SensibleAura333 34F
17 posts
10/6/2005 12:06 pm

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While in chat this morning...a man that I won't name...whom I've never chatted w/ before had the audacity to call me a slut because I'm married and using this site...funny thing was, after looking at his profile, he too is married...can we say hypocritical?!

So yeah, I was sitting here trying to decide what I should post about today, and I figure since I'm so curious about men in general...and because I've had very little experience with men in the masses...LOL...I'd ask some questions generated towards the male crowd of the site in hopes of understanding "he who walks with penis"...LOL.

How often do men typically masturbate? I am a woman who is definitely open with her sexuality (all aspects of it). I know that masturbation is a taboo subject between girlfriends...something that's hush hush...and a lot of women even deny doing it...but guess what!? IT'S BULLSHIT! I think every adult has tried it at least once...and if they haven't...they're sheltered. I myself masturbate regularly I'd say...not nearly as often as I used to when I was single. I'd say my fingers/bullet/rabbit get used at least 2-3 times a week...more if you count the times that I strategically time my masturbation to when my hubby's due home from work

I've asked most of my guy friends about their "beating the meat" habits but none of them care to share...LOL...even though most of them consider me "one of the guys"

Any light you could shed on this mystery would be greatly appreciated

egdod24 53M

10/6/2005 1:37 pm

any guy that says he doesn't is a lier! I did every 2-3 days when i was single. I would still do it that often, but if I do and my wife gets horny, whitch is rare anymore(i'm thinking she is getting it somewere else), we go for about 2 hours and it's a drain with work and stuff if i masterbate before. now the last woman i was with I had no desire to get myself off, didn't for 6 months in a row. She was great in bed, one of those very wet women if ya get my drift.

mailmantrouser2 55M
534 posts
10/6/2005 2:00 pm

I believe most men do, even those who are happily married. Most women see it as a threat, even though it does not have anything to do with them and their sex life with their husband. I myself do it probably 5 times a week. Most women I have known enjoyed it themselves and quite a few enjoyed doing it with or for a man.
As far as the guy calling you a slut, coming from me it would be a compliment. Most of these (masturbating) women liked me to call them a slut, or an honorary slut, whether they were married or not.


Mirage7778 45F

10/6/2005 2:32 pm

Well I commend you. I too am married (unhappily), and seperated, And this is the joke. He lives with me and I masturbate 2to 3 times a day. If I would of known about this sooner, the need to be married would of been irrelevant, my hands are a work of art. And as for the hypocrite, take a leap off a high cliff!

SensibleAura333 34F

10/6/2005 6:25 pm

To egdod24...

I'm so sorry to hear that your wife has kinda lost interest in sex...mind if I ask how long you've been married, and how old she is? Those things might have something to do with it...or maybe kids? I know it's a lot harder to lead a "healthy" sex life with your partner when you have many other things to deal with everyday like work, school, kids, keeping house clean...almost like a woman's work is never finished...

To mailmantrouser2....

I understand what you're saying as far as women taking it as a threat that their husbands still masturbate...I don't mind at all...would much prefer he take care of it in the shower at 3:30 am (when he's getting ready for work) than waking my ass up...hahaha...and as strange as it is...I love watching him do it from time to time. As far as the slut comment goes...I don't take too kindly to it the way he used hubby calling me a dirty, nasty little slut while he's fucking me hard from behind...oh yeah, bring it on!

To Mirage7778....

I'm sorry to hear that not only are you UNhappily married, but you also live with the ass. May I ask why he's living with you? Kids maybe? And sorry that's the only reason you got married...hate to rub it in anyone's faces...but I'm very happily married...and the sex is great...but definitely not the top reason on the list of why i married him. Soooo...2-3 times a day?! OMG that's insane...I sure as hell wouldn't be able to type this up if I had my fingers going that much in a 24 hour time frame...hahaha! And thanks for your vote of confidence as far as that jerk-off was considered....

Thank you guys for posting comments's awesome to get feedback


gwate 59M
1 post
10/7/2005 4:00 pm

I am a male who is married UNhappy and seperated. i would masterbate about once everyother day when we were together now we are apart i do it about 1-2 times a day. I have always had a high sex drive and love to be with a women but this will do till i find one again. Most women i have talked with masterbate also on a regular basis married and not no matter what they say.

mailmantrouser2 55M
534 posts
10/8/2005 12:56 pm

Well, it seems we are seeing eye to eye on a few thing.

You know, I shouldn't say this, but I think I like your face picture better than your pussy shot. Why is that?

rm_galahad15 59M
17 posts
10/9/2005 7:58 am

Hi SensibleAura333 well to tell you the truth I masturbate every week two to three times. The way I do it is I imagine who I am having sex with an start stroking, sometimes I work myself so much I get a headache.
About Mirage7778 too bad you dont live close to me we both could do each other. Email me lets talk, who knows we can turn each other one on.

rm_jbigshot67 68M
21 posts
11/25/2005 9:28 am

I think that all men, and after talking to women here on AdultFriendFinder, most women do married or not. I am married, but wife has health problems, that would make sex very painfull for her, so I masterbate at least three times a week. I started when I was 12, and have doing it every since, even when wife was well.

Floorshaker53 70M
5 posts
12/7/2005 12:20 pm

I'm 57, happily married, and I masturbated almost every day since I was 13, sometimes two or three times a day. Since I've been married (34 years now) I still do it at least 5 times a week.
Some guys deserve to be lonely outcasts, like the judgemental jerk who called you a slut.

slickydick696 54M

2/22/2006 6:24 pm

I am a slut and will be the first to admit it. Is there really anything wrong with that? Aren't we all sluts to varying degrees?

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