My Male Speculations  

SexyRycheBabe 46F
1292 posts
2/3/2006 8:47 am

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My Male Speculations

mood: frisky

I want to know how many men actually enjoy having their asses played with. Not by another man, of course, but by the women in their lives.

The reason I'm asking is because I had an interesting conversation with some guy in a chat room last night. Yes, SexyRycheBabe was in a chat room last night. Sometimes I like to go there. Anyway, this guy makes a comment about how he thinks that men who play with vibrators are gay. I, being the sexually educated woman that I am, had to argue this point. The way I see it, a man isn't gay if he likes to play with a vibrator on occassion. He's gay if he likes to play with a penis -- a penis attached to another live man.

The fact is, I've had several men interested and liked the "edge" anal play added. I think that it enabled them to experience a completely intense physical sensation other than the ones they're used to. I will admit that one guy in particular really wanted to try it out of curiousity and knew I would provide it because I'm his Ultimate Sex Goddess. The other one, was probably mildly curious but did it more because he knew it pleased me. No, we weren't involved in any sort of Dom/Sub relationship. No man I've ever been with hasn't enjoyed being stroked in that region with a finger so what's the difference between a finger and a vibrator. [Okay, other than size.

You want to know what my idea of a dream man is? A strong, incredibly powerful and considerate lover who will let me fuck him in the ass with a strap-on. I've never done it and I won't ever do it until I know that I have every part of him. To me, that is the ultimate act of possessiveness.

Something I've learned about myself since joining this site:

1. I much prefer to look at a big cock than a little one.

2. I, also, prefer to see a hard cock than a limp one.

bicurguy2hookup 41M
1 post
2/3/2006 1:36 pm

An open minded guy isn't afraid to try something new. And let me tell you, the surprised look on my face was worth it the first time a girl played back there with me. I can share more if you're interested either here or by email.


MastrandSlav 43M/48F
200 posts
2/3/2006 1:47 pm

Well if it matters any, I much prefer to see a woman's face or breasts. Something about watching her shove things in and out of her pussy is not intimate enough for me.

Long time no say hi, well at least from me. Hope all is well and that the novel coming along well.

I sometimes wonder if you are the same person I met but I am not a person to dwell in the past.

SexyRycheBabe 46F
820 posts
2/3/2006 2:42 pm

mastrandslav: What is that supposed to mean? You wonder if I'm the same person.

bigcurguy: You can share here. That's why I posted it as a blog.

SexyRycheBabe 46F
820 posts
2/3/2006 5:47 pm

mastrandslav: I've been thinking about what you said. I know why you say that you wonder if I'm the same person you met. Of course, I am. But lets think about where I was then:

I was reeling from a heart-shattering letdown from a guy who I loved who got me pregnant and couldn't be bothered.

I met you when my son was less than a year old, I think, and I had a really hard time meshing my mommy-side with my sexual-side.

Those were the two most prevalent things going on with me then. This side of me (the one that is apparent here on AdultFriendFinder) has been in me all along. It just wasn't a priority and it's not always showcased. Besides, we met because you're my friend's love and so my interactions with you were based on that.

I'm many things... this AdultFriendFinder side is only a small facet of my overall, true personality. I think that's true of everyone here. At least, I hope that the people I talk to on here are more dimensional than this one place allows you to be.

rm_emerald6912 50M
545 posts
2/3/2006 6:32 pm

It is delicious, being done with a strap on.

rm_titsandtires 52M/42F
3656 posts
2/4/2006 9:13 am

It is a sensation that i've grown to enjoy, but only on occasion. not every time.
btw, I can't agree more with your statement, "a man isn't gay if he likes to play with a vibrator on occassion. He's gay if he likes to play with a penis -- a penis attached to another live man."


MastrandSlav 43M/48F
200 posts
2/4/2006 1:17 pm

Nothing really to read into. I am not judging now but I was back at our meeting. I now take you for what you are, which is pleasantly a good thing, not at what I have been told you can be. I believed at the time there was so much more trapped beneath and I was right but at the time it all was masked in mild hostility.

I like you because you are my girlfriend's chum.
I like you because you are smart.
I like you because you are a devious little bitch.

We could be friends someday if we could ever hammer out who was going to be "On Top".

SexyRycheBabe 46F
820 posts
2/4/2006 9:51 pm

tires: You said it perfectly. It is great to do ... on occasion.

mastrandslav: There's nothing to hammer out with me as to who's "On Top": IT IS ALWAYS ME!!!!

slidein2meplz 63F
1994 posts
2/4/2006 10:57 pm

SexyRycheBabe..Hi! Hey I just wanted to pop over and say welcome to the group for "24 and Rescue Me".. which one of these are you the most interested in? or are you like me and go nuts over both? LOL.

Anyway...somehow or another I'd like to try and get a group chat together. Maybe if you have a chance to swing on over to the group site and leave a note what nights and/or times are good for you. OK?

Nice to meet you...and hope we can have some cool chat's soon. Have a good one. ok. Slide.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

MastrandSlav 43M/48F
200 posts
2/5/2006 8:12 am

LOL. You don't disappoint. I had figured that would be the response and I even hashed up some snappy counters for that very comment but ...

Why dance with words? Next time we meet they will have to lock the both of us in a small dark room with only a single chair and half full bottle of baby oil. We will let actions speak for themselves and see who emerges "On Top".

Enjoy the super bowl.

SexyRycheBabe 46F
820 posts
2/5/2006 1:42 pm

Hey slidein2meplz I have left a couple of comments over there for the group but they don't seem to show up. I dunno. Just thought I would let you know. BTW, I don't watch 24. Just R.M.

SexyRycheBabe 46F
820 posts
2/8/2006 10:40 pm

mastrandslave : I'm Top enough never to take part in such a challenge. Esp. w/my chum's boyfriend.

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