Lies in the past  

Shinjuukun 34M
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12/23/2005 4:49 pm

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Lies in the past


How women make relationships difficult if not impossible. There are several actions, behaviors, and emotional conflicts between men and women that make relationships difficult, if not impossible. Unfortunately it seems I have had to endure almost all of them when I was searching for love.
The biggest thing that will destroy any relationship is lying. And I'm not talking about the little teasing white lies you tell for presents or to tease each other, I’m talking about the lies that when told are to keep you out of trouble. For example the first woman that I felt a real deep attraction to lied to me saying she was attracted to me, liked who I was, and would date me if she were single. Also lies spread from her mouth about her past, her likes and dislikes, and the fact that she had D.I.D (Dissociative Identity Disorder) A.K.A Multiple personalities. Well she dumped her boy friend and we hung out more. And she used me as her cuddle buddy. Which felt good. All the time she was getting closer to me she was dating my former best friend. One night she “Switched” personalities on me while I was hugging her and she grabbed a pen then proceeded to stab me in the shoulder… this is when I started studying D.I.D. and found out that she was just acting and lying about the whole thing. Her manipulation and lies destroyed what relationship we did have and left me with some scaring that has yet to heal. About a year and a half later I signed up for a dating sight “name excluded for legal reasons” and met this woman from Texas on there. I didn’t think of it much at first, just thought of her as a chat buddy because she was so far away. But as time passed we grew closer and closer, she would call me on the phone when I got home from work and we would spend hours talking. She just turned 18 and I was 20, or at least that’s what I thought… the time came where I had to meet her, I had the money and the time to fly down there. But she said that she wanted to drive up and take the initiative to leave the place that had tortured her for years. This is when the biggest lie that nearly killed me happened. She used her friends IM, her Sisters IM, and changed her voice on the phone to pretend to be her sister telling me that she had died in a car accident in Missouri. Supposedly she was t-boned by a drunk driver and killed on impact. About a month later certain suspicions surrounding her death came to light and finally worked there way to me. I was furious and going to fly to Texas to figure out what the hell was going on when I got a message from her… she hadn’t died, in fact the woman I thought I was talking too had never existed, and her feelings for me were all a sham. This is no little lie that can I defy anyone to slough off and say she was justified. And these are just two major examples of how lying a woman’s lying has had nothing but bad effects on me and my relationships with them.

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