results are in). This program really is life altering!

Yes, I will be your support group. I will check in w/ you weekly and I will hold you accountable!

Synn74 43F
1206 posts
4/11/2006 6:49 am

and yes guys I realize that I prolly made alot of you think ewwwww... but believe me I'm there with you...I just need to realize that in order to love myself I have to be honest with myself even if it's to admit I'm carrying too much weight in my stomach ass n hips...

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

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