And another thing...  

SensuousWoman3 56F
900 posts
8/31/2006 4:06 am

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And another thing...

It sure seems that a lot of people are down in the dumps lately---some with good reason and others, well, what the hell? Who am I to say if someone has a “good” reason or otherwise to feel down and blue? There is nothing worse than someone who says, “You shouldn’t feel that way!” God dammit, do not tell me how to feel, because if you do, I will have to kill you. Ya got that little Miss or Mister Good Ship Lollipop? (Please pardon the cursing and taking thy Lord’s name in vain---I promise to mention it the next time I’m in the confessional.)

And platitudes. Let’s talk about platitudes. No, let’s NOT talk about platitudes. For now, fuck platitudes. Let’s just give the stinkin’ platitudes a rest for a while. Sometimes platitudes just get on your last ever lovin’ nerve.

So then, I say that we take this opportunity to bitch, whine, snivel, snarl, moan, groan, complain, gripe, grumble (where is that damned thesaurus, anyway?) and whimper for awhile, right here, right now. Pretend this is a wailing wall and scribble down any thing that is pissing you off or has ever ticked you off---big or small, petty or significant, serious or frivolous. Say anything (except for something mean about another AdultFriendFinder member, please)!!! In fact, let’s see who can be the sniveliest. (I know, that is not a word, bitch about it below if you want. Be my guest. Oh, you already are my guest.)

Consider this a safe haven for your negative energy. Let er’ rip! Don’t be too proud, it is okay to feel like crap and grumble sometimes. No one is passing out awards for the world’s best PollyAnna or PollyAndy. At least today they’re not.

Once we get a couple of things out of our system, then we’ll talk about turning the beat around and taking some action. Don’t worry, you’ll have a chance to redeem your good and positive side, I promise to see to that. But until then, the Complaint Department is open.

JuicyBBW1001 56F

8/31/2006 4:22 am

You know what pisses me off more then anything??? Some of the people I talk to on a daily basis really should NOT own a computer. They seem to think that all you have to do is turn it on and get online. WRONG computers are like cars if you don't maintain them they will break down and it is NOT our fault.
You know what else pisses me off is the people that complain about the amount of time it takes to get to a live person. They have to go thru the Interactive Voice Response System. GET THE FUCK OVER IT PEOPLE. If you hadn't noticed most places you call these days have the damn things and trust me I don't like them either and I sure as hell don't have time to listen to YOU complain about it either since we have average call times to worry about.
And lastly the thing that really grates on my nerves is when people call in they don't have the error message wrote down or even know what kind of Operating System they have or whether or not they have a firewall. Like I said KNOW YOUR COMPUTER.

Okay I am done now and thanks for the opportunity to lighten my load of crosses.


SensuousWoman3 replies on 8/31/2006 4:30 am:
Way to go, Juice! Thank you so much! We're off to a good start!

SensuousWoman3 56F
3106 posts
8/31/2006 4:25 am

Just to loosen everyone up, I’ll go first. Please feel free to post as many times as you want.

I hate people who interrupt others while they’re talking or who speak over you. That is one reason I could never quite stomach “The View” ‒ everyone talking over one another. I think it is so rude. Where does anyone get off thinking what they have to say is more important than what I or anyone else has to say? How arrogant! Who do they think they are, anyway?

My favorite thing to say to that when that happens to me is, “Oh, forgive me for talking while you’re interrupting!”


SensuousWoman3 replies on 8/31/2006 4:31 am:
Okay, well, I guess I'll go second!

JuicyBBW1001 56F

8/31/2006 5:03 am

Well I was gonna rant about men but since you said we had to be nice to our fellow AdultFriendFinder members I had to pick a different topic.


SensuousWoman3 replies on 8/31/2006 5:28 am:
Oh, no, no, no, no. Go ahead---just don't name names, that's all. Keep it comin', love.

