There Are Some Men on this Site Whom I Hope NEVER Get Any  

SexyRycheBabe 46F
1292 posts
2/4/2006 4:45 pm

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There Are Some Men on this Site Whom I Hope NEVER Get Any

I get this email from a guy who wants to "get together." I check out his profile. I was bored. And I notice that my body type doesn't match his which leads me to wonder why he would even email me to begin with. Okay? So, I email him asking him that very question. You want to know what the oh so intelligent Asshole had to say in return? Without having even seen me, mind you. This chump says something along the lines of: Go fuck your fat self then.


My reaction? None. I didn't respond to that email.

But it got me to thinking.

Ummmm... am I supposed to be offended? Because I'm not. I'm simply relieved to have avoided the likes of him, and I'm really, really glad that I'm not "thin" or "HWP" and IGNORANT!

He had a face pic and he wasn't all that but I also think his penis is probably entirely too small to be showcased on this website.

I digress.

In light of this event, which, I have to tell you is the absolute FIRST time I've ever had something like that happen to me here, I am left to hope that he is unsuccessful in ALL of his attempts here at AdultFriendFinder.

So, "Steve in San Antonio," (not his handle but the subject header) this one is for you.

rm_sluggo992 53M
48 posts
2/5/2006 11:18 am

Don't get me wrong, I'm not validating his actions. He's an a-hole that can't stand the truth. However, most people have higher preferences/expectations than can be realized. Many guys believe that if they can get the fair maiden to kiss their frog-looking asses they will turn into princes right before her eyes. Granted, reality must slap them in the face at some point (probably many points!) but they press on with this "fantasy". You can blame Billy Joel and Ric Ocasik (sp?) for this. When they married super-models, it opened the door for any troll to think he, too, could climb the "physical beauty" ladder.

SexyRycheBabe 46F
820 posts
2/5/2006 1:35 pm

sluggo: That's BS. I completely and totally disagree with you. The bottom line isn't that people have higher expectations because some musicians married super-models, it's that he was rude.

He had NO fucking clue what I looked like. No means by which to judge me and yet he still got beligerent with me. I wasn't telling him to go fuck himself because he wasn't going to be able to "get with this." I was genuinely curious as to why he would email me to begin with if our profile preferences didn't match.

What that tells me is that he assumed I was either one of 2 things:
1. Desperate.
2. Easy.

And, he probably hoped, that I would be, among other things, STUPID!!

There's a thing called common courtesy that he was definitely lacking. There are plenty of emails that I receive where I am not pleased either by the content of the email or the picture of the person attached. We all have that here. That doesn't mean that I write back telling them to go fuck themselves or call them names or get rude with them.

I'm honest on here. I don't claim to be a super-model when I'm really only a super-mom. I'm real. You may not like it and it may not be what you're looking for, but, by God, you better fucking respect it.

nightnsa 49M  
415 posts
2/5/2006 2:15 pm

i hope that i am not one of those men on this site that you hope never gets any....that would suck.

just kidding...

sorry that happened to you...but their are alot of jerks out their...if it is any conselation their are alot of bitches out their too...

SexyRycheBabe 46F
820 posts
2/5/2006 5:03 pm

nightnsa: I've noticed you're always quick to point out how the reverse order works too. I bitch about a particular man here or there and you come back with the equivelant in women.

You're one of those that wants to remind everyone that the grass isn't always greener on the other side, aren't you? LOL

No, you're not one of those men. Well, not that I've seen from you anyway.

man_on_fire2004 54M

2/5/2006 8:32 pm

Well sexy he's definatly a loser.
and never got the oppurtunity to know you.
to judge was totally wrong to say the least.

i am a big guy tall with some meat on my bones.
even when i was skinny i still preferred a woman
that had some meat on her.yeah i have been with
those thin model types but my preferance is a
big beautiful woman .

But to sum it all up i have always looked at the
heart of the person the personality to be exact
thats what matters most to me.

What goes around will come around and someone he is interested
in will hurt his feelings and see how he likes it
exspecially when she says what the hell are you going to do
with that little guy LOL.

Take care sexy hope we run into eacother some day

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