Friends With Benefits  

SquirtinCummer 52F
67 posts
7/10/2006 2:11 pm

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7/13/2006 6:26 pm

Friends With Benefits

maybe it's just me, but it sure is easier to have a FWB when there really isn't an emotional attachment to the person.

I understand not being ready for a relationship, lord knows I'm not, but if you have feelings for someone, I am starting to think that sex shouldn't be part of the equation. At least not while it's just a FWB scenario.

But damn it, the sex is just sooo damn good!

There is nothing keeping me here - I could pack up & move in a moment's notice, and living with him would be great. He already knows I don't mind sharing

Of course, I can see it from his POV too, the land is ready now, the house is coming, the camp is not where I would really want to be, but I spend enough time there already, I mean, hey, what a few more months.

Men, just so damned confusing they are - frustrating too, but boy I am glad they are in this world

ebandit_64 53M

7/11/2006 12:36 pm

FWB can be good if both parties respect the rules. It is hard to stay FWB's as things get complicated if one party starts developing feelings and the other party prefers the FWB lifestyle. No matter how good the sex is, both parties have to be on the same page. Also, taking the road less traveled will work better, you can always go back to a mate or FWB it will be fun for a while but there is a reason it didn't work in the first place. As much as people say they have changed, it is only superficial changes to get more sex. Nobody ever really changes from their inner self as much as we want to see the changes, the closer you look the changes just are not there.

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