JuicyBBW1001 56F

8/31/2006 6:48 am

Ok since you said I could. Here it goes.
I got an email from a guy who said he noticed that the larger ladies on this website have a difficult time hooking up and that he was offering his services to us. The only thing that he asked is that we be generous because his oral skills where unmatched. Now I had to ask myself a few questions before I sent him a reply.
The first question is if his oral sex skills where so good why in the hell is he pimpin himself?
The second one is why didn't he bother reading my entire profile. It clearly states I AM NO INSTAFUCK BABE?
The last one was and it was my reply is why should I buy the cow when I can get the milk for free?? I mean look at all the men on this site who are ready willing and able to drop their pants for free.
What really ticks me off about the men on this site is that they seem to think that "ALL" of the women on it are INSTAFUCK's sorry I am not one of them. I have to like ya before I lick ya and let ya stick me. And chatting for an hour and meeting for a drink doesn't mean I am gonna spread em. I mean get real guys would you honestly fuck anything on two legs no wait don't answer that of course you would.

Ok man rant over.


SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 7:51 am:
That's right, Juice, I said you could! Good work,girl!

Sir_Thomas_ 90M

8/31/2006 7:55 am

This is a great post. The world needs more love. What bothers me? People that pick fights for the sake of picking a fight. People that say one thing and do another. People that talk down to other people. Insecure people. Non-genuine, insincere, fakes, phonies, and I am not talking about bots. People that have no cern for the well being of their fellow man. People that do not take responsibility for their own actions. People that abuse freedom. People that try to make everyone else around them miserable so they feel more comfortable. I think thats it for now. BTW, I decided to come back, I missed your insights and a few others.


SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 7:59 am:
Those are some of my same gripes, Andy. Here is another one: Employers who allow an employee to come to work and act nasty and hateful to others employees on a consistent basis. It always seems that the person is so ugly acting that it manages to deflect people from approaching them to ask for anything–like them to do one of the functions of their JOB! So people avoid them and do it themselves. Why is someone allowed to come in to work every day and abuse other people? Knock it off, already! Be nice! We all have to work---let’s make the best of it!

I tell you what, I would not have a person in my employ that behaved like that. It is counter-productive to one and all. Everyone can be replaced. Someone may be good, but there is always somebody a little bit better. And don’t be stupid---if that person is hateful and talking poorly about other people---they are talking that way about you---the boss---too!

Thanks, Andy. I am very glad you’re back!

Myhoneysrooster 69M
882 posts
8/31/2006 8:53 am

As soon as I can come up with something that really pisses me off, you can bet that I will be posting it.

Ignorance is bliss. Therefore, I am one happy puppy.

Actually, I have many things that do piss me off, but, this would not be the proper place to discuss them.
Our elderly being cast aside and having to do without, while we fully help illegals and other countries
The major decline in our education system
No seperate fund for all SSI money taken in so it can be accounted for
People to stupid to know that Omaha is not in Utah!!!

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:03 am:
Ignorance can be bliss, Rooster.

I agree with the treatment of the elderly---there is no dignity in aging. Elderly without health insurance, sufficient Medicare or Medicaid, splitting medications into bits and pieces, starving to death to pay for prescriptions. The threat to Social Security–it all makes me sick.

About people who think Omaha is in Utah---like I said, who am I to say “that’s not so bad!” LOL!

HighPocKets1938 79M

8/31/2006 9:40 am

Great idea and even greater post sweetness, but without any platitudes or inuendoes, my biggest TICK are those who just can't seem to "get over" themselves NOT being the center of the cosmos, when I, (and a few others that DO know who they are) know for a fact that WE are. Of course everyone has a bad day (or friend/friends) now and then, but my Mommy done told me that..., I just wish she had told me that they come in bunches like grapes and 'nanners and wont go home.

Big Hugs And Kisses Sweetie.

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:05 am:
Dammit, that's right, HP! Do they not know who we are? Puhhleeaze! They need to GET OVER IT ALREADY!

HotSprite 65F
1390 posts
8/31/2006 9:55 am

Did I hear that the Complaint Department was open????

This one really gets my feathers ruffled:

Having to drive around and around a parking lot to find a handicap parking space because the are filled up by non-handicap vehicles, only to have some smart mouth person tell you that he/she parks there because the spaces are larger than the regular spaces andhe/she doesn't want dings on his/her car and they are he/she is special.

