Help us understand  

Sunmaiden41 54M/56F
7 posts
8/5/2006 10:36 am

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3/26/2008 1:32 pm

Help us understand

We left this site a few months ago because there were just to many fakes on here. You email people and they never email back. If you don't like us or just don't find us attractive then email and say so. To leave it in the air though. We feel like if we take the time to email you, you should at least have the courtesy to email us back. Why take the time to be on here if you're not willing to chat/meet at some point. Are you just looking for someone to say you're cute or sexy or something like that?

Tell us......what gives?????

nikki_im4u 54F

8/5/2006 2:22 pm

I have been in this site for a few years. Although I do agree with you that there are fakes and I also agree that members could and should be a bit more couteous. But you have to keep in mind that most of the members on here are looking for single women to hook up with. These women get up to 50 or 60 e-mails a day sometimes more. It is nearly impossible for them to answer every single message that they receive. I have to take breaks off and on in here just to catch up. And sometimes by the time I get to you. You may have already forgotten who I am. Its not a matter of them being snobs or looking for a compliment. Although im sure there are some that are, but not most. Most of the single men and couples are looking for women. So they out number women by 15 to 1. So these women have the option to to be picky as hell. Not to mention there has to be some compatabilty.

Hope you have a better go of it this time around.



smellY87 31M

8/5/2006 2:40 pm

It's all about that whole Internet thing (you know... all kinds of people are hanging around). But here you can find relly rude people and that is very childish.

Sunmaiden41 54M/56F

8/5/2006 3:16 pm

We're really not saying people are rude. I/we just don't get that people put stuff on their profile but they never seem to come through with any of it. I'm no super model but I can hold my own in a room. Several on here are saying they're married so that have to be careful. What are they really looking for? My guess is they are day dreaming. Wanting to but don't have the time/place/space to do anything. We did find one real person. Unfortuately, she moved to GA on us. Very sexy, real and oh so fun to be with. We had a great time. Anyway, thanks for reading this and giving your 2 cents.

charmer54321 62M

8/6/2007 7:05 pm

..some juggle several options before taking a step, some never does seem to go with the territory..

alone2much2009 53F

3/11/2009 5:53 am

I hear this a lot. I am new and I have been bombarded with options. Because I am looking for an experience (not just looking a bunch of fuck buddies), I want to be selective and am not in a hurry. I am a single mom and own my own business so time/opportunity is a huge factor for me. Maybe I should be more specific in my profile because it seems if I haven't met someone in a few days, they either think I am not interested or playing some kind of game. If I wanted that kind of pressure, I'd be in a relationship *grins*

You guys appear to be an awesome couple and I want to get to know you better. To get, what I think you are looking for, might require some patience. I get many emails a day and I have only so many responses allotted, plus I do have kids running around my house so time is very limited. It starts to get overwhelming and too much pressure can take all the fun out of it.

Great post as it helps me to understand the other side of this a bit more. I also hope my response helps others see if from the single female side as well. I am sure there are those who are just playing around and never intend to meet anyone, but those of us who do, can't possibly meet all who show interest. Please allow a little extra latitude and you might consider sending a couple extra inticing messages that stand out and assure a girl you guys would be her best pick!! *hints*

Gustine69 68F
1 post
5/22/2010 2:49 pm

Hey I find the same thing happens to me too. so I am looking for some fun and I do have a male friend that would be my partner but I do have fun by my self. u can talk to me at that yahoo messenger thingie as guss_nordstrom at that yahoo dot com thing Hope to talk to u soon

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