Define Sexy  

SexySquirterGirl 52F
391 posts
9/1/2005 2:19 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Define Sexy

Okay this is simple enough, I want to hear everyone's opinion out there on what they find sexy.. I, of course, will start first!!!

First and foremost I find confidence and the way a person carries themselves very very sexy. Someone who is proud of who they are, hold their head high, the way they walk, talk, dress, smell, and their attitude. Someone who can walk in a room and own it. Someone who can look you in the eye while you are secretly undressing them in your mind.

For me, I have always been a curvy girl. But I know I am sexy. I am confident in myself and my sexual ability, I know how to dress to accent my best features, I hold my head high and always have a smile on my face when I enter a room. I make sure to always smell my very best, look my best, and to always have an open mind. I am not afraid to look a person in the eye, or am too shy to speak my mind. I often make the first move when it comes to the opposite sex. I have a certain sex appeal, and I am proud of it..

So tell me what you find sexy, and why??? Things that turn you on and things that turn you off... Looking forward to lots of feedback.. thanks for your time.... SG

rm_troyfriend 52M

9/1/2005 3:47 pm

I am really turned on by a woman that is totally comfortable in her own skin. She lacks nothing, is happy and sexy all by herself. I like a woman that knows what she wants, is honest and not afraid to put it straight out there...Great eyes: bright, intense, intelligent. Wounded eyes are a deel breaker for me.

Physically, I love longer than shoulder length hair, great nipples (breast size is unimportant to me).

I am attract to the person more than the body. Then I get thinking about the body and wonder how I could please it...


DasCole 54M

9/7/2005 10:09 pm

Hello lovely
To me sexy is all attitude. Pretty and sexy are very different things. Pretty goes on a shelf for display. Sexy can come sit on my lap. Its in the way one carries themselves. If you feel sexy you are sexy. Lots of things cad add or subtract to that sex appeal, but the root of it is all attitude


Complacency and apathy will sneak up behind your dreams, and leave them lying in a pool of your own hope. Deny these killers. Reach for the stars

SexySquirterGirl 52F
102 posts
9/9/2005 5:30 am

Exactly!!! IF you feel good, and show it, others will see it... I love it... I love attention, always have....

rm_molittle69 47M
117 posts
9/30/2005 8:46 pm

there is nothing sexier than a woman in a white cotton t-shirt and white cotton hip huggers!

rm_jucediego 62F

9/30/2005 10:11 pm

a man needing a shave, in tight jeans is sexy, especially when you can see the bulge of his hard cock pushing to be let out.
a woman's hard nipples under a blouse one size too small is sexy.
a genuine preorgasmic moan is sexy.
and you're incredibly sexy SquirterGirl.

SexySquirterGirl 52F
102 posts
10/18/2005 9:31 am

Jucediego~I am so sorry I havent personally responded to your posts, but you have left me some awesome comments and given me warm fuzzies!!! Thank you so much for that... Whenever a woman tells me I am sexy, it just wows me, because so many women are catty... Plus I think all women are sexy, seriously, so when one finds me sexy I cant think of a better compliment than that! Big hugs and thanks again, SSG

Monterey4fun 43M

10/18/2005 11:18 am

SSG: I agree, the way a person carries themselves is huge. Physical beauty is great, but I've seen many women that become less and less attractive once you realize they are self-conscious and do not have a lot of self confidence. Another HUGELY SEXY thing with me is intelligence and an articulate way of communicating. I don't mean education, quite often education doesn't mean a thing. What I am talking about is an ability and willing to communicate honestly and enthusiastically. That includes listening with attentiveness and engaging in give-and-take, stimulating conversation. I've met many women that, upon interacting and talking, become infinitely more attractive than the initial glance would indicate.

Physically, a pleasant-smelling woman is such a turn-on, that just sets me off! And of course, i am a pushover for a beautiful smile and someone that holds their head and shoulders high!

SexySquirterGirl 52F
102 posts
10/20/2005 5:33 am

Monterey4fun~I also agree that a good smelling man does drive me nuts, an awesome smile and a sense of humor are also very important. And yes looks are everything, not even close. Looks may Catch my eye, but personality, intelligence and good commucation, is what keeps me interested. Confidence is very important to me, people with low self esteem, seem to need lots of reassurance, and are often negetive. I dont mind giving reassurance, actually enjoy giving compliments and being attentive, but I dislike negetivity... I am a talkacholic, and I prefer those that I can keep interested and who will enjoy communicating with me... Hugs...

masterposer2000 54M
1 post
2/2/2006 12:07 pm

Turn-ons are groomed feet, voluptous woman, a woman with a thick booty. AdultFriendFinder

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