Knowing right from wrong  

rm_SexyBBW382 52F
2862 posts
7/30/2006 10:22 am

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Knowing right from wrong

How do you know when you are doing the right thing and not just doing something that makes you feel safe, when it comes to men and women? I have always been the type of person that has never been selfish, or atleast I try not to be. I always try to put the feelings or others ahead of my own. I have left a number of relationships because I thought I knew what was better for them, even if they didn't agree with my thoughts. I guess I might do this because in my eyes I feel they need more, or deserve more then maybe I can give, and also it is my way of keeping myself from getting hurt in the process. Because there are also those great guys out there that are also your friend as well as lovers who don't wanna hurt you and are affraid to tell you the truth for fear of hurting your feelings. I know I have alot to offer any man. But sometimes just because it feels good doesn't mean it's best for the other person involved. Just my thought for the day. Not sure I explained how I am feeling in the right way, but sometimes people just don't know how to exactly put into words how they are feeling................Lori

skychicken692 49M

7/30/2006 12:27 pm

Hello I know you don't know me at all sorta just surfed in kinda....I read pam's blog seen your pic and handle there and your heading was catchy. anyway tht is a tough call. you should let the person make the "Is this right for me" question decision what was a fun sentence. they must be getting something for what they are doing or they would not be doing it. Now on the same side of the coin you have to do what feels right for you. a guy by the name of leo buscigulia aka DR. hugs said nobody rides a roller coaster the same way. meaning you might be doing the same thing at the same time the same way but will come out of it with two diffrent experences so you really don't know how the other person is feeling. than there is Dr. phil if you are enjoying yourself and not breaking the law or hurting somebody why worry enjoy the momnet or time. must say you have a nice blog. (not hitting on you)

rm_SexyBBW382 52F
2224 posts
8/3/2006 7:07 am

Hello skychicken thanks for your nice comment. Have a great day.................Lori

ineedlovefromyou 55M
27 posts
8/4/2006 12:27 am

lori it sounds like you think to much of others if that person is there with you its becouse he whants to be. that is his decision, you may think he wants more or deserves more but that is still his choice. but dont push people away just becouse you dont want to get hurt, somtimes when you push them away you are alredy atached and you get hurt anyway. We are all here for a good time in this life as we sure arn't here for a long time. So take love when it is ofered by someone you love and if in the end you get hurt think of all the hapyness you had before it ended and way the two together. i would rather have 6 months of happyness and 12 months of sadnes then 18 months of lonlyness.

take care and remember these men probebly see more in you than you give yourself credit for


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