What are you looking for?  

SaucyNSassy 40F
2021 posts
4/1/2006 10:32 pm

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4/4/2006 9:45 am

What are you looking for?

Here we are on one of the largest, most popular sex sites in the world. We tell everyone what our fantasies are...how large our breasts are(women)...how big our dicks are...(men) We list our body preferences... thin, avg., athletic, ample, extra padding, etc. We say whether we are bi-curious, straight or gay. We put our lives out here hoping that someone will read about us and find us interesting enough to email us. I know men think it's easier for women but in 3 days after I joined, I got about 200 emails (most of you who have read my blog awhile already know this) So, I thought, lol...this is TOO much and I turned off my pro.... I got bored and came back a few weeks later. Point is, it is just as bad for me here as it is for men who get 2 emails in 3 days as opposed to 200 in 3 days. Seriously, the 2 emails you get are probably from genuinely interested women and of the 200 I get... MAYBE 2 are genuine men who want to get to know me. The other 198 are saying "hey lets fuck, you're hot" or "baby, I will get any hotel room you want, I want to make your fantasy come true" or "my phone # is 555-5555 call me I want to meet you and eat your pussy for hours." Now, granted the last one sounds good....lol (jk) I really need a bit more substance in an email to be interested. Besides that man has sent that same pathetic email to every woman in his zip code just HOPING for a response. Some hos are so desperate that they will meet this tactless man and fuck him. Do I really want the leftovers? nahhh... I'll pass. The men that interest me write at least 3 sentences or maybe even manage a full paragraph and tell me what they found interesting about me and what I might find interesting about them. They let me know what they want and/or are interested in. THEY ARE HONEST! I know, just that word makes most mens skin crawl.
I'll stop now.... part 2 is coming later.


help4meplease 39M

4/1/2006 11:19 pm

You know, guys are always want a free lunch. But I just want to say... no matter how honest they were, their one and only goal is to eat your pussy for an hour. They could lie on you for anything.

jadedbabe78 107F

4/1/2006 11:33 pm

lol...I swear we share the same mind.

I don't get much emails anymore. Probably because i'm a bitch in my pro and specifically state that my location is incorrect...but anywho...

You're so right...the emails that are 'you're hot, let's fuck baby' don't really rev my engine and want me to hop on the next hard dick that points in my direction. Like in my blog...gotta lead through my mind first if you want to dip into my panties .

And ummm...you are aware this is posted twice? lol.


wildoats19622 56M
3530 posts
4/2/2006 1:22 am

I started coming to AdultFriendFinder in Feb. In that time I have had one e-mail from a member. You know what it said. I read your blogs and they're great! Then I read your profile and I feel so sad for you.

WTF! I didn't think I had any thing sad in my profile. I went back and checked it. No, nothing particularly sad.

I do know the type of guy you're talking about. There used to be this one guy at work, he wrote love letters to every single girl there. He would try to flirt with the married ones. I think the only reason they didn't get the letters too was that he was the biggest wimp in the place, and he was afraid of the husbands. He did eventually find someone who would marry him. I think she did it to come to the U.S.. Several months ago, his wife suspected him of cheating. She had her friends follow him while she was at work. He was cheating on her with a twelve year old girl! Now he resides at the county jail awaiting trial.


Crosswords increase your vocabulary. Cross words increase your blood pressure.

wildoats19622 56M
3530 posts
4/2/2006 1:27 am

Hope you're feeling better!


Crosswords increase your vocabulary. Cross words increase your blood pressure.

im_your_man77 40M
961 posts
4/2/2006 1:27 am

I'm looking for the exit, can you tell me where it is.

SpaceRangerNJ 56M
4687 posts
4/2/2006 4:33 am

My reasons have changed over time. Came here initially to find the elusive "Friend with benefits". You know my sad story. Blah, blah, blah.

Then came the blogging. Didn't take me long to cross over.

