Sex  

SaucyNSassy 40F
2021 posts
3/16/2006 10:23 pm

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3/21/2006 11:36 am

Sex

What is sex to you?
Just a way to cum?
Emotions and feelings all coming to an amazing physical climax?

Do you feel like you need to be in love to have sex? (lol, I bother to ask this on a site like this one!)
Do you think that loving the person makes the sex better?
Do you think love gets in the way?
Do you cum everytime you have sex?
Does your partner cum everytime you have sex w/ him or her?
Is there something you do that makes him / her cum? (women, besides existing..lol)
How many times in one night can you cum before you are useless to your partner?
Men, how long does it take you to be ready to play again?

"Sassy"

I figured I would stick to "SEX" so this would be approved...lol


jadedbabe78 107F

3/16/2006 11:18 pm

The dirty Sas is back

Ok...you know I'm gonna answer all of them, right? lol 'Cause it's 2am and I'm bored.

What is sex to you? Ummm, a meeting of the bodies, lol
Just a way to cum? Well, it's one of the good ways.
Emotions and feelings all coming to an amazing physical climax? Mmmm, that makes it better
Do you feel like you need to be in love to have sex?(lol, I bother to ask this on a site like this one!) Hell no...I've gotten down and dirty plenty of times without being in love
Do you think that loving the person makes the sex better? Sometimes.
Do you think love gets in the way? It can...because sometimes, someone who is in love won't get freaky with me, LOL
Do you cum everytime you have sex? Nope...sometimes, a girl has to fake it (sorry, but it's true, lol)
Does your partner cum everytime you have sex w/ him or her? Nope...he hasn't ....I won't go there.
Is there something you do that makes him / her cum? (women, besides existing..lol) Kegals, baby, kegals!!
How many times in one night can you cum before you are useless to your partner? Umm...I'm not entirely sure...it has yet to happen .
Men, how long does it take you to be ready to play again? Well, I'm not a man...I can't answer this one , LOL


SaucyNSassy 40F

3/17/2006 6:58 am

Jadey, I woke up this morning and I saw that 74 people had read this and I had one comment. I would have bet money you were the ONE person awesome enough to respond. Who loves ya girlie? lol... ME!!!
Hmm.. yes, the dirty Sass is back. I always think that love makes sex better but there are some men that won't get freaky or have any fun in the bdrm b/c they think it is degrading or isn't right bc they love you. WHATEVER! Get dirty w/ me damnit! lol
Also, I'm glad you're not a man. I would hate to have to move to Indiana. lol

"Sassy"


SpaceRangerNJ 56M
4687 posts
3/17/2006 7:26 am

OK, I'll take the quiz.

Do you feel like you need to be in love to have sex? (lol, I bother to ask this on a site like this one!) No. Big surprise.

Do you think that loving the person makes the sex better? Absolutely!

Do you think love gets in the way? It makes things different.

Do you cum everytime you have sex? Can't remember a time when I didn't. Sometimes it take more effort than other times.

Does your partner cum everytime you have sex w/ him or her? A guy never knows that what with all the excellent faking going on. But really, I don't think they have all the time.

Is there something you do that makes him / her cum? (women, besides existing..lol) I think the fact that I exist doesn't make her cum.

How many times in one night can you cum before you are useless to your partner? Actually I don't know. She never wanted to go for a second round. Always said she was too sensitive.

Men, how long does it take you to be ready to play again? Not sure on this one.

Gee, that was fun.
And will you be answering your own questions? Pretty please with sugar on top. I'll be your best friend.
S.R.

OK now I used the [p] and [br] commands to get that to format well. The first is new paragraph and created a blank line between. The second was a line break and just did a return. And I used the preview button to get it all straight before posting.


SaucyNSassy 40F

3/17/2006 10:35 am

S.R. you are so cute! lol.. "pretty please with sugar on top." I doubt that your existence STOPS her from cumming. You are the reason she is there all wet remember? Be nice to yourself!
Just for you Hon...
Do you feel like you need to be in love to have sex? (lol, I bother to ask this on a site like this one!) No, I don't

Do you think that loving the person makes the sex better? Absolutely! WAY better!

Do you think love gets in the way? It makes things different. (ditto, S.R.)

Do you cum everytime you have sex? HA! IF ONLY MY DREAMS WOULD COME TRUE!
Does your partner cum everytime you have sex w/ him or her? OF course! I'm amazing in bed.

