Give Up?  

Slutdaddy4u2000 63M
6 posts
1/28/2006 4:24 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Give Up?

Not having had a lot of luck on this site I debated giving it up and looking elsewhere. Either no one is looking for a man like me or I can't write an ad that reflects who I am and what I'm looking for. OR, no one is looking for someone as "old" as I am (which is ironic as I don't think of myself as old and I see ages higher than mine posted out there!)

Hopefully things will change soon. I don't give up on anything, but I do wonder sometimes about whether I'm on the right path or not!

In the meantime, life goes on...

Chat_Queen 48F

1/28/2006 7:12 am

I can completely see your frustrations. My husband and I have been on this site for a year now. We have yet to actually meet anyone in person. We have tried trust me..just seems that once you get to know someone they are not at all what you are looking for. We frankly have given up any hope of actually finding anyone. Now we only come here for my group and to chat with the people whom we have made friends with over the year.

Unfortunately you being a man I think the problem isn't necessarily your age at all. I think alot of women carry alot of bad past experiences and take it out on men that they don't know on this site. They think all men are the same and only looking for one thing and don't give any the light of day. Although they claim to be I just suggest that you get involved in the groups and get people to know you. Maybe then you can truely find someone that is really looking and gets to know you on a safe level so to speak.

I wish you all the luck and hope that you do find someone!!

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
1/28/2006 7:55 am

Single men seem to have a lot of trouble hooking up here but I encourage you to keep trying. Sail and I certainly have been lucky finding some great couples

Purry {=}


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