Stalker Girls  

Supervy_Sage 52M
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9/4/2006 7:10 am

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Stalker Girls

I made a promise on my blog to sassybelle21 to write about a stalker GIRL friend that I used to have. She made the comment that it is good to not have guys meet in you in your neck of the woods because they could be crazy. True enough. A woman has to be careful now a days.

This happened to me back around 1990-1991. I was in the military, and had a Filipino girl friend. I was told that I was going to deploy to Saudi Arabia, and ended up participating in Operation Desert Shield and Desert Storm. Before I left, I arranged for my girl friend to pay my bills for me. I set up an account for her to use, with enough money to pay my bills, and an extra $200 or so, for her trouble. Anyway, I was deployed for 183 days, and when I returned, expected to find $2500 in my checking account. I was going to use that money to purchase a computer.

I had $5 in my checking account, and a pile of unpaid bills when I returned. My credit was in shambles, and it took me years to repair it. Anyway, my Filipino girl friend had fraudulently drawn all my cash from my accounts and spent it all. I asked her why she did it, and she said, “You didn’t want me to miss around did you?” So, basically, I was paying for her to be faithful? What the fuck was that? I asked her if that made her a whore, and I broke up with her.

I went to the bank, and told them my situation, and how I could get the money back. They said they could charge her with fraud, and get the money back that way, and she would go to jail. She had a daughter, and I didn’t want the money back so bad as to cause that much ass pain for her. I just chalked it up as a $2500 lesson.

She continued to call me, and come over, and always tell me she wanted me back, and other crap, blah blah. I didn’t want anything to do with her anymore, and after about a month, I had found a new girl friend that lived out of town. I would go up and see her on the weekends, and come back on Sundays.

I was in the house sleeping, it was late morning, I worked night shift, and I hear some noise from the living room of my apartment. I didn’t remember leaving the TV on, and it sounded like someone talking. So I go check it out. It is my ex-Filipino girlfriend. She is talking on the phone.

“You better leave my husband alone bitch,” she was screaming into the phone as I walked into the living room. I saw that she had my wallet out, and a piece of paper with my new girlfriend’s phone number sitting next to the phone. My front window is still open where she climbed in. I grabbed the phone away from her, and had to deal with a pissed off new girl friend. I told her that this was my psycho ex ‒girlfriend, and she believed me. Maybe because I yelled it loud enough for my ex to hear over the ruckus of her breaking dishes in the kitchen.

With the breaking dished apparently not pissing me off enough, my ex came out and yanked the phone cord out of the wall. I was starting to get pissed, as I am sure you can guess. I plug the cord back in and call back my new girl friend, and explain to her my ex pulled the phone cord out of the jack. Then my ex pulls the cord out again. But wait, not the phone cord, but the phone line out of the jack box. That was it. I told her to get out, or I was going to throw her out.

She didn’t stop, to I picked up her purse and opened my apartment front door and threw the purse as hard as I could. It ended up in the middle of the parking lot. Then I turned, and picked her up, and headed to the door.

“No, don’t, I’ll be so embarrassed,” I remember her saying.

“We are way the fuck beyond that,” I said as I literally tossed out on her ass.

Anyway, she stole all my credit cards that day, all the registration and insurance paperwork out of my car, and my window was broken with a brick a few nights later, that I suspect was her too. After I moved and changed my address at the post office, she went there and told the post clerk that I didn’t move, and didn’t want my mail forwarded. Took me a month or two to get that fixed. So, she caused me a few years of ass pain after the break in trying to fix my credit, and what not.

So, not only guys can be a pain in the ass. Women can do it really well too.

The Super Pervy Sage

Cozy_Red 52F

9/4/2006 7:49 am

OMG! Ive never heard anything like that before, the shoe is always on the other foot. Wow...just wow.

Supervy_Sage replies on 9/4/2006 9:56 am:
Filipino girls can be very possessive. I pretty much had to move to get rid of her, and she still continued to write to me for years, but I never responded.

Serenely_Yours 118

9/4/2006 9:05 am

Oh yes. All those spurned lovers. I had a friend who had a similar situation as you too. His ex-girlfirend stalked him for almost a year and he went to the police for a couple of times but to no avail. She stopped doing to him when she was sent away to USA for further studies by her dad. I bet one of the reasons was to get her away from this situation. Im not sure if she is psychotic. My friend did not hear from her again. Anyway, he had went to Australia for good. So all had come to a rest.

٭ ˚ °◦○☻ Serenely Yours ☺○◦° ˚ ٭

Supervy_Sage replies on 9/4/2006 9:58 am:
She probably found someone new to obsess over in the USA.

sassybelle21 34F  
13313 posts
9/4/2006 6:33 pm

I agree! Both men and women are capable of stalking and getting pyschotic. That's why I try to be as careful as I can.

Supervy_Sage replies on 9/5/2006 1:52 am:
Amen sister!

happyladychat 49F
3740 posts
9/6/2006 10:53 pm

Similar to sassybelle21, I always try to be as careful as I can when it comes to knowing someone new. It takes time to figure if someone is real and trustworthy.

I'm glad you know her true color before you settled down with her. It could have been worst.

Make it your challenge.... turn me ON!!

Supervy_Sage replies on 9/7/2006 1:52 pm:
That was my bad boy period of time. I had no intention of marrying anyone. I was in it for fun.

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