What makes good sex?  

SexxxyLicious28 33F
112 posts
1/15/2006 4:22 am

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What makes good sex?

Well it's a new year and I started it off with a good fuck. No I lied, not just good... great. Even though I'm only 21 I think that was the best sex of my life. It was like he knew what to do, how to do it, and do it right. But tonight I think I had the worse sex of my life. Although these were two different from two different sides of the spectrum, tonight's fuck was not good... at all. All day long I was horny and just want to be pounded and be roughed up. But when I got my chance, it sucked. And I have no clue why. Maybe I'm drying up and losing my libido at the ripe old age of 21 (ha ha).

So what makes good sex?

Yea there's the usual nice dick, nice pussy, sexual attraction, fun, etc. but what really makes sex good? Is it the person you're with, how horny you are, how talented you are, how talented the other person is? hm... I think I may have to conduct some research on this...

My current faves/obsessions:

Books: How to make Love like a Porn Star by Jenna Jameson and Cunt by Inga Muscio

Music: Damian Marley's Welcome to Jamrock

T.V. Show: Sex and the City and Desperate Housewives

Movies: Four Brothers and Crash

Video Games: Need For Speed: MOST WANTED

rm_Chip24472 53M

1/15/2006 2:44 pm

Personaly, I think what differntiates a great sexual experience from an average one is time and attitude.

Attitude first. If a guy has only himself in mind and a mere passing interest in you, chances are the experience won't be all that great. I know some women like to be treated like a thought-had and forgotten-but that doesn't excuse the guy from treating her like a whore.
On the other side of the spectrum is the guy whose mind-set is "I'm going to do this my way" and not pick up on the cues being given to him.
Scenario number 1:
A guy is going down on you. He's doing all right but not outstanding so you aid his search for the sweet spot by spreading your lips a little for him. His reaction is to continue what he was doing because it's always worked before. Or at least he thinks it has.
Scenario number 2:
He's got you from behind, going at methodicaly. You're just about there. A few good, hard, well-timed thrusts and you're over the edge, so you start backing into him. His response? He lets you do the work as he watches you pleasure yourself with his supposed prowess.

This guy isn't an ego-maniac. He's just clueless. The ego-maniac is the one with the first attitude.

Now on to time.
Unless it's said from the outset that it will be a quikie I think both parties owe it to each other to look around for a while to find the right combination. Foreplay is drastically underrated anymore in this
gonzo porn crazy world. Put simply a guy needs to work at it for a while before he produces the final act.

Anyway, you asked for opinions on it and there you have mine. May not be worth much, but it's there.

Loosetooth 42M
1147 posts
1/21/2006 2:30 am

There is no magic formula, so although I would encourage you to conduct your survy that would be more for your own pleasure than the results that it produces. If you want good sex though I think the way to achieve it is to do risky/dirty sex that you have not done before.

philiepe 32M

7/31/2007 5:07 pm

what i think. if you do something for him and he does what your phantanies meet its the best

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