Give me a break folks!!!!

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:07 am:
Hi, HotSprite, you came to the right place!

That is not only horrible but it is against the law! They’ll be the ones that scream the loudest the day they need a handicap place and find an unauthorized vehicle parked in a designated stall.

Thanks for stopping by!

Sir_Thomas_ 90M

8/31/2006 1:30 pm

But my biggest Gripe is that all the good looking women and people that I respect are way too far away from Texas!

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:16 am:
No bull, Shooter. I do not have any AdultFriendFinder friends that are anywhere near close to me. At all. I've had some drive through but the numbskulls got some crazy notion in their head that I live in UTAH! Or at least that is what they said....

flagg134 37M
1582 posts
8/31/2006 2:33 pm

LOL I have to echo shooter except they are all way to far away from New York.

I hate that for me to own a piece of junk $2000 dollar car I would end up paying almost $8000 dollars in insurance in a year. I don't see how that adds up but whatever.

Lastly I cant stand close minded people the kind who just for the life of them can not see things from a different perspective. Fail to be able to see that there way of doing things is not the be all end all way. Worse is when they try to enforce their beliefs upon others.


SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:21 am:
I hate car payments. I hate insurance payments. And my state in one of the most expensive places to license a car, believe it or not!

I hate that my City has little or no public transit. I hate that in my City one does not “hail” a cab, one telephones a taxi, gives the dispatcher their name, and the taxi drives comes and toots his horn, rings the doorbell, or comes into the restaurant to get you---after a 20-30 minute wait–and not at closing hour either. And they are SO expensive here because they can be!

Closed-minded, self-righteous, judgmental people suck. Especially when they think everybody should think the way they do and set out to punish them if they don’t. ~spits~

themisskrissy 57F
2302 posts
8/31/2006 2:47 pm

i hate that i have never been a layla or an angie or even oh donna... no man has ever mourned for MY love..

Virtue Alone Ennobles

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:24 am:
No sh-t. I am sick of that myself. I want my life to revolve to a new tune, something other than "It's My Party and I'll Cry If I Want To." Why am I always the Julie in a Lisa world? As in "I'm Not Lisa, My Name is Julie..." Sick of that!


rm_SultryVirgo 49F
567 posts
8/31/2006 5:10 pm

You don't really want my list do you SW? LOL I think I may have given you an earful the last time we were on the phone LMAO

However I'll give out a condensed version. Phonies can't stand em, arrogance another one, be confident yes but leave the arrogance somewhere else. Those who believe their own press around here. Those who think they have some kind of power over other's that they don't possess. Those who can't take a statement at face value and must somehow turn it into a personal issue in regards to them.

Those who can't make a good logical argument. Those who have such little respect for themselves that they are unable to string a co-hearant sentence together.

Backstabber's, they are scum if you are going to be a friend to someone then be their friend don't fuck with people.

And as you know, those who lie to satisfy their own needs and those who participate in that lie, because after all their needs come before all honor and character.


SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:29 am:
Oh, yeah, I do---I want your list, Sister!

Ugh! Phonies & arrogance---especially arrogance. People who believe their own press–great way to put it---they think this place couldn’t have possibly run before they arrived and think that it couldn’t function without them. Nauseating. Backstabbers–they suck---a lot of them literally and frequently. No honor, no character, no integrity---and most of all---no guilt!

SensuousWoman3 56F
3106 posts
8/31/2006 6:23 pm

I hate changing light bulbs.

I cannot stand flat pop/soda/cokes (or tonic water... . )

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:29 am:
Both---the worst!

Hippink 36F  
4498 posts
8/31/2006 6:55 pm

I HATE that Square & I couldn't work things out, and HATE even more that we loved each other so much & the sex was SOOOOoooo perfect!


I HATE that I'm having trouble choosing between two men to be my new lover & one of them reads my blogs all the time!!!! More specifically, I HATE that the one I want to choose is NOT the one who reads my blogs!
Hippie XXX

How to Get Laid on AFF The Basics
Have fun, play safe!

