....Dont give in.....  

ShyWhisper2006 54F
8597 posts
8/26/2006 8:02 pm
....Dont give in.....

Life sucks they say....goodness knows thats true
When you think all is going well....slam it hits you from a blind spot
Seeing others happy and meeting a partner
Hurts those that are alone and deserving of love
Feeling like your sinking into darkness that no one can pull you from
and yet ....would it not be better?
Than being alone?...not being held in another's arms feeling the warmth?
But what if that warmth is false?...what if it is taken away for some reason not of your doing?
You still have to be with yourself....
If you cannot be in your own skin...who will?
There is so much out there and within to be aware of
You can give yourself all the love you need and not need any other....or it will at least keep you going till one comes that is willing to share their love with you....
It may be some time before that happens...it may not be....
but the one that comes..will move mountains to be with you...wont make you change who you are or what you stand for....
they will accept you as you are ...no questions....
It isn't about money or sex...it is about being who you are and being accepted as such....
Sometimes that person is right before us and we don't even realize it....and neither do they....
Life no matter how long and dreary it feels....is very short...
It is better to be who you are and surround yourself as best you can with those that are of the same mind set than to face it all alone....there are others like yourself....
Keep your eyes open...they could be looking back at you already....*smiles*



luv_bunny4u 52F

8/26/2006 9:13 pm

Nicly put I like this posting
Live Life to its fullest!


ShyWhisper2006 54F
15175 posts
8/26/2006 10:42 pm

    Quoting luv_bunny4u:
    Nicly put I like this posting
    Live Life to its fullest!
luv bunny....*smiles*...Welcome to my blog and thank you so much for your comment..I totally agree


florallei 100F

8/26/2006 11:48 pm

Hello Shy,

How interesting that I just finished posting one about a similar topic but a slightly different view.
I am sorry that I just don't know what to say...other than your title, "Don't give in" which I agree!
hugs and goodnight Hun.
flo


lissi888888 53F
1401 posts
8/27/2006 12:25 am

It was odd reading your post. I was chatting with a fella in the chatroom this evening and it was along the same line. The way you said it though....so eloquent. Thank you

Lis


rm_ShineOnU2 56M
125 posts
8/27/2006 1:25 am

Hello Shy, Now that was wonderful. did you draw the target before your arrow or vice versa? That is so right on the money. I am guilty of all too often not seeing what is right in front of me because I'm too busy trying to focus on what is way out there...out of focus AND I have found that I do this with time as well. You know the old thing about thinking about the past or the future and not living in nor enjoyinh the present!? I think I'll go get a new pair of glasses. What do you think?

Good Night Shy...OOOooofff!


IviesBidesJuste 56M
3658 posts
8/27/2006 1:51 am

Just remember, life sucks because of the speed bumps along the way. I've just learned to overcome them and take the highways along the way when possible.

Life isn't so bad once you've hit rock bottom in the past. The rest is all downhill from here.


ShyWhisper2006 54F
15175 posts
8/27/2006 2:41 am

    Quoting spunky11961:
    My eyes are open and looking, but right now they can't see,not until I can finally be free~
    ~spunky
spunky...*smiles*...one day my friend...it shall be...till then keep smiling


ShyWhisper2006 54F
15175 posts
8/27/2006 2:43 am

    Quoting florallei:
    Hello Shy,

    How interesting that I just finished posting one about a similar topic but a slightly different view.
    I am sorry that I just don't know what to say...other than your title, "Don't give in" which I agree!
    hugs and goodnight Hun.
    flo
Flo...*smiles* it is funny how the collective minds seem to gather along a similar theme at times....no worries sweetie *hugs*
Goodnight Flo...sleep well... sweet dreams


ShyWhisper2006 54F
15175 posts
8/27/2006 2:45 am

    Quoting lissi888888:
    It was odd reading your post. I was chatting with a fella in the chatroom this evening and it was along the same line. The way you said it though....so eloquent. Thank you

    Lis
Lissi...*smiles*...Aww you are so sweet...thank you and thanks for visiting my blog dear...*smiles*


ShyWhisper2006 54F
15175 posts
8/27/2006 2:54 am

    Quoting rm_ShineOnU2:
    Hello Shy, Now that was wonderful. did you draw the target before your arrow or vice versa? That is so right on the money. I am guilty of all too often not seeing what is right in front of me because I'm too busy trying to focus on what is way out there...out of focus AND I have found that I do this with time as well. You know the old thing about thinking about the past or the future and not living in nor enjoyinh the present!? I think I'll go get a new pair of glasses. What do you think?

