Why I Joined AFF  

Rudy1166 51M
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3/20/2006 3:29 pm

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4/6/2006 4:13 pm

Why I Joined AFF

I'll try to be as brief as possible.

Because my ex and I were no longer compatable, we decided to split in August. Soon after we separated in October, I joined AdultFriendFinder. Didn't do much here until the divorce was final the end of December.

Since then, I've been slowly moving on with my life and she with hers. We have a daughter who will be 4 in June and we split custody 50/50.
I know very well that I'm not ready to commit to anybody anytime soon. And I'm not going to BS anyone into anything.

But I don't want to give up sex or my sensuality because I'm not ready for anything serious.
I am at heart a warm, affectionate and fun guy. I lost all of that in the later part of my marriage as our differences were hardening us against eachother.

Now that I'm on my own again, I can heal from the wounds that the marriage inflicted. I need alot of time alone to do that.
Finding new friendships, including the sexual kind will be a great help in moving on with my life.
I feel the sun rising in my life again, and though I sometimes still feel the pain and anger of a failed marriage, I'm ready to live again.


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