Moving Too Fast  

Sweetpickles69 48F
4147 posts
7/7/2006 8:14 am

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Moving Too Fast

Have you ever went too fast in a relationship?
I know I do it alot. I can't help myself. I think it's my impatient Aries nature. I can't help it when something feels so right. Recently, I've been getting "addicted" to a certain playmate, & my friends are voicing their concern. They just don't want me getting hurt. It's a great feeling knowing I have friends here that care about me so much.

Most of my relationships have moved fast. Take my marriage for example. I met my husband on a saturday night, by tuesday he moved in, then 10 months later we got married. He wanted to get married after 3 months, but I at least was able to make him wait a little longer. I wish I would've just lived with him though. Live & learn I guess.

I'm trying so hard to take things slower now, but I believe in fate or destiny. I think people come into our lives for a reason, be it good or bad. All I can do is hope for the best, & enjoy the ride as far as it takes me!

What is considered moving too fast anyway? Are there any set rules?

It's not like we're planning to move in together....yet! Even though his mother has suggested it after meeting me. She even suggested the "fuck buddy" thing, she says, "Everyone can use a "fuck buddy"!" LOL! If she only knew we already are at that stage! I wonder what my parents will think of him. I already have my lil sister's approval, & she says we're GREAT for each other. Guess I'll let the strings form & deal with them when the time comes.
Thanks to everyone that has voiced their concerns for me. I'll keep them in mind!

What do you consider moving too fast? Have you ever moved to fast in a relationship? I'd love to hear your stories!


company_od 44M
70 posts
7/7/2006 3:11 pm

Certainly can sympathize on the moving fast. That is how all my relationships have been. I always try to put some brakes on things but its usually well after things are serious. I know that you should always follow your head but sometimes the heart is louder and sometimes other things too, lol. Just don't ignore your head and you'll be fine.

rm_DarknStar 55F
2823 posts
7/8/2006 4:29 pm

like we say, get it while you can!!

on the serious side, Glad you found that someone that makes you Happy!

Lucky dog, pickles!

HaplyTeresKooky 57M
46 posts
7/29/2006 4:42 am

Sweetpickles I hope this relationship last longer then some of your others. I wish you the best and love your new picture on your profile. I appreciate you care so much for others to be happy too. Ken

LicIWill 53M
402 posts
7/29/2006 8:27 am

I don't know if I would call it "too" fast, but I tend to move fast in a relationship as well. I don't believe there are any set rules to follow when beginning a relationship. I go with my feelings. I refuse to second guess or talk myself out of a relationship. If it is feeling right, I go for it!! Whether you go fast or slow, the chances are that you are going to get hurt if it doesn't work out. I have been hurt before, and I have gotten over it........I can get over it again.

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