Rantings and Ravings from the SuperA...  

SuperAdventurous 39M
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8/9/2006 11:56 pm

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Rantings and Ravings from the SuperA...

This is going to be a LONG ranting blog session so if it’s not your thing, I suggest you wait for my next entry.

Boy have I been in a foul mood the past few days, which is strange for me. I’m usually always in a positive frame of mind, sometimes pretty passive, but usually very positive. I think the single life is getting to me a little.

I have 5 really close friends. I mean they the type of friends that might as well have been my siblings, we are so close. We’ll take a bullet for one another. 3 of them are married, 1 is engaged and the other is involved. We’re all about the same age, give or take a year.

So, why is it they can find someone and I can’t? Do I set my standards to high? I don’t think so. Am I looking in the wrong places? Possibly. I have had other relationships where the women were exactly according to my standards, so that’s not it. The reasons for things not working out were more on a superficial basis. But I know what I like and what I am attracted to, why should I have to settle for less?

Take my latest relationship. There was nothing there, no passion, no emotion, no social life, we were always unhappy and miserable… now that’s not me. That’s not the type of person I am. I’m the complete opposite. So it was doomed for failure from the very first month. I did call it quits after a few months and she “salesman” talked me into trying again. So I did, I gave it a bash. Maybe not my best efforts, but I wasn’t getting any positive feedback. You know you’re with the wrong person when it changes who you are, and not for the better. When do you say enough is enough? Am I to blame for things going south? I don’t think so… like I said, I’ve been involved before and I know where my other relationships went wrong. And it had nothing to do with the issues that were brought into my latest failure.

Am I the cliché single person? Works all the time, 12-15hours a day and spends most of their free time divided by going to gym, watching tv, sitting here on the net and just general floating around, visiting friends etc… I think I need another sport or hobby.

Here I am… this is me. I’m 27 and I’m at that stage, I reckon, in my life where I want to start settling down. Meet a girl, get married, concentrate on our future, create a home etc. all while having mind blowing, adventurous and super passionate sex until the day we die. I think I have a fair amount to offer, to the right person that is. If you with the wrong person, u don’t give as much of yourself or put as much effort in.

I’m decent looking, often get told I’m cute (which is more of a high school trait to have I guess) I’m dedicated, honest, loyal, I look after myself, in the gym 5-6 days a week, my circle of “friends” has gotten a tad smaller since I put my heavy clubbing & partying days behind me but the true ones have remained and we have a blast when we’re together. I have a pretty bright future with the prospects of taking over a well known manufacturing business. I have my own townhouse. I’m a pretty nawty and adventurous person when I am with someone of the same nature. I tend to be a little quiet at times and a tad on the shy side, if I don’t know you. Some would say that I am arrogant. It’s not arrogance at all. I’m just not the kind of guy who would go speak to some girl out of the blue. Although I wish I was… you will never know unless you try?? The problem is taking that first step. Hi, my name is (fill name here) and I saw you from over there, so thought I would come introduce myself and maybe (bye you a drink, challenge you to a game of pool, fondle your breasts?) Seems so easy, doesn’t it? Taking the first step is one thing, but what to do when rejected or worse, she’s interested?

So my question is this… are all the attractive, loyal, open minded, honest, un-superficial woman who make a bikini look good, all taken? Or are they purely a myth?

Please leave your comments…

The type of woman that takes your breath away when she steps out of the shower in the morning, the kind of woman that would stand by your side when you say you have a business idea or venture, the kind of woman that laughs at your corny jokes, the kind of woman who will always be there for you no matter how tough times may get, the kind of woman who is as spontaneous and caring as you are, the kind of woman who looks after herself, the kind of woman that means the world to you and would give the world to you if she could, the kind of woman that makes you want to be a better person.

Are they out there? Is she on this site, is she on another site, is she in another town, is she in another country? If you know where she is, please email me a map…

Phew: now that I got that out of the way, I actually feel much better. Time to carry on working, seeing as I been here since 5:30am. See? I am a positive person

PS. PurryKitty2 - Tomorrows Friday...

sexymamma662003 33F

8/10/2006 12:14 am

im sure that the women you are looking for is out there, hell she may be on this site you never know.

keep your head up.

youre not cute by the way i think your hot.


SuperAdventurous replies on 8/13/2006 2:53 am:
Hey Sexxymamma... Thanks fr the inspirational words. Sorry for the late response. Me? Hot? I wish... this is hot LOL

Nice tattoo... Thinkin of gettin another one myself, but a BIG one.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
8/10/2006 3:07 am

I am right here

Seriously, they do exist sweetie. You just have to be patient and DO NOT LOWER YOUR STANDARDS!

Sail once said to me that he knew he was in love because I looked just as good wet (coming out of the water on the beach) as I did dry, hehehehehee

You keep blogging and Mrs. Right will surface!

Purry {=}


SuperAdventurous replies on 8/13/2006 2:54 am:
Your the bomb babe... Truly an amazing person.

*SuperA pictures Kitty coming out of the water on the beach, in a bikini* Yummy...

JeersPilarSaver 36F

8/12/2006 6:07 am

hey, they really exist, but ure time to meet whoever u need to meet hasnt come yet. so just be patient!! ciao

SuperAdventurous replies on 8/13/2006 2:59 am:
Thanks again Mystic... I know, I know. It will happen. For the time being, I'm just going to concentrate on enjoying what the single life has to offer. You're a hunny...

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