Brining another woman into the bedroom  

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4/18/2005 5:09 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Brining another woman into the bedroom

All of you married or in a committed relationship couples, know what I am speaking of.
Why is it pretty easy for couples to decide to bring another woman into the bedroom, but bringing another man causes so much drama. Jealousy, intimidation, wondering whose "manhood" will be bigger, or just not wanting your woamn to be a love goddess to someone else.
What's funny is that when most couples approach the idea of another woman, these same thoughts never come into the mind of the male towards the new female.
My husband and I, easily for him a little harder for me, decided to bring a second woman into the bedroom, it was GREAT, now we are wanting to bring another man into the bedroom but it was agreed with him ONLY he is with another woman so that he can play as well.
Is this the double standard out there with most men?


4/18/2005 6:27 am

The double standard seems to always be there. I have no objections to other women being brought in, but at the first mention it is made clear to me that no men will ever be allowed. I really don't know what the deal is, but I don't allow women if no men are allowed.

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4/18/2005 7:38 am


wyvernrose 39F  
3962 posts
4/18/2005 8:45 am

wasn't a problem with us, boney is straight but he enjoys watching other men pleasure me, he is a bit of a voyeur.....


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4/18/2005 10:21 am

perhaps iam of the old school on this cos my boyfriend and i are happy (more than) to bring another woman into the bedroom but on the understanding that there is no physical contact between my bloke and the other woman...he wouldnt want to see me with another man so thats the way we play it....he can watch and w**k and play with me and even w**k over her tits but thats as far as it goes with him.....we are happy with that and i think its up to the individual couple and their views .....

oldschoolfreak00 55M  
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7/21/2005 9:17 pm

I truly believe if you can bring another woman into the bedroom you should also be willing to bring another man into the bedroom too...I think that if the ground rules are laid down there shouldn't be any misunderstandings....I think people that are not true to the lifestyle have underlying doubts about what they are doing....This activity is to add a little something-something to the relationship and not be seen as threat to the relationship....Keith

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