Finally leaving this shit hole!!!!!!!!!!!  

SexyT12078 50F
138 posts
7/2/2006 9:06 pm

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7/7/2006 2:36 pm

Finally leaving this shit hole!!!!!!!!!!!

I had been thinking of leaving here for sometime now, and have finally decided to make the move! Truth is, the closer my ex (my kids father) gets to getting out of jail, the more fear I have of my safety and my childrens. I may have an order of protection, but in all actuality all it really is, is a piece of dam paper, and I know from experience how quick the police are to answer domestic calls around here.And most of them seem to act like the woman likes to endure this shit.
This crazy fucking bastard has done shit to me that I'll never forget! I am lucky to be alive to even type this. Those that know me on here know what I'm talking about.
I won't be changing my location on here for those reasons.
And I hope that any woman on here who lives in an abusive relationship will be smart enough to know that You are so much better than that!You can break the circle of violence.

Sweetpickles69 48F

7/3/2006 8:25 am

No one deserves to be treated in a violent way. I had to leave a violent man too! I'm just glad I wised up before I got hurt! I hear ya about the police too. They wouldn't act that way if it was their daughter?


jsthfw49 68M
6 posts
7/6/2006 12:39 pm

Fear is a terrible thing and I am sorry you have to live with that - I wish I had a easy solution to it for all that live with fear - just a note from me saying I understand in some small way what you feel and in another way dont but wish you didnt - mine was comming to terms with my cancer so I do know what it is to live with a fear that can be deadly - its so frustrating at times we all dont realize that just love is the answer - it would free us all from the pains and fears of life - if your ex only realized that. But I can't know the fear a woman has in a situation like yours - I just wish it wasnt so

outdoorman94 49M

7/6/2006 6:36 pm

Well no one deserves to be treated like that.I wish you the best of luck and if you ever wanna chat feel free to give me a holler!

9Simon9 67M
292 posts
7/7/2006 6:59 am

If you truly feel your and/or your children's lives will be in danger after your ex gets out of jail, I recommend you contact Vera House, a women's shelter in Central NY. Phone: 315-468-3260. They can offer a whole range of resources to you, from legal services to alternate living arrangements.

Good luck.

SexyT12078 50F

7/7/2006 2:36 pm

hey thanks. I've been involved with Domestic violenece here and plan to keep attending the meetings where I have moved. But thank you for all your concerns everyone.

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