Must be something in the water  

Rudy1166 51M
132 posts
3/30/2006 7:06 pm

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Must be something in the water

In the past 8 months, 5 people in my work area got divorced. The way I've been feeling about it, I don't see myself ever getting married again.
Too much of a gamble. I have a beautiful daughter. That's enough for me.

Then again, who knows how I'll feel in a few years.

southrnpeach333 51F

4/1/2006 8:32 am

famous last words!!!

rm_shaveclean2 57M/44F
691 posts
4/2/2006 3:00 pm

Maybe people see someone separating and then they ponder about their own life. They figure why should they stay unhappy. You know "If they can do it then I can do it"!! I think you'll re-marry...but that's just my humble opinion! Happy Blogging!!

G the female 1/2 of Shaveclean2


Rudy1166 replies on 4/2/2006 3:55 pm:
What you say makes sense.

As far as me remarrying....I don't know.
I do know that I value my single life alot more now
than I did before I got married. I don't know how willing
I am of giving up my freedom again.
Then again, maybe the right woman won't make me feel like
a wretched servant like my ex did.

rm_shaveclean2 57M/44F
691 posts
4/2/2006 10:38 pm

I think that a bad marriage would turn the biggest optimist into a pessimist. I do think that right woman would not do that to you. My partner in crime felt the same way you did. Now his attitude has changed....I don't nag him and I give him space.


singleagain53578 48F

4/4/2006 4:59 pm

When I told everyone at work I was getting yet another divorce, it seemed that everyone followed suit. A shame really. I do believe in marriage and I love the idea of growing old with the man of my dreams, but the men I had chosen were not the best of choices I have made. Who knows, maybe some day I will get married again. But maybe not-2 divorces under ones belt does not look good to alot of people's eyes.

Heck- let's just live in SIN for the rest of our lives. SOund like fun??


Rudy1166 replies on 4/4/2006 5:42 pm:
Sounds a heck of alot better than staying with someone who will make you miserable the rest of your life. Yeah, give me some SIN.

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