A little lonely  

DacesTernsFated 51M
310 posts
5/14/2006 10:44 pm

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5/20/2006 7:12 pm

A little lonely

Not so bad. I just spent most of the weekend by myself, with the exception of dinner tonight with my Dad and brother and a little tv this evening with my bro.

I went out on Friday night - had a great time in San Francisco (I live out in the 'burbs, so a trip to the big city is a little unusual) with a guy I used to play in a band with - he was celebrating his 5th thirty-eighth birthday - lol! There were a few people in the party I knew, and a couple of his other friends turned out to be a real kick! It just got me thinking how it's fun to just hang out. I hardly do it...I usually just go home after work. I almost didn't go Friday either, but I'm glad I did.

There was a big to-do yesterday in SF - a big, free listener appreciation party that one of the radio stations puts on, with bands and a big fireworks display. I asked around among my friends if anyone wanted to go, but I got no takers - everybody busy with something else. I went myself and had a pretty good time, but I kept thinking how much more fun it would have been to have friends there, or a date, or something.

Today was kinda the same...I called a few friends, and some of them are moms so I wished them a happy Mother's Day (I hope y'all had a good one too!), and it was nice just to chat. My own Mom passed away a few years ago, and of course, I miss her.

Top that off with some of the anxieties I have about work, future plans, figuring out what I want from relationships, my aging Dad, and my general Sunday evening nerves. God, I sound like a mess! It's not that bad, really!

*sigh* - I do go on... I don't mean to be a downer...sometimes it just feels good to write.

I know a lot of you have kids, spouses, etc... Do you ever get lonesome anyway?

CalicoSexKitten 51F
1880 posts
5/15/2006 3:23 am

Believe me, it is possible to not be alone, yet be lonesome anyway! I'm kind of in that situation right now!

I'm glad you had fun going out! Wish I were closer 'cause if you'd have me, I'd sure go with you sometimes even as just frinds!

Have a great Monday and rest of the week sexy!

Calico =^..^=


Next time I'll give you my number and we can chat if ya want when you're lonley!!!!

"Like the space around me I take my spot in time"

JazzDlight 61F

5/15/2006 3:59 am

I hear you Ohmah, I am in the same situation and have the same feelings. tc Jazz

rm_bucfannn 62M/61F
2110 posts
5/15/2006 6:12 am

I've been there, sweets. Still am, every once in a while. I try not to let it get to me, though.

mangomamiCT 43F

5/15/2006 9:58 pm

lonely doesn't begin to describe it

catseyes23 62F

5/17/2006 4:14 am

Trust me to always be last on the list.

Yes I think that most people have been there, the loneliness. You're not alone in Blogsville, we care.


SheSinFullySweeT 58F

5/19/2006 8:29 pm

awwwwww ,you shouldnt be so lonely sweetie ,your a very sexy man . but i do understand this lonely stuff too. i just started the dateing sene and ive been divorced for over 13 years now. and i was very lonely, i just didnt know how to go out and make friends. this went on years down the road. well i got sick of it and had to get out and make friends . so i joined this site and now. im haveing fun. well it could be better fun, if i had the right person to go with.. but all in all i do go out and have a good time.. sooooo what im asking you is.. you wanna hook up and go out with me lol *smiles* my name is sandy

womanoirish 55F

5/20/2006 6:21 pm

Now this is too funny because I was in the City on that Saturday. I didn't see you...lol! j/k. I know what you mean, though, about going places by yourself. But the good news is that you still go out whether it's alone or with friends.

DacesTernsFated replies on 5/20/2006 7:12 pm:
You probably saw me...I was wearing a funny nose and glasses, though, so you wouldn't have recognized me...

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