Is there something you do that makes him / her cum? (women, besides existing..lol) tighten muscles around his cock (like Jadey said, Kegals baby!) tease him, let him watch me suck his cock or touch myself... little things can really get a man going.
How many times in one night can you cum before you are useless to your partner? From my ONE time orgasm experience... One..lol

Men, how long does it take you to be ready to play again? Yeah, I can't answer this...lol BUT I love when men are ready to go very quickly! I'm truely insatiable.

"Sassy"


Cainseviltwin 37M

3/17/2006 11:48 am

What is sex to you? A fine choice of liesure activity!
Just a way to cum? Sometimes. usually, its more about having fun than cumming, for me.
Emotions and feelings all coming to an amazing physical climax? eh, thats a bit strong.

Do you feel like you need to be in love to have sex? (lol, I bother to ask this on a site like this one!)no. but as a caveat, having sex with someone regularly is a really intense way to get to know someone, and i tend to fall for people i feel like I know well, even if they wouldn't otherwise have that effect on me
Do you think that loving the person makes the sex better? it certainly can, but it doesn't necessarily
Do you think love gets in the way?sometimes
Do you cum everytime you have sex? no, mostly cause it can take me a while to get there, and sometimes there are time constraints. but I try!
Does your partner cum everytime you have sex w/ him or her? Wouldn't that be nice. Some people are easy to get off, some aren't. My partners do pretty consistently once i've been with them enough to learn what makes them go crazy.
Is there something you do that makes him / her cum? (women, besides existing..lol)My default way to please a woman is orally.
How many times in one night can you cum before you are useless to your partner? Like I said, sometimes it takes me a while, but once i got up to three. I think that was 6-8 hours of sex, though. It was one of those memorable college moments.
Men, how long does it take you to be ready to play again? There are two answers to this. I tend to stay hard a little while after an orgasm, and if I am excited enough, sometimes I can just keep going into another. More often, there has to be a break. maybe 10 minutes, maybe an hour. depends.


SaucyNSassy 40F

3/17/2006 12:55 pm

Cain, it is a fine choice of leisure activity, isn't it? lol... I love it! 6-8 hrs, huh? When are you coming to S.A.? Thanks for stopping by hon!
"Sassy"


Dallas_Male_35 49M
255 posts
3/17/2006 9:50 pm


What is sex to you?


Sex can be a couple of things . . . . It can be procreation or fornication or just fun while on vacation.

Primarily, (to me) it's sharing passion with someone you care about.



Just a way to cum?


Nah, I can do that by myself (oh ya, no problem).

Some people use sex for that.

Fucking is something people do to cum.

Making love is about sharing passion.



Emotions and feelings all coming to an amazing physical climax?


Yes, definitely! Well, at least if you are talking about sex and not solo-sex LOL



Do you feel like you need to be in love to have sex? (lol, I bother to ask this on a site like this one!)


No, you don't "need" to be . . . if you are just wanting to bust a nut and be able to say, "LOOK MA! NO HANDS!" then fuck till you burst. . . but it sure does make it a hell of a lot more intense when someone makes you feel so intense and you know that it's more than just a physical thing.



Do you think that loving the person makes the sex better?


Yes, without a moment of hesitation, or a single doubt in my mind.



Do you think love gets in the way?


No . . . unless you are into multiple partners, or forget what passion is.



Do you cum everytime you have sex?


No . . . I used to date this girl that would cum, and kick me off the bed in a convulsing fit, and wouldn't let me come within six inches of her because her whole body was shaking and was "too sensitive" . . . . damn, why couldn't she have waited just a few more minutes to do that!



Does your partner cum everytime you have sex w/ him or her?


I wish! Some girls out there just don't have orgasms! I've tried and tried and tried and just realized that no matter how much I promised, that she was serious when she said, "don't get your hopes up, nobody else has ever done it either!" LOL (Men and our fucking egos!)



Is there something you do that makes him / her cum? (women, besides existing..lol)


Well, I have this little technique I like to do while eating someone out. I'd type it here, but I'd rather show you in person.






How many times in one night can you cum before you are useless to your partner?

Well, my record in one session is 4, but if you include watching a movie, and then doing it again before bed, and then again in the morning, just 10 hours later, we're up to 7.

(That was a few pounds ago, though . . . . sadly, my endurance is just a few pounds lower than it used to be!)



Men, how long does it take you to be ready to play again?


That depends if you stop paying attention to my dick . . . . if you roll over, he's taking a nap . . . if you keep going, so do I. . . all it takes is some TLC down there, and he's ready and raring to go!!!


SpaceRangerNJ 56M
4687 posts
3/17/2006 10:41 pm

    Quoting SaucyNSassy:
    S.R. you are so cute! lol.. "pretty please with sugar on top." I doubt that your existence STOPS her from cumming. You are the reason she is there all wet remember? Be nice to yourself!
    Just for you Hon...
    Do you feel like you need to be in love to have sex? (lol, I bother to ask this on a site like this one!) No, I don't

    Do you think that loving the person makes the sex better? Absolutely! WAY better!

