Qualities of Women You Want to Be Around  

SexyRycheBabe 46F
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1/4/2006 1:01 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Qualities of Women You Want to Be Around

According to Dr. Phil (as taken from the Jan 2006 issue of Oprah magazine)these 7 qualities are what you want in a woman:

1. They see the strengths, not the limitations, in others. They make you proud to be yourself -- because they tell you why you're special.

2. They trust you so fully that you feel compelled to meet their expectations. Consequently, they make you feel like a better person than you normally are.

3. They respect you for what you have done and where you have come from.

4. They are authentic and don't need you to lie to them to feed their egos.

5. They live by their rules but don't expect you to follow them.

6. They are at peace with themselves, so they don't have to prove anything to you.

7. They're good listeners and sincerely interested in you, so you feel important. Because they're available for honest and genuine discussion, they make you want to share yourself.

Wow. Maybe this is why I've been single for so long. Seriously. I don't think I do any of those things. I mean, especially in the beginning of a relationship, I'm much more likely to want a written guarantee signed in blood that ensures me they're up-to-speed and on-the-same-page before I'll be trusting or likely to tell someone that they're special.

Why does it always come down to stroking a guy's ego?! I hate that!!!

not2late2 43M

1/5/2006 3:33 am

Here's my own lists:

1. Gotta be funny, can't imagine going a single day without laughing.
2. Gotta have snap, love an intelligent woman who doesn't fall for b.s. and doesn't mind talkin' a lil smack.
3. Gotta be witty, a 'Tara Reid' would NEVER do.
4. Gotta be intelligent and well spoken, forgive me, I love a good conversation.

These are must...I can get around the other stuff.

SexyRycheBabe 46F
820 posts
1/5/2006 7:38 am

Your list ... I can do much better. LOL There's something about Dr. Phil that makes me think that he just wants you to kiss your partner's behind and be done with it. He does it for both sexes though, so maybe it shouldn't seem so bad to me.

trish778 44F

1/5/2006 10:26 pm

I agree with you about it always being the ego thing.

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