FOR ALL YOU MEN  

StillBeautiful 55M/34F
56 posts
5/18/2006 7:07 am

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FOR ALL YOU MEN

After a few years of swinging and learning quite a bit about life and guys (thanks with the help of Jake the love of my life) in general I have come to the conclusion that not many men have an idea how to really go about dealing with women experienced in life and sexuality. All the while men are mindlessly boasting to themselves and anyone that will listen about any meaningless one night encounter that they had with some "hottie", and those that are not boasting are eager to listen because they are not getting any themselves.

Well men, if you want to know the trick to me it is not really that hard. Most women that have been through marriages and failed relationships and boring dates and not so good swing partners are not that anxious to repeat those steps. We learn to rely on ourselves and stand on our own two feet just fine. Although there will always be needy women out there, those of us who are confident and self-assured have figured out that very few guys make us happy, if even no one guy can. I am so multi-faceted that I need different guys in my life for different moods.

Therefore, you will need to understanding the following:

Rule #1 - Don't expect me to leave my partner for you. I've been with him for 4 wonderful years. Swinging is what we love to do with other partners. Don't expect it to last long if you force the exclusivity rule on us. The don't ask, don't tell usually works well for this situation.

Rule #2 - Sex is great and yes I love it, but don't expect to entice me with a picture or size of your cock. If I have to be seen in public with you it is your face that matters first. Oh and by the way, bigger is not better for every woman. We are all built differently and it is about the perfect fit and angle, not to see who can dislodge another part of our anatomy. The size of your wallet might impresses me more.

Rule #3 - If I have different men for different moods, then figure out why I like you and go with that. However, Jake offers me all the love I need and want in a relationship.

Rule #4 - I don’t swing for sex alone, I swing for friendship (I already have my better half with me). Don’t think that you are going to necessarily make it to the bedroom to have my piece of ass added to your list, and if you do you had better give me something better than my boyfriends cock, my other lovers cock, the vibrators or dildos I could so easily replace you with. In the bedroom, remember that I know more about me than you do. Ask me what I really want. Really, I'll tell you. Giving me what I want usually will have the favour returned.

Rule #5 - I do like attention, but if you call too often you might talk to my voice mail more than you talk to me (or with Jake if you ask him if its ok to come by and do me). If you want to give me attention, then channel it into planning the special surprise. Honestly, 2-3 times a week is as invasive as I want you to be.

Rule #6 - To pay or not to pay? If chivalry is dead, then you had better give it mouth to mouth. Just because we are capable of paying doesn’t mean I want to. There are several things about a man opening up his wallet that impresses me. It means that you are stable, you care enough about me/us as a friend and not just sex and want me to enjoy it, and you are a decent guy. And for Gods sake, be modest about it. I am smart enough to know what kind of coin you dropped without you pointing it out. If I am impressed I will monetarily reciprocate in other, more subtle ways.

Rule #7 (and final rule) - Pay attention. I like it when you attend and know my likes and dislikes, something I said that I always wanted to do, or pet peeves. It means that you care what I think and that keeps me from using my favorite word : NEXT.

Don't get me wrong, I am not a man hater. I have only come to the conclusion that for some women, men are not essential to have a successful life, but might just be the entertainment that makes life exciting.

Loven' Kisses

Jaye


rm_amiauspectre 52M

6/2/2006 9:05 pm

I think a lot can be learned here..
Lay it on the line, this is how we like it... Period
GOOD ON THE BOTH OF YOU !!!
Love to be a part of your life


Goten28 39M
1 post
6/3/2006 4:27 am

/8 that it's !!!!! Your the kind of healty mind that we need in our society!!!! Don' give up!!!

kiss (where you whant boss)


StillBeautiful 55M/34F

6/4/2006 5:27 am

Thx guys, and if u ever want to know more about us then here is my private free site jaystar.web.st


MarcySullivan 53F
3598 posts
7/22/2006 12:43 pm

Loved your rules!!! lol

Liked the : Rule #2 - Sex is great and yes I love it, but don't expect to entice me with a picture or size of your cock. If I have to be seen in public with you it is your face that matters first. Oh and by the way, bigger is not better for every woman. We are all built differently and it is about the perfect fit and angle, not to see who can dislodge another part of our anatomy. The size of your wallet might impresses me more.


xoxo
Marcy

Visit my group Analsex lovers and my blog Marcy's world!!


StillBeautiful 55M/34F

7/25/2006 7:01 am

Lol again and thx MarcySullivan


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