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:33 am:
I hate unhappy endings, too Hippie. They rip a person apart. I hate shitty people in the work place (see my post to Shooter above). Show me one person who has ever been a better employee as the result of a tyrant boss. People who attempt to motivating by fear, ridicule and intimidation should be shot.

I don’t know if I hate choosing between two lovers because I’ve never had to do it---but if YOU hate it, I hate!

ValetPairsPaged 37M/36F

8/31/2006 7:28 pm

Great post idea Sensuous, I love it! We all need to vent....

I hate that I lost touch w/ a friend of 10 years...even though I believe I made the right choice by actually growing a damn backbone and speaking my mind for a change.

I hate when you catch people being dishonest about something that really has no relevance whatsoever.....makes you wonder what else they lie about when it comes so easy to them. What the fuck are they hiding??

I hate when people ask me if I plan on having any more kids and when I tell them No, they insist that I'm still young and that I'll change my mind. They tell me that I have to, I have to give my son a little brother or sister. Better yet, when they look at me like I'm the most terrible person in the world when I say that I think parenting is difficult, extremely difficult and I'm perfectly fine w/ the size of my family. And, usually, these complaints are coming from people w/o kids..go fucking figure?

I hate sometimes that I'm so vulnerable, naive, and gullible. I hate sometimes that I allow the opportunity for me to be taken advantage of...

And, the only TRUE HATRED I have in the world is for my soon to be sister-in-law that fucked over my brother. She left him in a time of his life that is meant to be shared w/ someone you love. She left behind their child and chose to simply not grow up. She threw away the best thing she had....but my only hope is that this reveals an entirely new life for my brother, filled with what he should have been blessed from the beginning. He's too good for her shit.

That felt so good to get all of this out.....I needed to put it all into words. Thank you Sensuous!!

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:40 am:
Thank you, curious, and welcome!

Hate friends that take advantage of people like you and me with flexible backbones, too. WTF is that all about? Hate people who lie when its easier to tell the truth---especially when you know that they know that you know they are lying–but they do it anyway. It is insulting. Hate that people even THINK ABOUT taking advantage of others. Hate people who hurt me and others.

I am glad you got it out! Sometimes there is not “safe haven” to let go some of one’s thoughts! Stop back.

steamyandsexybi 45F
2784 posts
8/31/2006 8:30 pm

Ya know what I hate?
TUBE SOCKS! Thats right! I said socks. (ok, now that I got that outta my system.....)

I'm gonna put one thing here...only because I'm so tired right now,my eyes are falling shut.

I hate when youre super horny and theres no one ever available(well, anyone who is anything close to being worthy) but when youre not and/or super busy or not available, theyre freakin everywhere!!!!!!!!

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:51 am:
Tube socks suck---particularly on women.
I hate when I'm horny and no one is around. I don't know if I hate it when I am busy and they are everywhere, but I'll take you're word for it---I hate it too.

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:52 am:
I also hate it when my eyeballs fall out.

steamyandsexybi 45F
2784 posts
8/31/2006 8:38 pm

I hate the fact that "garbage men" on garbage day leaves half of the garbage in the street instead of in their truck where it SHOULD be dumped!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:52 am:

steamyandsexybi 45F
2784 posts
8/31/2006 8:40 pm

I hate when you go for a haircut and they cut em all off!

I ask the beautician to cut off less than an inch or so or just even it all out to get rid of split ends ...NOT 2 feet!

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:53 am:
I hate it when I walk out of the hair salon and the only think that's missing is a microphone and a picture of the Pope! Hate it!

steamyandsexybi 45F
2784 posts
8/31/2006 8:42 pm

I hate when I'm driving right next to someone, pull up along them at a red light and they decide to go to town up their nose! Pick, pick, pick! Where the freak is all that gold anyway? lol
But, then again, it is actually quite funny after they see you notice them and then you decide to look directly at them and pick away yourself....on purpose! LOL

SensuousWoman3 56F
3106 posts
8/31/2006 11:29 pm

I hate those loud base woofers (isn't that what you call them?) that kids or "young adults" but in there cars and turn the stereo up loud enough to hear it in the next state and shake and vibrate everything for an entire 1 block radius.

