Us and them  

Supervy_Sage 51M
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7/19/2006 12:09 pm

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12/26/2006 1:39 pm

Us and them


I always find it interesting when I see others post things that are basically a list of demands someone must meet before they can even approach the door of a potential relationship. A proverbial mine field that I am sure is littered with the carcasses of numerous potential relationships.

It is good to be honest of up front to let people know exactly what you expect. But too many of us on this site are only seeking superficial aspects of a relationship, like wealth and looks alone. We can all have dreams and I’m not saying don’t pursue them. What I do want to point out is that a book can be very interesting, but have a bland cover. You might even find it to be one of your favorites.

Now if you are not looking for anything meaningful, then just base your search on superficial things alone. I’m not saying that you will not find happiness there, but it might be more of a challenge if you are not of the same social tier.

The main stumbling block us guys have is that we don’t understand women. It is US and THEM for most men. Toss aside any preconceptions you have about a women’s place in our society. They don’t want to be our servants anymore. The time for the subservient women is long gone. They are our equal, and very capable of doing anything we can do with the right training. The same training us men undergo.

In my travels I have found that women enjoy honest compliments and engaging conversation. They like emotional commitment. They favor attention and smiles, affirmation that they are attractive. They seek confident men, that are not pushy, but strong, meaning security. Respect for them and ourselves is also a must. They are turned on my what they feel, so they want casual physical contact more then us men. As soon as we all learn that, we will all be a lot happier.

The Super Pervy Sage


TXBITCH2006 50F

7/19/2006 3:40 pm

In my travels I have found that women enjoy honest compliments and engaging conversation. They like emotional commitment. They favor attention and smiles, affirmation that they are attractive. They seek confident men, that are not pushy, but strong, meaning security. Respect for them and ourselves is also a must. They are turned on my what they feel, so they want casual physical contact more then us men. As soon as we all learn that, we will all be a lot happier.

WOW...how did you find my diary? You definitely hit the nail on the head with this one. You wouldn't think it would be that hard for men to do this, but it is.


Supervy_Sage replies on 7/19/2006 7:44 pm:
Was that the little book you had locked in the box under your bed behind all the shoes that I found while I was sneaking around in your room?

TXBITCH2006 50F

7/19/2006 7:56 pm

Was that the little book you had locked in the box under your bed behind all the shoes that I found while I was sneaking around in your room

I knew it. I could tell somebody had been messing with my shoes. Did you like them? How about the stiletto heels?..lol


Supervy_Sage replies on 7/20/2006 9:53 pm:
Stiletto heels? I didn't see those....or take um. So if they are not there anymore, I had nothing to do with their abduction.

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