bisexual..bicourious..bicomfortable..???where do you fit  

4888 posts
7/25/2006 1:07 am
bisexual..bicourious..bicomfortable..???where do you fit

Early on my blogs I had a mission to help answer many questions about being a bisexual woman..when you get a chance read " my bi-sexuality... for real this time ... " I challenge you " " the horny housewives of bisexia lane"

This was also to get people to ask questions and see the diversity in being a bisexual woman and what it all means to us... and trust me.. so many avenues go into this..
The reason I started this was at one time my Profile read that I was Bisexual.. I would get tons of emails " I want you to meet my wife.. from men.. or from woman.. I want you .. and If I went to a party or m&g.. woman just thought i was just ready a willing to jump in bed with them...
well.. just so happens.. my bisexuality means more to me then just jumping in bed with a woman..need a lil bit more then that.. like an attraction.. this is very helpful.

I truly enjoy being with a woman with chemistry and set boundaries just like any other relationship and thanks to shaveclean2 she has brought another term to the language to help express ourselves..
bi comfortable..
like her my preference is my hubby but I also would love to have a woman in my life.. but I must be Bi comfortable with her..and this is not easy to find..
so as much as I'm a bisexual woman... no doubt about that.. I do fall into the bi comfortable label as well..
I hate labels but sometimes you just need them..
My dear friend libgemoh started the " bisexia lane " post for fun and to open the forum.. but to all of us ladies this is a dear subject to us with so much misunderstanding of who we really are..
so please read.. and maybe learn a few things if your curious about the subject..
the entire point to this is just not to assume .. and to learn that its not something we just woke up and said.. I think I'll color my hair and sleep with a woman today..
and again.. feel free to link any bisexual feelings or post here

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

wildoats19622 55M
3530 posts
8/6/2006 1:48 am

Okay fourth time is a charm. I've replied to this post three times and it has yet to appear. I'm bi too, I've said that before. It's interesting that people who know you are bi would assume that you would be willing to have sex with their wife or them as the case may be. Being bi doesn't mean that you'll take on all comers (pun intended). Feeling some attraction will make sex so much more enjoyable. A big portion of that is psychological. I don't know if I believe in love at first sight, but there is lust at first sight. That can end as soon as an annoying habit appears.

What hair were you thinking of coloring?


Crosswords increase your vocabulary. Cross words increase your blood pressure.

wildoats19622 55M
3530 posts
8/5/2006 11:31 pm

I'm bi also, I've said it a few other times. I don't have it in my profile. If I said I was straight would people automatically assume that I want to go to bed with any woman? Being bi doesn't mean a willingness to sleep with all comers (pun intended). Straight, gay, or bi attraction is very important. You might enjoy it more if you at least like your lover.

I should do a dance in the moonlight, I could use the exercise


Crosswords increase your vocabulary. Cross words increase your blood pressure.


8/5/2006 3:44 am

THANKS.. many assume we will fuck anything.. sheesh..
what ever dance you would like darlin

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

wildoats19622 55M
3530 posts
8/4/2006 10:42 pm

Being bi isn't the same as being easy, for sex to be good there has to be a degree of connection. I'm bi. That doesn't mean I want to fuck or suck every guy I see, just like I don't want to fuck every woman I see.

Would that dance under the stars be a jig or a slow dance?


Crosswords increase your vocabulary. Cross words increase your blood pressure.

pragmaticCTcpl 62M/51F

7/26/2006 8:24 am

I'm bisexual and very comfortable with it..!!!

Perhaps one day the world can look at everyone and accept people from all walks of life and sexual pratices without judgement and fear. That would be a wonderful thing...!!!

SacredStarDance replies on 7/26/2006 4:17 pm:
I have finally grown up nuff to not care what other people think of how I'am or feel.. but it hurts to see many go through the same growing pains.. of acceptance..

under the stars... with ignorance behind us

Eddie5011 43M

7/25/2006 11:39 pm

The only similar thing I can think of is in the past I've had lots of mates who assume all gay blokes want to cop off with them. What are the odds of a gay man fancying them out of everybody. I always saw it as an insecurity.

SacredStarDance replies on 7/26/2006 2:52 am:
insecurity or one searching for love ??

toothysmile 51M
16517 posts
7/25/2006 11:02 pm

i am rather clear in my sexual preferences. however...
MRSMUFFLAND libgemOH mycin62

sweet kisses under the stars.

SacredStarDance replies on 7/26/2006 2:51 am:
very sweet

MaggiesWishes 61F

7/25/2006 12:09 pm

The beauty and depth of any relationship has to start with being comfortable.
I like this "term" you refer to.
Damn women, are so smart!

Sis, I like ya, no holds bar ... you are a friend that one can't resist and demands respect as the lady she is.

warm huggies 2ya

SacredStarDance replies on 7/25/2006 7:05 pm:
that was so sweet hun... thank you... huggsssssssss

and under the stars

rm_gerson42 53M
2419 posts
7/25/2006 11:26 am

I guess since I live with a bisexual women I must have worked it out. lol Labels suck.
ger - (Commenting freely and without expectation.)

SacredStarDance replies on 7/25/2006 7:04 pm:
yes labels suck..try to use them only in grocery stores

rm_shaveclean2 57M/44F
691 posts
7/25/2006 8:17 am

LMAO!!!! I think We may Have Started Something!!!! So Lets Start a Revolution and "Bi-Comfortable" Women Unite!!!!!!!!!!!


SacredStarDance replies on 7/25/2006 7:03 pm:
yes.. always room for a new term... thanks for letting me link

mycin62 55F

7/25/2006 5:32 am

I couldn't agree more

SacredStarDance replies on 7/25/2006 7:03 pm:

libgemOH 57M/53F

7/25/2006 3:29 am

You're bisexual??? Really?

I'm sorry, my mommy says we can't play anymore...

and iI guess, ina rather warped way, that is my point... -B

SacredStarDance replies on 7/25/2006 7:02 pm:
grrrrrrr.. ok... stumped with that one.... huggssssssssssss

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