    Good Night Shy...OOOooofff!
Shine...*smiles*...Hmm...I think I draw the arrow first..and it usually manages to find the target eventually...hmm new glasses will not change the view from within..not that I have found anyway...Good night shine


ShyWhisper2006 54F
15175 posts
8/27/2006 2:59 am

    Quoting IviesBidesJuste:
    Just remember, life sucks because of the speed bumps along the way. I've just learned to overcome them and take the highways along the way when possible.

    Life isn't so bad once you've hit rock bottom in the past. The rest is all downhill from here.
LB...*smiles* thanks for stopping by LB...I think your right as well...as for the speed bumps that make life suck...I say buckle up...hang on and floor it and enjoy the ride...if there is no avoiding them obstacles...might as well get through them in whatever way is less stressful...and laugh each day...it makes it all the more ...sweeter...Have a great remainder of the weekend LB


Ellora2006 48F

8/27/2006 5:20 pm

ShyWhisper,
You have such a gift for words. I love reading your blog. This one touched me for many reasons. I hear your struggle with being alone and it breaks my heart.

I find myself just as lonely, and I am in a relationship. What do we do? There's got to be that person out there? I am so torn, right now with the question of, "Do I stay in this lonely place that's a falsehood, for the sake of our child, or do I have the courage that you seem to have and take a stand for myself and seek my own road.?".

As always, I do enjoy your stories, they are fun for late night reading...I did not mean to be too dark above. We all struggle with the ups and downs of life. I guess that's why we are here, to learn!
Grins, Giggles and Warm Hugs,
Ellora


ShyWhisper2006 54F
15175 posts
8/28/2006 1:18 am

    Quoting Ellora2006:
    ShyWhisper,
    You have such a gift for words. I love reading your blog. This one touched me for many reasons. I hear your struggle with being alone and it breaks my heart.

    I find myself just as lonely, and I am in a relationship. What do we do? There's got to be that person out there? I am so torn, right now with the question of, "Do I stay in this lonely place that's a falsehood, for the sake of our child, or do I have the courage that you seem to have and take a stand for myself and seek my own road.?".

    As always, I do enjoy your stories, they are fun for late night reading...I did not mean to be too dark above. We all struggle with the ups and downs of life. I guess that's why we are here, to learn!
    Grins, Giggles and Warm Hugs,
    Ellora
Ellora2006...*smiles*...Your comment made me smile and it is appreciate it greatly.
I am what I think hardly courageous at all. I tried to do what I thought was the thing that would be best and allow my children to remain happy and less stressful.
At first I had my doubts and felt it was wrong to leave..it screamed at me that I was doing something wrong.
I was told by my older daughters...that I taught them that some decisions we make in life are not always the easiest, but the things that need to be done and ...they have thanked me.
You have the courage inside and I know that whatever youdecide...you are a wonderful mother and woman...and deserve the happiness we all search for *hugs tightly*


PixieKittySC 62F  
1445 posts
8/31/2006 10:52 am

Shy, how very true....at times life does suck, and as you said you think all is going well then you get hit from a blind spot.....Oh how well I know this *sigh*
It's just recently happen to me, but thankfully I have a good sense of humor that pulls me through times like these, and I'm also so lucky to have the support of several wonderful friends

And thanks to my sense of humor and these friends I'm managing to get over what happened.

Pixie


ShyWhisper2006 54F
15175 posts
8/31/2006 5:41 pm

    Quoting PixieKittySC:
    Shy, how very true....at times life does suck, and as you said you think all is going well then you get hit from a blind spot.....Oh how well I know this *sigh*
    It's just recently happen to me, but thankfully I have a good sense of humor that pulls me through times like these, and I'm also so lucky to have the support of several wonderful friends

    And thanks to my sense of humor and these friends I'm managing to get over what happened.

    Pixie

Pixie...Many many warm hugs for you my dear...your choosing to soften life's blows with your sense of humor and good will...makes you a wonderful person..as well as a very good friend *smiles*


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