Why are there so many single men/women on this site?  

rm_SpaceSyrup 37M/32F
8 posts
3/26/2006 2:08 pm

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Why are there so many single men/women on this site?


Okay. So define swinger, I was always brought up to know that in order to be a swinger, first you must be a couple. So I ask, why are there so many single people on this site. I was led to believe that AdultFriendFinder was a SWINGER site. A safe haven for the curious couple.

Now, my husband is always saying that we can find a million different single guys to screw me, but the only single women we can find are generally teasers. They say they like you and talk to you for hours, but in the end they usually end up only wanting cyber sex or a relationship.

I have to agree with my husband. This isn't a swinger site, more of a "booty call". Although the experiences that we have had with this site have been extremely pleasurable and fantastic, it always seems to fall back on the woman.

We have learned a great deal, and have met some awesome people that we will stay friends with always. But we are left wondering how many people are "belt notches" on this site, rather than honestly exploring other realms.

im_your_man77 40M
961 posts
3/26/2006 2:39 pm

AdultFriendFinder claims it is the World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals Community. Whether that claim is true or not is neither here nor there but the site is covering both bases by trying to appeal to both couples and singles looking for sex.


saddletrampsk 55F

3/26/2006 2:41 pm

Its a sex and swinger site..

Hope you find what you are looking for..


Iskydive61 56M

3/26/2006 2:51 pm

This is a SEX & swingers site it is for everyone who loves the lifestyle.. you don't have to be a couple to swing. like me for example. I was into group sex clubs and swung with regulars in Southern Cali. but when I moved to AZ the clubs were different and most ppl are less free to bring singles into the bed or to have group sex.. everyone has different likes and wants. while it is true some men are into this just to score. which they could do at any bar on any given night, there are some men like me who love the lifestyle but were in a relationship that did not bod well with it. now that I'm single i am ready to get back into it and the difference is I will only party with ppl who are looking for what I have to offer not just a belt notcher. you would be surprised at how much fun a group sex night could be. there usually is just the right amount of ppl to please all needs with no stress or demands. so in closing yes there are a lot of single ppl here but that is what the lifestyle has a multi-range of interests. and yes it would be nice if we could weed out the belt nochers and the teases but the only way to do that is to communicate with each other....


Sulabula 46F
12659 posts
3/26/2006 3:24 pm

It's both...for singles and couples...

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angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
3/26/2006 5:50 pm

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rm_SpaceSyrup 37M/32F

3/26/2006 6:16 pm

Well, thanks for all the replies. But honestly people, sex is great and all....but how many serious single people have yall met on this site, most especially the young college guys, all they care about is the number of chicks they can screw. Sex is sex, and we all enjoy it otherwise we wouldn't be on this site. But there is a fine line to being a slut, rather male or female, and just exploring the horizons of the human sexuality.


MONA_14 31F

3/27/2006 7:49 am

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rm_chicndic 40M/37F
1 post
3/31/2006 7:13 pm

I agree with you guys, I thought this was a swinger site too, but after reading all the comments from other members(who know way more than me!) I guess it's for everyone. So now my question is, is there a site just for swingers(couples)? If you find it, please let me know! ~t


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