Here's an Idea  

SexyRycheBabe 46F
1292 posts
4/12/2006 7:44 am

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5/6/2006 8:55 pm

Here's an Idea

One of the reasons I took a break from this site was all of the God-awful "hits" I was getting in my mailbox. They were -- excuse me, ARE -- just vulgar and gross. Then, there's nothing worse that putting your thoughts, emotions, heart out there for all of blogland to read only to have some idiot respond with something like, "wanna hook up?"

So, today, as part of my revisiting this site -- mostly to blog -- I realized that I should redo my profile and what it says that I'm wanting. I'm thinking that if I take out words like: blowjob, best, pussy, sweet, no-strings, open, discrete, fun, etc...
and replace them with words like:
relationship, strings, serious, intelligent, must not be married, and good sex is a plus...
Will it put an end to all of the vulgar, gross things in my inbox? Somehow I doubt it but I think its worth a shot anyway. Certainly it couldn't hurt! When I go back and read my profile, it's downright embarassing. It's sooo obvious that I had only one thing on my mind that day when I created this profile. I still give the best blowjobs but I don't think I need to use that as advertisment. That's not who I am. My profile should be an indicator of who I am and what I'm wanting. Right? Right, I agree.

SilkenKiera 39F  

4/12/2006 2:04 pm

Don't I know it! They don't even take the time to read the profile. I know no one reads mine because it explicitly says friends only...I'm married. I constantly get Wanna meet sometime. WTF?

I agree it is definatly important to update, and reupdate the ole profile though. Circumstances, and moods change.

docdirk 49M

4/12/2006 5:53 pm

"Conservative woman seeking companionship for church socials."

Give that a shot!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

nightnsa 49M  
415 posts
4/12/2006 5:59 pm

you mean we are supposed to read the profiles???????
knew i was doing something wrong.....
just kidding...
i doubt that changing your profile's wording is going to change the vulgar and gross emails...your profile should be an indicator of what you are looking for...but even then it is still hard to profile states exactly what i am looking for and i am honest and open in it, but i don't exactly have people beating down my email or blogs...but i shall keep looking..

stay true to yourself and everything else will take care of itself

fantasylover_05 63M

4/12/2006 6:31 pm

You can also consider turning off your profile and only blog? I suspect no matter what you put in you profile you will get those kinds of emails.... so just turn it off?

Good luck!

SexyRycheBabe 46F
820 posts
4/13/2006 6:20 am

fantasylover: I didn't know I could even do that! I spent a couple of months in there with my profile turned off and just assumed I couldn't blog then. Damn, I missed out on blogging when I didn't even have to?! Oh, the shame!!! Thanks for visiting, though.

night: Yes, you're supposed to read profiles! And every other little detail about a person (answered questions and compatibility reports) before emailing a person. Guess you don't do that either, huh? ;P I guess there's so many women you want to "hit" that you don't take the time to all the proper research.

Hey... wait a minute.... come to think of it. I don't think you've ever sent me an email! Whats up with that?!

Doc: I can't believe you of all people would leave me that line!! I know your life wasn't complete when I didn't blog, but come on now!! A conservative lady? Where is she? I'd like to meet her sometime! Silly.

You're the second-best thing about AdultFriendFinder, you know. Second only to just being able to write here in blogland. Actually, come to think of it... maybe the third because the hot sex I was getting out of my first AdultFriendFinder hookup was pretty damn spectacular... Well, at any rate, you're in the top 3.

See... told ya I wasn't a conservative lady.

Silken: I'm convinced that your being married instantly makes you more appealing. Not that you're not appealing, I don't mean it that way!! Just, I think, men assume you're easier and that you don't reallllllly mean you want to be friends only. After all, are men capable of real-world friendships? I dunno. Guess that's a question for the guys. Thanks for visiting.

nightnsa 49M  
415 posts
4/13/2006 7:43 pm

sorry i will send you a disgusting, vile email.....
just kidding ....i really do read the profiles.....

SexyRycheBabe 46F
820 posts
4/13/2006 8:54 pm

night: Good boy.

docdirk 49M

4/14/2006 5:38 pm

Damn, second, then third, soon, an afterthought. Oh, the degradation! LOL!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

SinPleasure2 51M

4/24/2006 9:12 am

Hey, maybe the women should search for guys they might like. I've known a few women on AdultFriendFinder who have never searched for a guy, ever.

This is a sex hookup site so some sexually charged guys are going to read your explicit profile and send hot monkey letters.

Also I've known a woman or two who puts a lot of erotic stuff in their profiles. But that stuff is only for the right guy when they get to know them.

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