    Do you think love gets in the way? It makes things different. (ditto, S.R.)

    Do you cum everytime you have sex? HA! IF ONLY MY DREAMS WOULD COME TRUE!
    Does your partner cum everytime you have sex w/ him or her? OF course! I'm amazing in bed.

    Is there something you do that makes him / her cum? (women, besides existing..lol) tighten muscles around his cock (like Jadey said, Kegals baby!) tease him, let him watch me suck his cock or touch myself... little things can really get a man going.
    How many times in one night can you cum before you are useless to your partner? From my ONE time orgasm experience... One..lol

    Men, how long does it take you to be ready to play again? Yeah, I can't answer this...lol BUT I love when men are ready to go very quickly! I'm truely insatiable.

    "Sassy"
Just for clarification sweetie. I'm talking about my current partner not cuming just because I exist. And what made her cum before? Well, I'm not so sure. She didn't communicate much. Actually gave me some negative feedback rather then telling me what she wanted. How rude! So in the end I didn't know what to think.

Have I told you my marriage sucks? lol

Hmmm a partner there and wet for me? Now that's what I'm talking about. But alas, only in my dreams. And when it becomes a reality, I will report back on my explorations, her preferences and what makes her cum. For we all know it's different for each.

So I guess I can't really answer the question right now. Can you wait?

Oh, and thanks for answering for me. So now you have a new best friend. And for the sugar on top maybe well just use chocolate sauce. Or do you prefer caramel?
S.R.


SaucyNSassy 40F

3/18/2006 8:48 am

Dallas, when I read your responses, I always think, "what is he doing here?" You sound like a truly wonderful man and I think any woman would be lucky to have you.
"Sassy"


S.R., If the woman doesnt communicate, it makes it very hard for the man. As for your marriage,lol yes you have told me but MINE SUCKS MORE!! LOL! I can wait for your answer...of course!
Oh and I definitely prefer caramel... I'm not a chocolate person. (all the womens mouths drop open in shock!) lol

"Sassy"


bardicman 51M

3/18/2006 11:45 am

What is sex to you?
A meeting of the body to fulfill the mind

Just a way to cum?
No, I can cum alone without playing with another persons emotions.

Emotions and feelings all coming to an amazing physical climax?
I think it takes both to have the most amazing climax's

Do you feel like you need to be in love to have sex? (lol, I bother to ask this on a site like this one!)
I know that the possiblilty for me to fall in love has to be there or I am not capable of having mind blowing sex.

Do you think that loving the person makes the sex better?
Definately, that is when the true deep passion sets in and sex becomes more than just an act of physical pleasure.

Do you think love gets in the way?
Gets in the way? Hell no, love is the greatest catalyst and aphrodisiac there is. Love takes the act of sticking tab A into slot B and makes it a union of two souls. Love makes it about becoming one with each other. There is no greater fulfillment.

Do you cum everytime you have sex?
No, Sometimes my only concern is my partners satisfaction

Does your partner cum everytime you have sex w/ him or her?
My last partner was the same as me. Sometimes her need was to simply satisfy mine.
Is there something you do that makes him / her cum? (women, besides existing..lol)
This question is hard to answer because each person is different. But yes, I pay close attention to what excites my partner the most and will use this knowledge to make them cum.

How many times in one night can you cum before you are useless to your partner?
4 is the most orgasms I have experienced in one night. But I was not useless to her when all the torrid play came to an end. We held each other and talked till we both fell asleep.

Men, how long does it take you to be ready to play again?
My hands and mouth are always ready for play, the amount of time it takes before I am hard enough for insertion depends on many factors. I would have to say anywhere from instantly to 15 minutes.



I am not dead yet


hooksinyou5 49M/F

3/18/2006 12:21 pm

Do you feel like you need to be in love to have sex? (lol, I bother to ask this on a site like this one!) No.
Do you think that loving the person makes the sex better? True love will make the sex more intense and passionate. I have cried while making love before - tho only with one woman.
Do you think love gets in the way? No, just makes it better.
Do you cum everytime you have sex? On a rare occasion I will not cum.
Does your partner cum everytime you have sex w/ him or her? Of course. Unless she wont let me get her there lol.
Is there something you do that makes him / her cum? (women, besides existing..lol) It all starts with the mind...also take great pride in my oral skills
How many times in one night can you cum before you are useless to your partner? Hmmm...I have cum as many as 5 times in one sex session....over the course of say a weekend? who knows...
Men, how long does it take you to be ready to play again? depends...im not that "sensitive" so can be played with after cumming....oftentimes i do stay hard as well...just depends on the situation....


