don't bring emotions into it  

SaucyTart_36 49F
128 posts
1/22/2006 5:30 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

don't bring emotions into it

If all that someone wants is sex, why do they bring feelings into it?

DO NOT tell the other person that they make you feel a certain way, how much you both have in common, how amazing it is to FIND someone like that, etc if all you want is sex.

This happens to females too much. A man says these things because he feels that he has to to get sex.

A male friend of mine had it happen to him this past weekend as well. A girl fed him all of this and then pulled a runner on him!

This is what he is saying to me:
how can a guy who is a total prick, smartass, cock sucker, and who pulls more ass than most anybody else he knows, fall so hard for a chick he's never even met, or seen, on the internet?!

It was like -wow, she and I would finish each other's sentences and several times we would post something right before the other did and it was the same exact thought!

I don't give a baker's fuck what anybody says, opposites don't attract, you have to have a lot in common with somebody to have a great relationship

she and I got very personal in our conversations, including but not limited to personal beliefs, things we look for with regards to a LTR partner in the opposite sex, political beliefs, etc...

...several times throughout our conversation, after I told her what I was looking for in a LTR, she said, "you've found it!"
End of his part of this.

So, if you have met someone that you want to be with sexually but DO NOT want anything more - DO NOT feed them bullshit, it hurts!

Be up front about what you want. I am, that means some guys go away, but hey I would rather that happen then screw someone over.

rm_sharksnsails 47M
738 posts
1/23/2006 1:49 am

So what about people who are open for a LTR, but not going to force the issue, who also understand that you have to get close to a lot of people (varying levels of closeness) until you find that person, and who want to have sex (at varying levels of closeness) in the mean time. If I tell someone I realy like them, and we develope a close friendship, but I haven't commited myself to them cuz I only know them from the internet, and even if I knew them from like phone calls or personal meetings, what if I was close, but didn't feel like it was the perfect match, but wasn't sure. What if they push the issue, and I don't want to shoot them down too much because Im not sure? what if I tell someone Im not sure, how much of thier hopes do I have to crush. What if I don't really know myself (isn't that what NOT SURE) means? AAAHHHHRRRRRRG. sorry, oops, kinda went off there a bit huh? ughhhh,
anyway, what if im not... shit I was doing it again.
so but like what if .... STOP it aaron!
but ,

there... I ... was ..... being
not sure,

sorry was off a bit there huh?

um maybe I just want to have a good time and then see where things lead, and all these girls I meet are my friends, and even after I have sex with one of them (maybe someday) it doesnt mean Im changing anything because I don't want to commit until Im very thuroughly sure if I do commit at all, because I have had the holy living hell hurt out of me and lost a lot of time by being in love anyway. Cant I just have fun?
Am I an asshole?

unkowingly, but always your friend,

rm_sharksnsails 47M
738 posts
1/23/2006 1:52 am

that was supposed to be
unknowingly, but always your friend,

i typed unkowingly.
and its true, I have no kows either.
but then what is a kow?

rm_sharksnsails 47M
738 posts
1/24/2006 3:47 am

I hope I am not the kind of guy that does that.


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