Surprise Approach  

Supervy_Sage 52M
939 posts
9/9/2006 3:27 pm

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Surprise Approach

I am troubled. A few months ago, I had a women approach me on AdultFriendFinder, and ask me to spearhead a gang bang for her. She apparently wanted me to gather up some guys and meet her, for some good old fun. I turned her down. I am not into that type of thing. For me, sex is an act of giving pleasure, but a gang bang doesn’t fit in that mold in my brain. It seems so impersonal, like , or something. She said she never tried a gang bang, and has fantasies about it, of all the guys all over her, and entering her from every angle. She said her husband was Bi-Sexual, and that sex with him was not possible anymore.

So I directed her to someone that I knew could help her. A woman in Seoul that seems like good people, and is part of a group already, that knows all the “rules” of the game, and her group I would imagine already has boundaries and rules established. She was intent on finding her own men for her group. I warned her that her fantasy could quickly get out of hand, and become a sexual assault when she wanted to stop, and they didn’t. An established group knows to stop when asked. They want to be invited back. She also wanted to try it here in Korea, and not back at home because she wouldn’t have to worry about someone finding out about what she did.

I sent her email off and on asking about how her project was going. I was always trying to sanity check it for her. She was hell bent on her own idea, and I know, it is her fantasy, so she should build it. So I told her that I would stop asking about it.

So today, I get a new email. She found a guy who is going to meet her and her husband to work out the details. She is going to move in with the guy for a couple weeks as he “trains” her for her big day. She also said that one of the rules she had to follow was that the guy could cum inside her.

Now, I am beginning to wonder. She said that she was not sexually compatible with her husband anymore, because he is Bi-Sexual. That and the fact that she would let a group of strangers cum in her leads me to believe not all is as it seems.

I have always thought that I am a good judge of character, but I don’t get good vibes from this. There is a hidden agenda I feel. I just wonder what it is, or am I just imagining it. She assures me that there is nothing hidden, but the risks she seems to be willing to take just seem to great. But maybe that is part of the fantasy?

The Super Pervy Sage

sassybelle21 34F  
13313 posts
9/9/2006 7:07 pm

I don't care why she is crazy about the idea but I'm purely worried about her safety like what you said "I warned her that her fantasy could quickly get out of hand, and become a sexual assault when she wanted to stop, and they didn’t."

Also, " of the rules she had to follow was that the guy could cum inside her"? Talk about higher exposure to STDs if not pregnancies.

Supervy_Sage replies on 9/10/2006 1:18 am:
Yes, she is putting herself in too much danger. I tried to warn her, but she seems to not care, or completely trusts the guy she found.

If he truly agreed to talk to them both before this all starts, then he might be "ok", but still....


9/9/2006 8:39 pm

It sounds like she has issues and I would definitely follow your intuition about her. Her story seems a little too far fetched for me and I doubt her legitimacy.

Supervy_Sage replies on 9/10/2006 1:23 am:
Even if she is on the level, and everything is like she says, she scares the crap out of me. I'm not used to women asking someone for that kind of "service." I almost felt like I was some kind of pimp or something.

The more I told her I didn't think it was a good idea, the more she would tell me I should coordinate it for he, because I was so concerned about her safety.

I guess it is possible that I am sexually un advanced, still a sexual cave man.

purpletrashcan 52F
41658 posts
9/9/2006 9:53 pm

I personally can see her gang bang fantasy thoughts.....but the risks she is willing to take for it are scary!

Pull My Fucking Hair!

Supervy_Sage replies on 9/10/2006 1:24 am:
Ya, very much so. She scares the crap out of me, and I aint even having sex with her.

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