Till death us do part..  

SxyCrazyCool 39F
633 posts
2/20/2006 10:09 am

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Till death us do part..

– "I take thee to be my wedded husband, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, honor and obey, till death do us part" –

What kind of a promise is that?
Like I said; old fashioned.. and rather dishonest as well if you ask me..
However at any random moment in time, is one able to make a promise that will last a lifetime? People change. That's a fact. Life happens and people change. You can't make a promise that lasts from now until eternity! No wonder so many weddings break up!

In fact it is my believe that it's rather silly to make any promise at all, because no one is able to look in the future. A promise is always something -in the future- and I don't know what will happen in the future. For starters I dont even know if I'll be alive, but let's assume that I will. Then I still don't know (after -pieces of- life happened) if my opinions and feelings on the matter are the same.. So how can I ever make a promise?
Only thing I can do is make an intention statement. Like when I find My One, I make in intention statement. Hahaha I tried to write something down just now, but the right words wont come cuz I've not met him yet. But never will I make a promise to someone that I will spend the rest of my life with him, that I'll be only his to have and to hold from this day forward blabla until I die.
I really do think that's a ridiculous promise to make..

But anyway.. My real question was..
When is something considered 'cheating'?
But I'll have to post that in a next post now..

crazygurl2xx 58F

2/20/2006 10:50 am

It is cheating when the other person doesn't know and you are lying about it. If you have an open relationship and you are honest about it with your parner, the only thing you are cheating is the system!

SxyCrazyCool 39F

2/20/2006 11:44 am

To add a bit of humor:


A guy out on the golf course takes a high speed
ball right in the crotch
Writhing in agony, he falls to the ground. As
soon as he could manage,
he took himself to the doctor.

He said "How bad is it doc? ... I'm going on my
honeymoon next week and
my fiane is still a virgin in every way". The doctor told
him, "I'll have to put your
willie in a splint to let it
heal and keep it straight. It should be okay next
week." He took four
tongue depressors and formed a neat little 4 sided
splint, and taped it all
together; .... an impressive work of art.

The guy mentions none of this to his girl,
marries her, and goes on their honeymoon. That
night in the motel room,
she rips open her blouse
to reveal her beautiful breasts. She said,
"You're the first; no one
has EVER touched these." He immediately drops his pants and
replies, "Look at this, . . . . still in the CRATE!"

rm_vaihtelu1969 49M
1260 posts
2/20/2006 11:22 pm

I would see it as if it hurts partners feelings whether you tell or not.

-Vaihtelu1969 to spice you up-

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