He saved the night....  

SaucyNSassy 40F
2021 posts
3/20/2006 12:12 am

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3/21/2006 10:40 pm

He saved the night....

Well, I was going to write this blog tonight ranting about the men in my life but then I got online and a friend of mine said hello to me. He and I chatted a little while and then decided to meet at Starbucks. He is such a sweetie. However, NO, I have not had sex with him. NOT because he isn't hot and not because there isn't a mutual attraction but b/c I don't want to ruin a good friendship. He and I have just started this friendship and I would like it to grow into a long lasting one. I may be horny 24/7 but I value friendship over sex anyday. Believe me, I am tempted. Damn, the temptation. Thank God for will power.
So, now instead of ranting about dishonest, disrespectful, obnoxious, pathetic, rude men, I will just say.... He saved the night. Had I not met him, I was thinking about becoming a nun or becoming a lesbian.... LMAO! Okay, not really but I am officially done w/ one man in my life. He was lucky that I even LET him be in my life after some of the self centered, rude things he has done but I'm a forgiving woman... I'm done now. I'm sick of it. The time I talk to him stresses me out more than it makes me happy. He is a waste of my time. I realize now why he is alone. He is WAY too self centered and indignant.
Anyway, so I had a nice night talking to a good friend about our ex's... lol...among other things. It's nice to have a male friend that you are comfortable enough w/ to talk about your ex. You know, THE EX.


DrLoveEsoterica 64M
219 posts
3/20/2006 1:32 am

Hmm, glad the night wasn't a total waste for you. However, I hated to read that you didn't have a torrid sexual experience with this guy . . . Damn! Just when I thought it was neat to have you as a "friend". Good night Sassy!

jadedbabe78 107F

3/20/2006 4:43 am

So, THIS is why you stood me up....ah, the nerve!!!!

I'm glad you had a good time with your friend. You needed to vent and yes, a guy friend is wonderful to have. They can give you another perspective that women can't.


MyRealLoverOne 47M

3/20/2006 6:55 am

Yes, friendship over sex....so glad we are friends...lol

SpaceRangerNJ 56M
4687 posts
3/20/2006 6:56 am

Yippi! There is one man in Texas who is nice to our
Glad you decided to move on with respect to your Ex. It's hard to let go sometimes.
Do you think he wants to be more than friends? Bet it's driving him crazy.

SaucyNSassy 40F

3/20/2006 8:55 am

Dr.Love, it even feels right callin you that hon. You actually have read about me messing around w/ him. However, no sex. I keep putting that off.

Jadey, If I ever had plans with you all the men in the world could kiss my ass hon! lol You see, it is nice to have guy friends! He's great!

Night, I really do think that if we had sex it would ruin the friendship.

Lover, lol...If I lived in Canada.... hmm... Yeah, that's all I'm gonna say. I'm glad we are friends too sweetie!

S.R., There are actually a few nice men in Texas but 2 of them are married (so, no sex there) and there are a few others they have just learned how to disappoint me like the losers in my life.
I know that he wants to have sex w/ me BUT that is all it would be sex/fucking. I have a hard time just "fucking". He's a great guy but he is still in love w/ his ex and in a way... so am I. He's a huge temptation but if we can keep our hands out from under eachothers clothes when we are together, we will be fine. lol


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