I'm looking for an ever expanding circle of friends. I enjoy knowing folks from all over. And I hope that if I ever end up in their town there will be a friendly face to greet me. The face of an old friend that I have never met.

A little self confidence as I contemplate my move back to being single.

I'm looking for a little therapy.

I'm looking to grow in my sexuality. Learn more. Become more comfortable with my sexuality.

If I get laid in the process that would be great fantastic. But it's not the goal any more.

So, Wanna fuck? (ok, I just had to get some humor in there after being so serious).

DeepPinkk 63F

4/2/2006 6:34 am

I'm new to the site, and the letters are pouring in. My question here is, is it my imagination or are some of these letters just mass produced generic ones, that are sent out to everybody they send a letter to? Some just don't speak to what I specifically wrote in my profile.

I'm also beginning to wonder, if it was a mistake to post a full picture of my face!!!??

kerrod 50M

4/2/2006 8:24 am

Dont'despair Sassy, I think there are still some good men out there. You just need to keep looking.

rm_bigchoklatdk 46M

4/2/2006 2:40 pm

The guys on here are just like T.O., aren't they Sassy!!

Cowboy_Deluxe 39M

4/2/2006 6:36 pm

So I got stuck...on your post before i read the whole..thing..go ahead and laugh. There are such things as tits too damn big, and dicks too damn big. Nothing wrong with expressing with what we need. So here ya go, one time only rope that motherfucker..and that is brash as it gets.


ArgosPlumyKooky 46F
3902 posts
4/2/2006 9:51 pm

point made well, thanks for saying this i agree! i am looking forward to part II. . . .

SaucyNSassy 40F

4/4/2006 9:45 am

Help, I'm up for the hour...

Jadey, yes, we share a mind which poses for some confusion sometimes....lol. AND, uhh huhhh... I am aware it posted twice. It said that it didn't post at all so I reposted.. damn site!

Wild, your ex-co-worker was a sick demented FREAK! 12 yrs old... EWE! He should be castrated, then tortured, then lef to bleed to death. (oh yes, I am telling you how I really feel about sick bastards like him. )

Wild, thank you hon. It's been almost a week and I'm still sick though. At least I have my voice back. (okay, not everyone is thankful but I am... lol)

Man77, sweetie, they keep moving it. lol

S.R., regardless of who you find where and what you do with who in what location... You have a friend in S.A. who adores your friendship!

Deep, hon, I used to show my face but I have since gotten a little wiser. Then again, I'm married so I was kinda brave (thats the nice word for dumb) to post them to begin with. lol As for mass produced emails... hmmm.. I just recently got an email from a guy who I find too good to be true so I think it is possible that this site sends you emails to keep you here...lol. I used to get emails (when I had actual pics on the site) that said "are you for real?" "You must be a fake profile, you are gorgeous" You know, BS like that. I had no idea why I was getting them until I was here awhile and men started talking about women having fake profiles. I think I was supposed to be flattered by being asked if I was real or not...lol. Who knows?

Kerrod, do you want me to KEEP looking? or would you rather I stopped at you?

Nstant, *disconnects all phones, bolts doors and spreads legs* Go ahead, however, I am NOT calling a rescue crew. I am in severe need of a man like you.
( btw, I think I have the sense of humor covered. )

Macker, the ONLY people I am close to or have become friends with here, I have met thru this blog. It's a more personal area of this site.

Big, Not all men are idiots! lol


Claire, dear God why did you get that body and I have to live in the gym? lol jk I am so happy you liked my post! Come back soon girlie!

Matchie, I will eventually get to part two but I think I have been whiney enough lately...lol. (the ex didn't help my mood much)

Handsum, awe...you are so sweet! You have completely grown on me (in a good way) and I hope that you continue to meet great people here. Hopefully, the fakes will slow down one day. Geez... It's ridiculous that out of all the people that join this site they feel it is necessary to waste mens time w/ fake profiles. It's a combination of immaturity and stupidity on the sites part.


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