Do you have sex after saying hello?  

Rubenesquelady5 46F
169 posts
9/9/2006 5:14 pm

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9/16/2006 1:56 pm

Do you have sex after saying hello?


A weird encounter. I had a busy day however on my way to a party I was co-organizing, I stopped by a cafe in town to have a coffee with someone from here.

Background:
He had contacted me earlier and well he had a rather nice profile but he lives in Göteborg and comes to Stockholm often however a couple of months ago I exchanged emails to and fro and decided, nah, too far and well I can't exactly run every time someone drops by my city can I? The least he could have done if he was really gobsmacked by my profile was establish a line of communication BEFORE he arrives not while he is in the city and has a couple of hours free.

Anyway I guess I was bored and well he probably forgot all this previous emailing business and he consistently contacts me and well I thought why not, its coffee after all.

I re-read his profile, and despite the fact that he can't spell (steak was spelled stake) he had pretty interesting content. I don't know if my panties were sliding off the floor thinking about the encounter but I am usually happy to socialize and besides it was COFFEE.

Anyhow I head over and meet him. He was an alright looking guy. After the hello, he doesn't stop looking at me.

And before I could begin to wonder why, he sort of half whispers "so what do you like"
And I retort "define that, what do you want to know"

"Well you know, for fun, for sex" I wont go into the details but you can imagine my response. After a few minutes (he had his hand tucked near his crotch, I think he had a hard one just thinking about the whole idea of meeting a stranger, weird)
of intense looking from his part and me trying to avoid his look.
I was already thinking of excuses to run away.

Then, the hair that broke the camel's back or in this case, my patience - he said "nice if we could find a place to have some fun"

Again, a sticker for details, I asked "what do you mean" and he said "so we can be intimate?

And I think he said to taste me as well.

By now, the IQ level in the sofa had dipped beyond repair, no wait, I was still sitting there so it was relatively stable at this point.

Long story short, I left him to his search and I went off happily to spend a wonderful evening with my friends even if the evening did not include exciting sex.

Don't mistake this post as a cold, prude, cock teaser trying to put down males. I am hot, wild, sexy and sponteneous however I did have random wild sex with strangers, yeah but when I was much younger and less experienced. These days I prefer to be intellectually stimulated and to get to know someone before I exchange saliva with them.

And most of all I want chemistry so that my panties do indeed drop the moment I see my lover. Why get so worked up for someone you may not see again or maybe once every three months? When I get together with someone when the chemistry is right, boy, we HAVE to see alot of each other!

However back to the original post:

Do men from AdultFriendFinder really think that women from this site are that easy?

Rubenesquelady5 46F
99 posts
9/10/2006 2:11 am

Hi again Wanttry!

It is always a pleasure to hear from you

I'll take that nympho discussion to as you said, another post hahaha!

Well the thing is darling, I really thought after re-reading his profile that he was an intelligent, classy guy however looks/intuition can be deceiving.

I did tell him that I was looking for something more substantial, not random sex. By that I don't mean a ring on my finger at the first date but I like to be wined and dined, romanced and to be treated like a lady. You know, the full works. Not a skirt up in an alley somewhere in Stockholm.

That doesn't mean I don't get wild, I just do it more sensibly and with the right person, not someone I met all of 3 mins.


Rubenesquelady5 46F
99 posts
9/14/2006 2:49 pm

Thanks sweetie! I just know your're going to be great to meet - cute, intelligent and such a gentleman. Gives the rest of your species hope


rm_thnxptsc 49M
12 posts
9/16/2006 7:32 am

Great story - sorry it turned out as it did. You cracked me up when you said to konogo in your last post "Give the rest of your species hope" !! Hard to say what drives some people to act the way they do. Whether it is this encounter or just plain rudeness and indifference that you see everyday while "people-watching". I was on the train from Sollentuna week before last and it was jammed full. A lady got on from work, briefcase, papers, etc. And not one guy stood up and offered her a seat. Seems like with the internet and computers we are all very anonymous- consideration and respect have gone the way of the dodo bird.... Well, I will tell you that there was at least one gentleman on that train and she did not have to stand all the way back to Central station....


Rubenesquelady5 46F
99 posts
9/16/2006 1:56 pm

Oh how nice that you gave your seat to her. I often do that for mothers and elderly myself.
The Dodo bird....hmm haven't heard anyone refer to it in passing since my art classes years ago. Interesting....


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