Some Days ...  

SweetDarlinAngel 41F
2088 posts
6/29/2006 9:22 am

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7/3/2006 2:48 pm

Some Days ...

Lately, nothing seems to be going according to plan. Don't get me wrong, things could be worse. I have a job. I am thankful for that. It is an easy job and it pays me decently enough. It isn't physically or mentally challenging at all. The only thing it ever does at times is strain my vocals on occassion. I do have to work (concentrate) on my job if I am to earm my fullest potential, and I am working on that. I have even turned to a few people here for advice on how to better myself at it.

So, here I am pregnant, working full-time and trying to keep up with everything just isn't working. I want to crawl into a hole and cry. I feel like my marriage and love and life should be more valuable to my spouse than it is.

What am I doing? What have I done wrong to deserve all of this?


rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
6/29/2006 10:15 am

What have I done wrong to deserve all of this?

Nothing sweetheart, nothing at all. Its just life.

SweetDarlinAngel replies on 7/3/2006 11:05 am:
Well sometime I wish "Life" could just hold still for a minute. Thanks Saint.

GleesFlakyShawl 51M
1620 posts
6/29/2006 10:43 am

usually, marriage problems begin as soon as u get married......

SweetDarlinAngel replies on 7/3/2006 11:08 am:
Why isn't that a part of the vows and scriptures that are read? I would think we should still be in "honeymoon phase"!

rm_Rico0825 56M
483 posts
6/29/2006 10:47 am

Sweetie, you have to sit down with her and have a heart to heart talk. Tell how you feel about her, and ask how she feels about you. Tell her there is no use in wasting each others time if she isn't commited to you. Just ask for her honesty. Don't let it turn into a screaming match.

And then call her on the other stuff. Like responsibilty, and doing what she has to do. And i always thought men just do this shit!!!

I hope everything turn out well for you. You are such a sweet person.

SweetDarlinAngel replies on 7/3/2006 11:08 am:
Thanks, I'm working on her listening to my "heart to heart" everyday.

Valdrane78 39M

6/29/2006 3:53 pm

Remember what I told ya!!!

BANG! POW! BOOM! a study in useless knowledge and sick humor!
I want a damn soundtrack to my blog

SweetDarlinAngel replies on 7/3/2006 11:09 am:
Hmmm ... the words of the wise huh?

bedroomice2003 45M

6/29/2006 11:49 pm

None of us ever really has any control over our lives. The best we can do is let it guide us where it wants us to go and try hard not to get hurt in the process. You've done nothing wrong, you've only made our lives richer and better for having known you. Someday she'll learn to appreciate that quality in you, hopefully sooner rather than later.

SweetDarlinAngel replies on 7/3/2006 11:09 am:
Yeah, I'm crossing my fingers for just that.

imLadyBambi 59M/51F

6/30/2006 2:10 am


You are talking like a victim again. You have done nothing - its not your fault! Consider purchasing the book "Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars" and having hubby read it. It sounds as though there are some communication problems to overcome but the two of you need the tools to overcome them.

Lady Bambi

SweetDarlinAngel replies on 7/3/2006 11:11 am:
I think communication is just the beginning. But being a victim isn't something I really want to be. There is just only so much one can do without any reciprocation from the other party.

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
7/2/2006 12:41 am

    Quoting rm_saintlianna:
    What have I done wrong to deserve all of this?

    Nothing sweetheart, nothing at all. Its just life.

~ nodz ~ in agreement

~hugz~, take it ez for a bit if you can

SweetDarlinAngel replies on 7/3/2006 11:12 am:
As always ... thank you, it means so much.

warmandsexy52 66M
13164 posts
7/3/2006 2:24 pm

I agree with saint and goddess. And I reach out to you my dear sweet friend with hugs and reassurance. Take care sweetness! {=}

warm xx

SweetDarlinAngel replies on 7/3/2006 2:49 pm:
thank you .. in so many ways my darling!

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