Hi there fellow bloggers  

SweetIrishLady 58F
41 posts
4/18/2006 8:39 pm

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11/30/2007 12:49 am

Hi there fellow bloggers

I haven't been here in a while. I've been trying to enjoy the weather, which finally decided to change. We are having a thunderstorm right now. I don't mind having those at night as they somehow relax me. Raining during the day when it should be sunny just isn't fair. *Lol*

My kids just went home after having dinner here. We watched American Idol, House, and Nashville Stars. My grandson was nice and hyper as usual. I can't wait until the pool open so we can all take advantage of it. I live on the court yard side of a fairly nice apartment complex. It's beautiful to look outside and see all the greenery and the kids playing.

I'm still procrastinating about getting out. I'm asking myself if it is because I'm not ready to do the "date" thing or because I worry about rejection or worse. It's not like I have felt rejection before, but I haven't been around anyone but my ex since I was 16 yrs old, except for the couple of dates I've had since my divorce.

Has anyone met a special person on here? Or is it better to look around your area and not meet people online? Opinions please

1girlrevolution 48F

4/18/2006 8:47 pm

Hey SweetIrish,
I've met a variety of people. The bloggers are the best, but as far as dating ... honestly, I've had a great time. I've met great guys, had great sex, found passion and friendships. I've also found slime and low class dumb fucks. After a little experience, I can now usually weed through the crap via email and won't meet them until I'm comfortable. Take your time and don't be afraid to ask questions and try and strike up conversations. There are a few good guys out there. It just takes a little while to find them, or they find you.

1thightickler 60M

4/18/2006 9:19 pm

i agree with 1girl i have meet some good friends here and a couple not so good too. i love the adventure of meeting new people and feel i'm a better person for meeting some. so don't date do a group thing where you can be around friends but not locked into a date. as for special person not yet but you never know maybe the date tomorrow night you never know. do look around your area too one never knows where that special person is hiding lol
good luck in your adventure i enjoy reading about it

Djeeper1987 48M

4/18/2006 9:40 pm

Been doing this since 2003, and its tough. However I have had the pleasure have meeting some people whom I chat with online from time to time. All I can say is take it one day at a time. Good Luck!

Carpe Diem

saddletrampsk 55F

4/18/2006 9:41 pm

I agree with 1girl..take your time and follow your gut instinct..good luck..

cpl50011 58M/52F
1 post
4/25/2006 1:34 pm

Always remember this is a sex site and that is what most people want from here. If you are looking for MR Long Term it will be hard to find him here. If you are looking for lifelong friends and an occasional role in the hay you are looking in the right place.

SweetIrishLady 58F
10 posts
4/28/2006 8:45 am

Well CPL, I think I've found a mixture of people here at AdultFriendFinder (sex site). Sex can be seen in many ways, but most women need a mixture of emotion and physical. I think fewer men need that, but there are those good men out there that do. Those are the ones I'm looking for and have found them here too, but no chemistry to speak of. So, you do it your way..and I'll do it mine. Thanks for the lecture.

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