What type of woman do I need?  

Sizzle364
(Juan S)
53M
3683 posts
7/13/2005 8:50 am

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What type of woman do I need?


When I first started blogging, I called my blog The National Fuck Buddy Club. I had the thought that I was not going to find love thru a.f.f., so this would be my outlet for the fun until. Then life happened and I remembered a couple of people that I had actually met online, so i changed the column to "So There I was...", because more times than not, as you grow or your situation changes, so does things you need or want in your world. Don't get me wrong,still up to play and have fun (I'm a guy afterall), but I think its time to look forward more to the serious and or LTR or a very good friend with benefits (Drat, there's that phrase). So here's todays question.
I like all types of music Hip Hop especially, R&B, Rock, Jazz, classical, even a little country.
I am looking forward to doing a decent amount of traveling. Some for vacation spots and a lot for the various industry conferences for film, music, literary publishing and various philanthropic interest. ( What the Heck did i just say?) and of course I'd like my lady friend to travel with me to some or all.
I am very spontaneous and fun, but I like to do hings in parameters of responsibility ( and those parameters are pretty wide sometimes).
I tend to date in the 25 to 30 range, but it seems that the ladies I have encountered in that range are still in the "Fuck buddy" stage. PROBABLY, just the coincidence of who I've met.
That's great, I'm so far still up for that, but they at least gotta be a decent friend also for me to whisk them off to Aspen for Christmas this year.
What would be better for me. Who do you think is going to satisfy the inner sizzle?
A woman my own age, a younger woman or an older woman?

Sizzle364
(Juan S)
53M
2642 posts
7/14/2005 7:36 am

Noooo...Not the challenge word. I do like challenges though, as long as they are gracious in their winning or losing. Woman, not of this earth? Am I REALLY asking for too much?


CuriousKitty675 43F
365 posts
7/14/2005 8:35 am

I really think age is somewhat irrelevant. When you meet that person and something just 'clicks' you know it. Now while yes, I know I'm about to contradict myself here but there is always a but.

From what I've read here of your inner thoughts and personality I think you are a responsible, good hearted, fun loving guy. In other words, mature. (No, that doesn't mean boring and over the hill. It's actually a very attractive quality.)

I would suggest someone who is emotionally and mentaly on the same playing ground as you. Meaning someone who has had experience in life, someone who isn't naive to the bad things out there but is still open minded and open hearted enough to accept the unknown and find adventure and life in it. In other words, a mature woman. Not techinically in age but definitely in mind and heart.

Don't give up Siz. You seem like a really great guy and the right person for you is out there. It's frustrating but everything works out the way it does for a reason and in it's own due time. Open your heart and trust where it takes you.


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
53M
2642 posts
7/15/2005 8:01 am

Thanks Curious. You're so sweet. Where do you live again?
I think you hit the nail on the head as far as a person who has had some life experiences, but is till openminded. I'm a very laid back person. I get things done, it just make it LOOK like its effortless. ( when in fact I'm grinding away while everyone else is asleep. lol.)


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
53M
2642 posts
7/15/2005 8:04 am

HI MZHUNY!!! Always great when you stop by. Near my age range huh? I was thinking you were going to say a slightly older, cute, Kentucky woman...


islandgirl_702 55F

9/24/2005 11:45 pm

All you need is me baby!


rm_DickGame_ 42M
14 posts
11/2/2005 2:46 pm

You need the kinda woman that is gonna let you tie her to the bed, smack that azz, and have threesomes waiting for you when you come home from work...LOL


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