Friends with benefits... can it really be done?!  

SexxxyLicious28 33F
112 posts
1/16/2006 2:26 am

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7/25/2006 10:39 pm

Friends with benefits... can it really be done?!

So it's 5 in the morning and a thought just occured to me. It occured to me many times before but I usually brush it off. Is there really such a thing as "friends with benefits"? Can two people have a great friendship and have incredible sex at the same time without dating? It seems to me that sex complicates things. Some people need to have a definition of relationships and when you have sex with a friend, it seems to blur the line that's between friends and lovers. Once add sex into the equation, isn't it hard to hear about your "friend" dating other people, becoming jealous, wondering who their doing. Not that it's happened to me or anything.

The last couple of times I've tried have a friends with benefits relationships, the guys would pull that shit on me. Becoming jealous, wanting to define the relationship and start dating. Not saying that it's a bad thing, but I just thought that most men would find this type of arrangement attractive. Do me whenever we're available, go out and have fun with the guys, date around, and not worry about upsetting a girlfriend. So I ask myself, can two people honestly stay friends and fuck at the same time?

I'm going to conduct a study and have sex with all my friends... and none friends to throw some spontaneity in the mix. Then I will see how the relationships. Will they get better, worse, or stay the same? If you would like to be apart of this "sexperiment" feel free to contact with your information and we can gladly get it on! More to come soon!


Loosetooth 42M
1147 posts
1/21/2006 2:35 am

Such a mighty young lady to be always conducting these studies! When I was younger fuck buddy relationships were beyond me, but now..... Well you get older, things mellow in your head, passion becomes a controllable thing (sounds shit but actually it is better). The trick to the fuck buddy relationship is to scrupilously define it before hand and always keep that definition to mind. You have to be very disciplined and honest, with yourself and your friend.

rm_bigjim4344 33M
1 post
1/25/2006 9:18 am

If you're looking for a good fuck, I will be happy to provide it for you!

collegequicky 34M

1/27/2006 3:56 pm

I dont know what is up with these other guys, but if i had a freind that i could just have sex with and not have to worry about the complications of a steady relationship my life would be one step closer to being complete.

collegequicky 34M

1/27/2006 4:19 pm

AdultFriendFinder email me sometime and will go for a ride. ;0)

rm_lovepoet5 35M

1/31/2006 12:06 pm

Hey B,

I think that you can have sex and still just be friends as long as its understood that, thats all it is.

rm_lovepoet5 35M

1/31/2006 12:07 pm

hit me up somtime and ill prove it. lol......

TruthbeTold3000 35M
1 post
1/31/2006 11:21 pm

Hey girl, I believe its possible but if you do it with someone you just met it more likely to happen then someone you knew for awhile. If you need a test subject, let me know.

dream761234 41M
2 posts
2/6/2006 3:13 pm

Call me anytime

rm_Franklin355 63M
1 post
2/15/2006 8:55 am

Friends with Benefits?

I have had a few friends with benefits and to be honest, they were some of the best friendships you could have. We didn’t have sex every time we got together. Sometimes we would double date, catch a movie or dinner, or help out each other around the house. But every now and then one of us would ask for a benefit. But we always respected each other, never asking for a benefit if either one of us were involved with someone. Why complicate the other relationship? Our relationships were simple, if a need was not being met, we could ask a friend to help fill a need. Companionship rather than a friend with benefit is a better description.

looking46176 41M

2/16/2006 9:58 am

I've had a few "friends with benefits" before and things were ok.

rm_seekunique 57M

3/4/2006 12:22 pm

Survey me any time you like.

rm_cuddlebear0 58M

6/5/2006 2:48 am

Sure you can have "friends with benefits", I do, and it works fine as long as you keep your head on straight. I have a couple of friends that I get together with regularly, and when I am not with them, what they do is their business. Sometime when traveling I have been with escorts, and I have a couple of escorts I get together with here. I can have a willing woman in the 22-28 age range any time I want. One keeps accusing me of using "raging bull". It is all in the attitude. I get together with my friends sometimes without any sex, and I ahve been known to cook dinner for them, or just take them out for a date because I have nothing to do, and they are free also. The nice thing about being older, if you are out with say a 27 yr old, you can look her right in the eye, and say I am too old for you for a permanent relationship, but I sure can appreciate you spending time with me. Maybe it is more of a "sugar daddy" arrangement, but, hey, we both benefit.

indyref69 51M/54F  
22 posts
6/23/2006 3:39 pm

hello hit me up at the y under dan46203 and lets search out your fndings cause i know it can be fruitful .


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