Why are people such assholes??????  

Shamelessssss 50F
24 posts
9/8/2006 12:25 pm

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11/18/2006 8:53 pm

Why are people such assholes??????


On wednesday night, I went to a Meet and Greet.I took my new buddies, GeorgiaGal19 and Zanitra.It was her first meet and greet off of this site, but Zanitra and I are old timers;0LOL
We walked up to what was supposed to be a social event, arranged and attended by some members of this site. I have been to these Meet and Greets,many times, but I've never had such a chilly reception before.What irks me most is I knew/had met (at a M&G before) several of the people, too. I couldn't understnad it, usually I am at least politely greeted, and intruduced, but at this one, noone came over to say Hi except a few people, and I had to ask everyone what their name/handle was, it was like pulling teeth!! I had to literally take my friend's hand and walk her over to the main group because they were all huddled together and not being friendly at all.Then they just let her sit there, alone while I went inside for a while.
Now, ther were several cool people there too, it wasn't a total loss.
( and we three plus two guys we met at the M&G had a blast at a private after-party when we left there.

Now I am 38 years old, and I have dealt with other women being jealous of me, for my intelligence, my looks, the fact that guys usually find it easy to talk to me, WHATEVER,and it has always mystified me.
But this little peach was only 19 years old and she has never experienced total social shut out like that before.
***(SHE DID NOT DRINK,at the M&G it was a restaurant and outside, on the patio it is perfectly legal to have her there, just wanted to make that clear ) ***

Not only is she cute and sexy, in that way only a pretty 19 yr old can be, but she has a good brain on her shoulder. She also LOVES to party, flash and have a good time, I can't understand why they were like that. They coulda had a fun time partying with us or whatever or at least made a new friend, for fuck's sakes!!

Why couldn't they at least be friendly??
Were they that intimidated???
Were the women that jealous of us???

WHY ARE PEOPLE SUCH ASSHOLES???????

artsyfox 44F
1799 posts
9/8/2006 3:35 pm

Shameless, you know how it is sometimes. The peeps from the room get kinda funky. I kinda wish I had been there but I am sadd to say wouldn't have been any help whatsoever. But it sounds like a remarkably poor reception all around.
Hugs,
Kelli

ArtstyFox #


ArtsyFox
"We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another."
Luciano de Crescenzo


rm_uktripod 46M
1 post
9/8/2006 3:58 pm

you could of joined our party fox, it was my first meet too, but i thought it wasnt too bad, tho it WAS very cliquey and i too had to ask a few times who people were n such, and thanks shameless for getting me to go


artsyfox 44F
1799 posts
9/9/2006 3:21 am

    Quoting rm_uktripod:
    you could of joined our party fox, it was my first meet too, but i thought it wasnt too bad, tho it WAS very cliquey and i too had to ask a few times who people were n such, and thanks shameless for getting me to go
oktri ......LOL hun I know I could have gone but not going to go to meet n greeets for forseeable future. Least not that I can see.

hugs,
Kelli

ArtsyFox
"We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another."
Luciano de Crescenzo


chefbill425 56M

9/9/2006 3:35 am

Shameless,

Why do you think I dont go!!!


rm_archon52279 56M

9/9/2006 10:58 am

Where can we( find info on M&G events in the area? I enjoy looking around here but not too much REAL goings on from the web site. But I can see your point. If it is cold inside, why should you waste time trying to build a fire. Good luck!!

the TnWizard


ScrollingEagle 57M
14 posts
9/11/2006 6:55 pm

My Sweet Dear "Shameless":

I've been afforded the same in retrospect as you have. I went to a meet and greet and was equally delt a harsh and uncaring attitude by a number of others. Now, although I did not arrive w/ a new-be it still sucked. I had to make my own way nearly forcing and fighting my way into a group of "Select Few" who thought they were all that and more.
Although you opted to vent on a blog.. I took it into the "room" and ripped some to shreads. I know.. not the most advisable approaches.. but.. I was pissed... and as your title says: why are some such assholes....... God only knows.. they think their all that and more.. and yet.. their such peeons...


pilot50623 55M

9/12/2006 6:16 pm

Sorry you had a bad time wish i would have been there


lizardking480 59M

9/26/2006 8:22 pm

New to all this,where do u go for all meets & greets email me and let me know


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