AFF vs. Match  

SaucyTart_36 48F
128 posts
2/8/2006 12:17 pm

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AFF vs. Match

Ok, I know that I would like to find a LTR, BUT I also know that I am more sexually adventuresome than most people on match. So.... I try to use AdultFriendFinder as a type of match site. Does it work? NOPE

Realizing that and knowing that right now I want nothing more than a no-strings-fuck-me-hard-with-a-big-cock evening, I search for it.

Is that easy to find? NOPE

Either the men try to add unnecessary emotions into it or, get THIS, they don't step up to the plate! Yep, for the past two nights I have wanted to get together with a guy that I have cammed with, talked to on the phone, and both evenings something came up. Ok, the first one I asked him at 10:30pm. But last night he sends me a text message that he doesn't feel well!

A good male friend of mine says to let him go, he is married. That no sane single male would turn down an invitation from a woman that he finds attractive to just walk in the door and start going at it like animals. Sigh..... he is probably right.

So, this still leaves me with the dilemma that I am in desperate want of a screaming, hips-bucking, earth-shattering orgasm. The kind that no vibrator is able to give me.

That and searching for a guy that I could marry and rock each others world on an almost daily basis. Wouldn't that be nice again. To be with someone and not worry about condoms. To know what he likes and have him know what I like.

Aren't we all somehow wired to want to have someone to hold at night and enjoy life's freetime with?

Just feeling sexually frustrated and lonely. It too will pass.

PrincessKarma 44F
6188 posts
2/8/2006 5:33 pm

We have the same problems, sweetie... needing more than they are willing to give, and not willing to settle for less.

Why is it that the ones who are good matches for us always so damn far away?

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

Kaliedascope61 43M
4084 posts
2/8/2006 9:41 pm

From my point of view, its a ton of searching, on and offline trying to get noticed. Most of want just what your offering. I suppose some guys feel more comfortable behind the computer screen, like it offers some protection from emotions? who knows. I know this, Your right! The whole reason I'm here is to find someone who is compatable in the bedroom, and out....for some reason its always been one or the other.
Great blog by the way, and thanks for letting me chip in my two cents.

rm_Snowman6973X 66M

2/10/2006 6:01 am

OK...i will give anyone options due to schedule or feeling ill. But to be honest darling, had I been him and got an invite at 1030 pm to bump uglies until morning, I would have been there. And if I was sick, well...let's just say you would sniffling if I had a cold... ( not to mention that feeing of getting to "ride all night."...Big smile

harley1479 54M
3 posts
2/20/2006 4:45 am

I agree withyour friend if you ask me it would not matter how sick I was I'd be there .I would love to make you howl all night so drop me a linr

rm_VoodooGuru1 50M
2053 posts
2/23/2006 3:38 am

That's why I'm here... the whole package. The woman who's gonna make me want forever has to be compatible with me sexually, and that's the part I've found lacking in previous relationships.

... And in the meantime, well, I can go a lot longer without being in love than I can go without sex.

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