I'm looking for love  

SassyKatsDestiny 35F
5 posts
2/21/2006 10:01 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

I'm looking for love

hi everyone I am almost 24 years old and have yet to find the true meaning of being in love I thought I was in love for 4 years with this guy only to find out I really didnt know what love was I took his abuse because he said he loved me and after 4 years he left me for my brothers fiancee' the day after thanksgiving in 2004 he took me for a fool big time since then I have come to find there are quite a few guys who find me desirable and tell me I have some really good qualities but I have yet to find true love with someone I can settle down with I always find the married guys but none of them at least have tried telling me they love me cause I wont believe it I want someone I can be friends with first and foremost then a relationship built on friendship and trust I am always there for my friends especially when they really need a friend why cant I find a friend who is gonna be there for me all the time and in the end be mine


minnesotanice 62M
2 posts
2/21/2006 12:17 pm

Hi Sassy I find it interesting that you have had 18 views and no comments. I know I think differently than most men, although I know what men in general are like but I don't fully understand it, there is no excuss for abuse. You call youself "sassy" I wonder what that means, are you really sassy or do you feel that you have to be that way. I like one-to-one conversation about any subject without contention or judging. You see I think whatever thoughts and feeling you have are legimate and we can discuss them in a calm kind caring atmospher. It seems that I have the oposite problem every woman I meet falls in love with me, I don't say that to bragg, it hurts me to have to end a relationship I just can't "play the field" I am honest and always tell each about the others and when one relation gets serious I will end the others and it really hurts me to break their heart. Maybe I'm selective about who I meet, I can tell in a few minuts of conversation if I like the person or not, and generally that first impression is right. Please don't ever take abuse (verbal or physical) from any man if he is abusive don't have anything to do with him even if he is very sorry about it later, don't think he will change, it will happen again. I wish you the best in finding a relationship, meanwhile keep smiling and be nice to the boys have fun. Don't be afraid to let the guys know you are available, some guys don't pick up on that so easy, and I think those are the ones that turn out to be the good ones. I say "if you want love you have to make love" enjoy intimacy and don't hessitate to move on if there is something about them that you don't like.

elysianpleasure 48M

2/22/2006 5:26 am

Everyones looking for love... it just so hard to find. Good luck in your search...


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