Why doesn't someone enforce the sound ordinances?

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:54 am:
Hate noise!

rm_pirate2l8 107M
92 posts
9/1/2006 3:53 pm


SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:57 am:
And Ronnie.

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:58 am:
And Richard.

rm_muffin162 57M
763 posts
9/1/2006 4:19 pm

I hate people that are cruel to animals.

oh, and people that ride push bikes on the pavement.

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:59 am:
Both bad.

Hippink 36F  
4498 posts
9/1/2006 5:43 pm

Hippie XXX

How to Get Laid on AFF The Basics
Have fun, play safe!

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 8:59 am:
Yeah, and take Lightening McQueen with ya's!

Sir_Thomas_ 90M

9/1/2006 6:56 pm

I got another one. I hate it when I can't take my under shirt off after mowing the lawn because it is sticking to me, I end up ripping my shirt every time. I hate it when I am crusing in the left lane on an interstate with the cruise control on at 75 mph, I pass someone in the right lane and they get pissed, so they speed up to 85 until they are a 1/4 mile ahead of me, and then take their foot off the gas, then I pass them again in 30 seconds, and they start the cycle all over again! I hate it when the manager won't pull a pitcher, when he clearly isn't finding the strike zone. I hate managers that have more excuses than answers. I hate customers that expect the Taj Mahal for $5-10k. I hate how Chevy and Dodge truck drivers have those cartoons in their windows of a kid peeing on the Ford logo. I'm a Ford truck man. LMAO

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 9:04 am:
Keep ‘em coming, Love!

I hate when I can’t take off my under shirt after mowing the lawn, too!
I hate stupid drivers.
Pitchers having off days---yuz oughta here!
I hate mangers or anybody you’re trying to do business with that says “I don’t know” when you ask them a question without following up with “But I will find out.” I’d fire people for that. “I don’t know” is not an appropriate answer in the business world.
I hate customers that expect you to jump through your asshole backwards.
Chevy and Dodge truck drivers---what a joke!

SolarPowered0 112M
8029 posts
9/1/2006 8:37 pm

Hate it when all those others are right
Hate it more when I'm the one wrong
Hate it when the radio station fails
To play my favorite song
Hate it that the Ad Lines are all fucked up
And the regulars have all but gone
But what I absofuckinlutely hate the most
Is that I read all this shit until dawn!

Solar...(wishin' they were all California girls)

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 9:07 am:
Hate when others always think their right
Hate it when others won’t admit their wrong.
Hate people who cannot or will not say “I’m sorry.”
Hate music
Hate music I don’t know the words too
Hate that so many regulars are gone
I hate that sometimes I have no discipline when it comes to AdultFriendFinder, too.

Sir_Thomas_ 90M

9/2/2006 7:38 am


I will send you a picture....I am mowing the lawn this afternoon!

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/2/2006 9:17 am:
I hate that there won't be a professional photographer on hand to help you. Hate it.

cactusass 57F

9/6/2006 8:21 pm

i hate being the only one that refills the brita!!! my son, nieces never ever do. they suck back the water, but never top it up. i go to get a drink and the damn thing is empty and its a 7 litre container!

i hate people that don't pick up their dog's poo as well!

oh and i agree with sheeana i hate listen to skinny women talk about how fat they feel and they have to lose five freakin' pounds !

i'm sure i'll come up with more, so as long as the department remains open, i'll be back. hasta la vista baaaaybee!

SensuousWoman3 replies on 9/6/2006 10:24 pm:
Or people who take the last cup of coffee without making another pot. Yep, skinny people who can and do eat everything and whine because they "think" they found a cellulite dimple on their ankle.

Oh! And people who don't flush the toilet! UGH! I can't even go there right now!

Sir_Thomas_ 90M

9/7/2006 7:26 pm

Too funny! It seems like I am for ever filling that damn Brita up myself. Of course, my kids can't even carry it yet, but I thought I was the only human being that owned one? Let me guess, did you buy in anticipation of Y2K also? LMAO

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