Dallas_Male_35 49M
255 posts
3/18/2006 1:15 pm

I don't know what I'm doing here either . . . . I'm sure as the weeks pass, so will my frequency here, and I'll end up fading away.

As a standard member, I can't even email people if I wanted to keep in touch outside of here . . . . . so the point of being here is useless (and I'm not paying for this site again, it's just simply not worth it)


SaucyNSassy 40F

3/18/2006 11:39 pm

Bardic, I really love your responses to my questions. You seem like an intense man. Thanks for taking the time to answer them all. Nice to have a new face hon!


Hooks, Sweetie, I believe I am in shock to see you here... lol. Wow! Some of your answers really surprised me. I think I'm definitely going to need a lot more time to get to know you. Thank u for coming by!
Kiss!



Dallas, I keep telling myself to DELETE my profile but I just can't bring myself to do it yet. In a way, blogging is (damn, I can't think of the word!) basically, it's a good way to vent and let out emotions. Also, a way to just be a total perv that I would never be in every day life w/ other people. All the people here love me for the lil' pervette that I am...lol.


Kisses,
"Sassy"


DrLoveEsoterica 64M
219 posts
3/20/2006 12:04 am

What is sex to you? - A truly enjoyable experience if it's with the right person . . . There needs to be more than just the mechanical actions though.

Just a way to cum? - Nah, It doesn't take two people to do that.

Emotions and feelings all coming to an amazing physical climax? - I like it so much better when that happens . . . Yes.

Do you feel like you need to be in love to have sex? (lol, I bother to ask this on a site like this one!) - No, Certainly not . . . But like some of the others have said, it is a much more enjoyable experience when you are.

Do you think that loving the person makes the sex better? - Undoubtedly, YES . . . Making love is about feeling good when doing something for someone else. Having sex is about feeling good from doing something for yourself. When two people make love, they are doing everything within their power to see that they each enjoy the experience equally . . . giving first, and getting second.

Do you think love gets in the way? - I have never found it to be a problem unless I felt that I was in it only for the sex and I perceived my partner was hoping for something else. That would create a problem for both of us.

Do you cum everytime you have sex? - Most of the time, Yes . . . but it depends on whether I want to (sounds strange coming from a man, I know) . . . However, with the right person, it's more about giving than receiving. If I really enjoy being with my partner, I prefer staying on the edge so I can bring her to multiple orgasms before I finish. While that may sound corny or cliche, it brings me almost as much pleasure as my own orgasm. Sometimes that kind of love making can go on for hours. "Cumming" isn't always the goal to be reached.

Does your partner cum everytime you have sex w/ him or her? - No, but it is never for lack of my trying. (Someone above mentioned the male ego That would be me too . . . ) Again, in the right relationship it may sometimes not be about her cumming. It really depends on the mutual goal. There is nothing better than a passionate love making experience when both slowly rise to the occasion and reach climax together and simultaneously orgasm just before falling into each other's arms completely spent and ready for sleep . . . but sometimes it is even better to just lay back and let your partner enjoy spending an evening making you the center of attention. If she is good at it, that too could take hours too.

Is there something you do that makes him / her cum? (women, besides existing..lol) - Yeah, but it is different for each partner. For my last partner it was a particular position with her on top that allowed her clitoris to grind into me while I was able to touch her cervix with the tip of my cock when thrusting just right . . . but I've been with others that prefer something else. It is a very enjoyable "learning experience" to find out what it takes.

How many times in one night can you cum before you are useless to your partner? - It depends. I can remember weekends of never getting out of bed (. . . and being awake and engaged most of the time) . . . but the longest continuous single event would have produced four, I think . . . and YES I was very tired afterward. But even after such a night, the right person could bring me around again pretty quickly. It's all about motivation. Hopefully, I'm NEVER useless to my partner

Men, how long does it take you to be ready to play again? - Read above.

You ask some interesting questions, Sassy . . . most without simple answers. - R


SaucyNSassy 40F

3/21/2006 11:36 am

Dr. Love, being in love definitely makes sex so much better. Being in love makes sex... making love. It's amazing. It's sensual.It's romantic and being able to make love to someone is RARE.
So many men just want to rush to the finish. Sad... I know that you would never be like that. I loved your responses. I know it is just how you feel but I like how you feel. It's sweet and there is so much more to you than a lot of people. I can't imagine you could ever be useless to anyone hon.

"Sassy"


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