Suprise! Suprise! I'm single again.  

Scott_in_Tulsa 46M
1611 posts
8/20/2006 8:29 pm

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Suprise! Suprise! I'm single again.

Well it happened. J and I split up today.

I was the one who called it quits. This was surprisingly harder for me to do then i thought it would be. J is a great lady who will make some guy a wonderful wife. I'm just not that guy.

And therein lies the problem. As i got to know her and what she wanted, i tried very much to be that man. But it wasn't me. I was making myself miserable forcing myself to be someone i am not.

J is sweet, caring, attentive, eager to please, and desires lots of attention.

I on the other hand am calculating, emotionally cold, and more often then not, just want to be left alone.

Maybe one of these days i'll find my perfect match. Maybe i'll win the lottery too. If i was to make a bet, i'd put my money on the lottery.

So once again i'm out looking for Mrs. Right, and any woman who wishes to entertain me until she comes along.

"We are all worms, but i like to think of myself as a glow-worm" - Winston Churchill

karaokeok79 38F
5 posts
10/2/2006 8:21 am

Be yourself Baby, I think your the greatest!!

Scott_in_Tulsa 46M
1328 posts
8/21/2006 3:52 pm

At J's request i have removed her comment, however i am pasting the text of said comment here:

Must not have been too hard since you are already offering and looking for a replacement.

"We are all worms, but i like to think of myself as a glow-worm" - Winston Churchill

IamWetFire 53F

8/21/2006 2:14 am

My dear friend, as I had said previously, when two people are at cross purposes on the most basic elements of what they require from a "relationship," everyone will be hurt from the outcome.

My heart goes out to you both because it's always sad when people try, despite the trials they know they're up against, then fail to make it work in the end anyway.

That's why I've told you, for me personally, I stopped looking when Stephen broke my heart and I his. If someone comes my way and it's good for us both, fine. Until then, I'm single and not really looking for more than a friend.

I'm so glad y'all got back safe from that trip. Between the heat, that drive and folks being tired, I was worried about y'all.

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