What about love?  

Sammie222 57M/60F
14 posts
1/28/2006 2:46 pm

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What about love?

Does anyone believe that it is possible to add a third party to your relationship and all fall in love? How would you plan this kind of future?

se7enwood 55M
37 posts
1/31/2006 1:26 am

Certainly it is possible to have a 3 person LTR, it just has to be the right 3 people. It all depends on what each wants to get out of the relationship on how one would plan this kind of future, but ultimately, it would come down to maintenance of respect for everyone involved. What are you looking for?

Sammie222 57M/60F

1/31/2006 8:58 am

I am just curious about other ppl's experiences in this life style and if any have gotten real involved. I am just interested in knowing more. I am sure there are ppl that this happense with and I am curious. Thanks se7enwood.

se7enwood 55M
37 posts
2/1/2006 2:58 pm

I've been involved with a few 3-somes; a couple of them, we had gotten together several times over a period of time. But I can't say we progressed further emotionally than close friends. Although, there was this one couple that I wouldn't have minded getting more involved, but they ended up relocating.

After reading my post, I see you may have misunderstood my question. When I asked about what you were looking for, I was attempting to get a feel for what might interest you in getting involved in a long term 3 way relationship and if you might be interested in finding out more about me.

Sammie222 57M/60F

2/21/2006 1:06 pm

Sorry about taking so long to respond sevenwood, I have had little free time. Am currently working on freeing up some time and getting out there but can make no one any promises. Kids have a way of breaking all hell loose! haha But thanks for the offer and hope your having fun here! Take care....Sammie

se7enwood 55M
37 posts
2/24/2006 1:50 pm

Thanks for the invite, Sammie. I hear where you are coming from as far as finding free time. Hope I'll catch you online sometime to find out a little more about you.

rm_crempuf4u 62M/60F
2 posts
8/6/2006 3:49 pm

It's interesting you pose that question and leaves one wondering REALLY what the motivation was behind it ?
Because it ABSOLUTELY is possible for more than 2 people to be involved in a loving relationship. Easy - no. Think of the balance and negotiation involved in even the simplest relationship ! Now multiply it accordingly.
On the other hand seems we've all learned that noting of value comes easy and our vote would be that the rewards can far outweigh the effort.
After all - it's nothing new !
It also seems that this is the biggest fear most couples have in the back of their mind. They want to limit the interaction to a physical act with little or no intimacy. Why, we've even heard some couples have "rules" !! Like "no kissing" ! Can you even imagine !!! How could that possible feel to be intimately (so called) with someone and yet not be free to express a simple, warm gesture as a kiss?
Well, it's a big world and everyone is free to live according to whatever brings 'happiness' as long as it harms none.
But somehow - it seems to miss the entire point......
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