What a long strange trip it's been.  

SFla2Some 54M/57F
6 posts
3/9/2005 6:25 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What a long strange trip it's been.

Well, if you are gonna start your first ever blog it might as well be on a swinger's site. I figure we expose just about everything else about ourselves here, why not out thoughts also.

We are planning our yearly trip out to Vegas and decided to check out some of the swinger's clubs there this trip out. Cruising through the forums for one of em, we happened on a number of posts concerning single males and how they act at swinger's clubs. It's amazing that no matter what city we have played in, the theme is always the same in a club that allows single males. As soon as a woman enters a group/orgy room to play with her partner, a horde of single males surround the poor couple and the woman quickly feels uncomfortable. It has happened to us now and again, but as I have no problem telling someone to back the fuck up, it isnt a big deal. Additionally, my lovely wife has on occasion been in the mood to enjoy all that attention so it isn't always a bad thing. Anyone have any thoughts or experiences with this? This isn't a knock on single guys in the scene per se, just an observation on that pack mentality that sometimes comes through.

It's kind of surreal, sitting here and thinking back to all the firsts the wife and I have experienced together. The first time we met a couple. The first time we actually played with another couple. Our first single male added in. Our first Orgy. Her first experience with a woman. The first time she had sex with an African-American gentleman. Her first DP. Hooking up with a couple and having the other woman get jealous watching my wife bang her husband. That was ugly, trust me.

Looking back, its been a pretty wild 10 years in the lifestyle for us.


6/5/2005 1:21 pm

As a single guy your observations are accurate, I hope I am not among the herd, but in defense of the single guys the fellow who hangs back will be left behind... I think there is a happy medium, to be achieved by the Single guys. I to have a number of happy memories, about firsts.
I enjoy Deenies as it is a friendly place for single guys, in Vegas the Red Rooster is good too. In Phoenix Tony's Sociables II is also a very single guy friendly place.
Well enough for now, hope to see all at Deenies soon.

2 posts
6/8/2005 12:00 pm

hi we enjoy group rooms hub and i get started and when iam really
going i enjoy alll the guys around jerking off and pick 2 to join

1 post
1/8/2006 7:58 am

I like to join a couple or group for 3some or more and you look real people in this site. Mail me and see if we can get together.

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